JUST NEED AN ADVICE SHE HAS A 6YR OLD GIRL AND WE ARE NOT GETTING ALONG BUT I FEEL BAD FOR THE GIRL SHE LOVES ME BUT ME AND HER MOM WE FIGHT TO MUCH

So start a new bloody thread? Or hijack someone else's with your personal concern? I think you would get more positive responses starting your own thread then jumping into someone else's and making your point...

OK THANKS

First, you really should create a new thread for your question. This one belongs to the OP. It's not good manners to take over someone else's thread with your own question. Just click on the Relationship Advice forum and click the New Post button.

Second, the 'All caps' thing is very hard on the eyes.

To the OP I think you had one of those delightful rare insights where you just get it. In science they are truly wonderful because they may answers to equations. After all you didn't break up with your daughter when she was joking with your boyfriend about you. Evidently your daughter was wise enough to know just how far to go with the joke. It was actually more than just one dis when you think about it.

I respect your actions.That was a degrading comment.You don't disrespect your lady in public.Period.And in front of your daughter.I believe you were learning the game to be closer to him and that's admirable in my eyes.I also think you know more about football than you think, sometimes you gotta drop back and punt.Good show.He's the ignorant one.Take care.

ah man...that is crackn me up.....

In my humble opinion, I think that if he said those things to you unprovoked, then he is at fault. If you provoked him and he said those things, he is still at fault. Solution - well, I don't think there is a solution really, except to try to help each other a little more in the areas that need helping in.

Roco

In your situation, I'd take the approach of using leverage in reverse.
He said what he did because he enjoyed making fun of you in front of people. Whether he meant to degrade you as if you're totally clueless and a 'ball and chain' already, it would come back in other forms, and not nice.
By leverage in reverse, I mean that he also has at least one weakness, a fear of being made to look stupid in front of people.
The most effective and permanent method to use that weakness against him is in front of other men...and go straight for the throat. No dancing around about it. Doll yourself up, be the prize of a gathering where men that he admires are present, and then castrate him by telling the guys that this pig sucker couldn't satisfy the sexual needs of his right hand...that he doesn't know anything about being a man.
Then dump him.