Topic: Why are men like that?
markc48's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:10 AM
Well you look nice to me. Quit going after young ones they dont know what they want.bigsmile

born2walkalone's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:11 AM
You are right..I am a fool..I suppose I had it coming for being so trusting.

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Sun 09/28/08 09:11 AM

you have to realize that he was probably doesn't like himself. How could he like you or love you if he couldn't even love himself.



This can't be further from the truth. He loves himself TOO much. He did this for giggles. It was definitely an ego boost for him

TheShadow's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:12 AM
Ill ask again, did you ever meet him?

wiley's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:13 AM

I guess you are right..the only thing is he had never met me.,therefore he didn't get any..lol..no loss in my part..I'm just wondering why he couldn't of been honest.


The answer is no Shadow.

born2walkalone's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:13 AM
Edited by born2walkalone on Sun 09/28/08 09:14 AM

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Sun 09/28/08 09:13 AM
I'm sorry this happened to you. But, and here's the big thing, you'd never met in person. How could it be the "real" thing without that? You were willing to give up your whole life to be with someone you'd never met. What would have happened if you had moved there and there was no attraction in real life the way there was in cyberland? Again I'm sorry this happened but be very glad it happened BEFORE any real harm was done. Next time, maybe think about taking it a little slower flowerforyou flowerforyou

wiley's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:14 AM

Met him once for dinner..that's it.


So he did meet you then? spock

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Sun 09/28/08 09:14 AM
she said no

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Sun 09/28/08 09:14 AM
noway noway noway Ouch, what a creep!!! It's NOT all men by any means and I've seen and heard of some NASTY women into this kind of crap, too. I hope you can keep your place or find a new one promptly, etc. And, maybe from now on, keep to local relationships.
God bless you!!!!! flowerforyou

wiley's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:15 AM
laugh Something's not adding up here all of a sudden.

born2walkalone's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:16 AM
Well thank you for your responses..I appreciate it..I've come to the conclusion..that this was my fault..I suppose I wanted to be in love and became too trusting and too stupid..Once again thank you and have a blessed Sunday.

Pink_lady's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:18 AM

laugh Something's not adding up here all of a sudden.


So did ya meet him or not?!?

and why edit?!

TheShadow's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:18 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Sun 09/28/08 09:20 AM


Met him once for dinner..that's it.


So he did meet you then? spock


what! Ok, someone tell me whats wrong with this? your going to move for somone you met for dinnerohwell To be honest here, This is your falt. Not trying to be mean hear,but what do you really expect from us now knowing this. just a suggestion, but before you diside to change your whole life. Id try to get to know the person and spend time with them. Age didn't have anthing to with this, it had to do with you jumping in with both feet and not knowing where you were jumping into.

wiley's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:18 AM



Met him once for dinner..that's it.


So he did meet you then? spock


what! Ok, someone tell me whats wrong with this. your going to move for somone you met for dinner, To be honest here, This is your falt. Not trying to be mean hear. But what doi you really expect from us now knowing this. just a suggestion, but before you diside to change your whole life. Id try to get to know the person and spend time with them. Age didn't have to with any of this, it had to do with you jumping in with both feet and not knowing where you were jumoing into.


Well she said he hadn't met her earlier. Something isn't jiving here...

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Sun 09/28/08 09:19 AM
Edited by Jbomb on Sun 09/28/08 09:33 AM

That would be " Some Men"



Well said.



Sorry that this happened to you
but, I think giving up your place and planning to move without really knowing all the details or having met in person was way too trusting/ naive.Use this as a learning experience and move on.flowerforyou


Hmmm..... deactivated; sounds suspicious to me.

oldsage's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:20 AM
Very simple: This is the internet, trust NO ONE till you have talked to them for QUITE awhile; met several times, know for sure they are relationship situation & can really feel saf/count on them as a FRIEND. Your friends need to have met them & consider their opinions. NEVER make a move quickly. If there is a large age difference, be even more careful.

YOU CANNOT be PLAYED, unless YOU ALLOW it.

JMO

Or this is all just an attention seeking story.

no photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:20 AM
Everyone falls for the nigerian money scam the first time they see it.


This is the same thing. This is probably the first time she's seen the 'nigerian love scam' like I like to call it

Pink_lady's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:23 AM




Met him once for dinner..that's it.


So he did meet you then? spock


what! Ok, someone tell me whats wrong with this. your going to move for somone you met for dinner, To be honest here, This is your falt. Not trying to be mean hear. But what doi you really expect from us now knowing this. just a suggestion, but before you diside to change your whole life. Id try to get to know the person and spend time with them. Age didn't have to with any of this, it had to do with you jumping in with both feet and not knowing where you were jumoing into.


Well she said he hadn't met her earlier. Something isn't jiving here...


Looks like a lil porkie has been told!

Makes ya wonder......why ya bother givin serious answers.....

wiley's photo
Sun 09/28/08 09:25 AM





Met him once for dinner..that's it.


So he did meet you then? spock


what! Ok, someone tell me whats wrong with this. your going to move for somone you met for dinner, To be honest here, This is your falt. Not trying to be mean hear. But what doi you really expect from us now knowing this. just a suggestion, but before you diside to change your whole life. Id try to get to know the person and spend time with them. Age didn't have to with any of this, it had to do with you jumping in with both feet and not knowing where you were jumoing into.


Well she said he hadn't met her earlier. Something isn't jiving here...


Looks like a lil porkie has been told!

Makes ya wonder......why ya bother givin serious answers.....


Benefit of the doubt, until they out themselves. At least for me anyway. *shrug*