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Topic: Am I too sensitive
sara89 Joined Fri 11/30/07 Posts: 1143	Fri 09/19/08 08:12 PM
Is this that same rich guy that loved you to the end but you didnt find him attractive, yet still wanted to be with him because he was "very well off"? hey look its sally

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Fri 09/19/08 08:13 PM
i think you did nothing wrong, who would want to be with someone like that?

Mich559 Joined Sat 07/26/08 Posts: 28	Fri 09/19/08 08:17 PM
Well first of all he never should of talked about you like that especially if he loved you! He should never put the woman that he loves down like that he should teach you about football so that you could know more about it not talk to other people about you!

Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Fri 09/19/08 08:22 PM Edited by Nova86 on Fri 09/19/08 08:23 PM
i would have to say that this is his true personality....he is not going to change who he is....so if this truly upsets you (and it should) then there would definitely be problems down the road who knows, maybe he can tone it down some.....but my guess is that's who he is and you either take it and love it...or do what you did lol

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Fri 09/19/08 08:27 PM
Those were definately "In the Doghouse" or "sleepin on the couch" or "You aint gettin none tonight words" Not sure if I would kick someone out for it but don't know your situation good luck

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Fri 09/19/08 08:27 PM
Is this that same rich guy that loved you to the end but you didnt find him attractive, yet still wanted to be with him because he was "very well off"? hey look its sally Dont ya just love me....lol!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 09/19/08 08:33 PM
That was a very degrading remark. Get out now while it's still early.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Fri 09/19/08 08:35 PM
I just came from a football game with my daughter, and my boyfriend. They were both joking with me cause I dont' know alot about football but am trying to learn, and have been for awile.. well my "boyfriend" was mouthing off and was joking with this lady who was sitting close to us, he said "she (meaning me) doesn't know anything about football, then he added, actually she doesn't know anything about anything." I immediately lost it..told him the relationship was over and that was that....when we came home from the game, I sent him on his way...and I meant it...am I being too harsh? or should I let it go? I think it was callous and inconsiderate and shows what he is made of...need you know your opinions...pls. whatta goof.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Fri 09/19/08 08:35 PM
Well I don't know that I would have gone off at him right at that moment. I would have definitely talked to him about it though. Sounds like you were already somewhat over the relationship and that was the straw that broke the camel's back.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Fri 09/19/08 08:36 PM
I just came from a football game with my daughter, and my boyfriend. They were both joking with me cause I dont' know alot about football but am trying to learn, and have been for awile.. well my "boyfriend" was mouthing off and was joking with this lady who was sitting close to us, he said "she (meaning me) doesn't know anything about football, then he added, actually she doesn't know anything about anything." I immediately lost it..told him the relationship was over and that was that....when we came home from the game, I sent him on his way...and I meant it...am I being too harsh? or should I let it go? I think it was callous and inconsiderate and shows what he is made of...need you know your opinions...pls. A joke is one thing but it sounds like he took it to far, but that choice will have to be yours to make. (Hugs) And good luck

Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Fri 09/19/08 08:37 PM
Well I don't know that I would have gone off at him right at that moment. I would have definitely talked to him about it though. Sounds like you were already somewhat over the relationship and that was the straw that broke the camel's back. sorry have to get off the subject for a second i would really like to see a straw that could break a camel's back....okay go ahead with the thread...just thinking out loud over the internet lol

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Fri 09/19/08 08:40 PM
The saying doesn't mean a single straw broke the camel's back but that there was so much already that adding one more straw is what did it... You seem intelligent enough to get that so I'm not sure why we had to go

Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Fri 09/19/08 08:47 PM
The saying doesn't mean a single straw broke the camel's back but that there was so much already that adding one more straw is what did it... You seem intelligent enough to get that so I'm not sure why we had to go i know what the saying was talking about...but i would like to see someone drop 1 single straw onto a camel....(no matter what else is on his back) and it have such destructive force it just seems like some YouTube stuff that is all lol

dolphin14 Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 1123	Fri 09/19/08 08:51 PM
Was he joking around when he said it or was he serious? Sometimes we can be extra sensitive at times when really the guys are just joking around. I think u kinda of over reacted and i think u realize it now and that is why u are askin for opinions. U can't say u really like the guy and then kick him out without discussing issues. Not a healthy type of relationship if u do that.

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Fri 09/19/08 09:01 PM
when a guy starts making me look bad like that its usually the end...however i like to bow out gracefully and give myself enough time to take a good bite out of his a** before I go..hell hath no fury like a woman scorned

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Fri 09/19/08 10:23 PM
I can't believe he would disrespect you in front of your daughter and strangers,I agree that his true personality is showing through.No excuse but that's only my opinion.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 09/19/08 11:22 PM
Sounds more like he was joking...could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure he was probably having a bit of a laugh about it...but hell, maybe you don't like a sense of humor.

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Fri 09/19/08 11:33 PM
Only you can know. This is the kind of thing that I know, in my own relationships, would pass as banter... saying it to someone else just to get my dander up (or saying it to me). Of course I would have to know that it was just banter and we would have to be pretty secure in the relationship. Many (most?) don't have that kind of bantering relationship. I can only assume that you seeing it as inappropriate means that it was, in fact, inappropriate. It is possible that he saw it as 'poking fun'. You're the only one that can make that judgement.

NICARAGUA Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 17	Fri 09/19/08 11:34 PM
OK I AM WITH A GIRL I AM A LESBIAN BUT HAVING PROBLEMS MY GIRL HAS AN ATTITUDE AND WE TALK ABOUT IT BUT WE SAY WE ARE GOING TO CHAGE BUT WE DONT SHOULD I BREAK UP WITH HER

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 09/19/08 11:39 PM
OK I AM WITH A GIRL I AM A LESBIAN BUT HAVING PROBLEMS MY GIRL HAS AN ATTITUDE AND WE TALK ABOUT IT BUT WE SAY WE ARE GOING TO CHAGE BUT WE DONT SHOULD I BREAK UP WITH HER WTF?