Firerescuevol- by now you may think we are all nuts and the meanest little motherf*ckers you ever seen at a playground. We are not. Its just that the "why me- good guys finish last" thread has been around since the site started. And its become a running solicitation of pity joke forever. You are new to the site. You are more than forgiven for not knowing this. Greetings and welcome to the site. Hope you enjoy it here and you have a great time. As for your dilemna- I read your profile and by gosh you are a good man. Too good. Don't finish last! 3 years for a divorce decree? Dude- make it like tomorrow! Time to become a take charge kinda guy. Quit letting things and people walk over you- it practically says that between the lines in your profile. As for your last 3 old ladies that told you "Sorry, but you're a nice guy" well screw em! Move on and quit doting on or about them. They are not the only women on the planet. Do you realize that there are 19 billion other women on this planet that can't wait to change you into the man you're not, treat you like sh!t, take half of what you own, and then boot you to the curb for the fagass interior decorator that did your curtains? Its true! Time to move on my freind! Take charge! Wake up before its too late.

omg, yes!

If you don't take charge- you'll be outta this site in the time it takes to say "You suck in bed!"

awwww, come back, i promise to used plenty of lube

This is very simple to answer....No woman wants to date a man who is a p*ssy!!! Take charge men.

To make it even easier...quit dating cheating women. Take charge is a good choice when dating because women don't want to hold your hand 100% of the time, but also choose your women so they don't cheat on you for the simplest of reasons.

Hummmmmmmmmm another nice guy thread noway noway noway noway


Ya know one must find out why they are leaving them and fix what is wrong. Believe me they are not all that good in every area or they would not get left behind.

Maybe they actually whine too much. That is the quickest way to turn me off in a heart beat. I don't care how good they think they are but if they whine all the time about everything. Naw not for me, ya see most women want a Man that can be a Man but knows how to show there feelings.

Not a whiner and then expect you to make all the choices in life and make choices for them too.

Sounds like to me you need to take a step back and look at the women you choose. Sorry just the ones you have told us about there is a pattern there that is very clear.

Quit going for the ones that let a man knock her around and are rebounds from a relationship.JMO

I treat women like sluts, and I score...and I am an okay guy. See...have multiple personalities and you will win.

Fifteen two, fifteen four, fifteen six, and a pair is eight.

My buddies told me to tell you if you woulda bought that harley dyna wide glide in the first place instead of that honda shadow you wouldn't be having these problems. Wishy washy metrics gets you wishy washy chicks.

I have a full house biker.

Can't go wrong with that one...

because you don't stop and ask for directions?

except yourself....and that's your problem in life.

why the flying f*ck would you continue to treat someone like that with respect? why would you continue to be her shoulder to cry on...You're an enabler and you deserve your heartache....

I was told that I was too nice. People told me I shouldn't be a door mat. But everyone is different and has different tastes. I'm just a nice guy and I try to be courtious to women. What's wrong with that?

Nothing, as long as you don't complain about it....

be who you are and love it, but if you complain, you're not all that nice....

there nothing wrong with it at all really its just some r tired of seeing the "why do nice/good guys finish last" thats all.

The nicest guy I know is my friend Tom, his wife left him and their 3 kids, we were in Chicago on a three week assignment when it happened his daughter called and told him that "mom" had taken all of the furniture and all of the pots and pans out of the house and let the kids there to fend for themselves.

I was furious, I made a few phone calls and had some pots and pans delivered to his house by friends, his response to her doing this...."It is what it is"

As time progressed she did alot of crappy things, I offered to kick her ass for him, his response to this was "why would I put you in that position?"

He doesn't complain, he doens't b*tch, he lives his life as a nice guy...a true nice guy and gentleman...

Tom is not your friend! He is on everybody's list on Myspace. Stop stalking him.

You know what's funny, he has our sense of humor and one day he called me up and told me that someone had claimed his identity and friended every person on myspace....

I met him on the plane to Chicago and he looked at me in the seat next to me and said (I had no idea who he was as we worked in different offices) and said "Wouldn't it be great if they did a reality show where everyone on the plane thought it was going to crash but it really wasn't just to see everyone's reactions" He said that on take off....We've been friends ever since.