Topic: Why do good guys always finish last?
tanyaann's photo
Fri 09/19/08 11:56 AM
ah come on now longhairbiker, you are excluding all the women now! rofl

no photo
Fri 09/19/08 11:56 AM

Rule #3, if she has better conversations with the voices in her head than she does with you, she's not worth dating. Seriously. Not kidding.


but-but, the voices in my head only tell me nice things!tears

franshade's photo
Fri 09/19/08 11:57 AM

Rule #3, if she has better conversations with the voices in her head than she does with you, she's not worth dating. Seriously. Not kidding.


on the flip side, if she has better conversations with the voices in her head, I think 'he' is really not that interesting... :laughing:

lilith401's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:10 PM
Nice doesn't mean nice.

Nice means overly solicitious.

Nice means overthinking and being a weiner.

Nice means you don't push her up against the wall and kiss her until she's breathless and than take her on the stairs 'cus you can't make it to the bed.

Nice means you have no personality.

Nice guys aren't flirtacious.

Nice guys don't take risks.

Nice guys aren't willing to try for the anal sex as they are too scared they'll get rejected.

Nice guys always ask what you want to do and where you want to go.

Nice guys drive you home and would never try to kiss you even if you fall all over them.

Nice guys loan money and say "don't worry about paying me back", and secretly seethe and resent the person they gave it to, believing it was still a loan, not a gift they made it into.

Nice guys wear ugly clothes they get as gifts.

Nice guys haven't yet figured out confidence and flattery will get you almost anywhere as long as it's sincere.


See how nice doesn't mean nice???????

franshade's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:11 PM

Nice doesn't mean nice.

Nice means overly solicitious.

Nice means overthinking and being a weiner.

Nice means you don't push her up against the wall and kiss her until she's breathless and than take her on the stairs 'cus you can't make it to the bed.

Nice means you have no personality.

Nice guys aren't flirtacious.

Nice guys don't take risks.

Nice guys aren't willing to try for the anal sex as they are too scared they'll get rejected.

Nice guys always ask what you want to do and where you want to go.

Nice guys drive you home and would never try to kiss you even if you fall all over them.

Nice guys loan money and say "don't worry about paying me back", and secretly seethe and resent the person they gave it to, believing it was still a loan, not a gift they made it into.

Nice guys wear ugly clothes they get as gifts.

Nice guys haven't yet figured out confidence and flattery will get you almost anywhere as long as it's sincere.


See how nice doesn't mean nice???????


Now Lilith was that 'nice' :laughing:

Justuw8nsee's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:12 PM

Why is it that if you are a good guy and treat women right they leave you to go back to their ex's even after being treated like ****? I took a look at my past three relationships and all three have that same thing in common. My wife left to go back to abuse after 3 years of marriage, next went back to ex and due to get married even after he hit her, and last is going back to ex after he kicked her out 3 weeks before they was going to be married. All three have said the same thing,"you are a good guy and any woman would be lucky to have you." If that's the case then why do good guys always finish last?


I hear that. It would seem that same thing happens to good girls too, and I know I don't suck in bed! lol Anyway, look at the bright side, they all did you a favor. If they didn't see and embrace you for all your wonderful qualities then they weren't worth having right?

cottonelle's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:14 PM
i`m sure jeffrey dahmer was a nice guy at first

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:14 PM
Rule #4, if all else fails, quit being a nice guy. Get some hair extentions, a harley, a wifebeater t shirt. Blare your stereo till the cops come, beat up your neighbors for calling the cops. Spit on the neighbor kids. Trip an old lady. Kick a dog. Take up bad habits. Sell meth. You will get lotsa quality chicks that are on the "Jenny crank" plan if you're their dealer. Best of all... Become physically abusive to everyone not just women. Start gently. Backhand your mother. Choke your sister. Bite your nieces ear off. You can do it! But trust me, the quality of the women that bad boys get well we can leave that to the imagination also.

DrJwells's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:15 PM
LOL!!

lilith401's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:19 PM
I need to edit some of it to make it more clear, I think.....


Nice doesn't mean nice. It means scaredy cat wimpo.

Nice means overly solicitious. You care too much about what you perceive the other person to think about you.

Nice means overthinking and being a weiner. Stopit. Just be yourself.

Nice means you don't push her up against the wall and kiss her until she's breathless and than take her on the stairs 'cus you can't make it to the bed. You must do this. And whipsre things in her ear when she's on the phone with her mom.

Nice means you have no personality. It means you just sit there and be the person you think the other person wants you to be and are afraid to say what you really think.

Nice guys aren't flirtacious. Flirt, we love flirting, love it love it love it..

Nice guys don't take risks. Don't be stupid, but go for it if it's a good bet...

Nice guys aren't willing to try for the anal sex as they are too scared they'll get rejected. Why is not tonight such a bag thing, andhey you could get lucky. Keep KY handy.

Nice guys always ask what you want to do and where you want to go. Don't. I know you think this is being courteous, and it is nice. But i want you to just make plans, if I'm averse, I'll speak up. (Oh, shy guys do this too, not just the plain ole nice guys)

Nice guys drive you home and would never try to kiss you even if you fall all over them. WTH???

Nice guys loan money and say "don't worry about paying me back", and secretly seethe and resent the person they gave it to, believing it was still a loan, not a gift they made it into. You said it was a gift. If it's a loan, just say pay me back by the first.

Nice guys wear ugly clothes they get as gifts. Exchange them.... it's okay!!

Nice guys haven't yet figured out confidence and flattery will get you almost anywhere as long as it's sincere. Be assertive and say what you mean, be positive.


See how nice doesn't mean nice???????

jtip1977's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:20 PM

Nice doesn't mean nice.

Nice means overly solicitious.

Nice means overthinking and being a weiner.

Nice means you don't push her up against the wall and kiss her until she's breathless and than take her on the stairs 'cus you can't make it to the bed.

Nice means you have no personality.

Nice guys aren't flirtacious.

Nice guys don't take risks.

Nice guys aren't willing to try for the anal sex as they are too scared they'll get rejected.

Nice guys always ask what you want to do and where you want to go.

Nice guys drive you home and would never try to kiss you even if you fall all over them.

Nice guys loan money and say "don't worry about paying me back", and secretly seethe and resent the person they gave it to, believing it was still a loan, not a gift they made it into.

Nice guys wear ugly clothes they get as gifts.

Nice guys haven't yet figured out confidence and flattery will get you almost anywhere as long as it's sincere.


See how nice doesn't mean nice???????


WOW!!! I always thought I was a "nice guy" but.........nah - definitely not!!!laugh laugh

Goofball73's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:21 PM

Nice doesn't mean nice.

Nice means overly solicitious.

Nice means overthinking and being a weiner.

Nice means you don't push her up against the wall and kiss her until she's breathless and than take her on the stairs 'cus you can't make it to the bed.

Nice means you have no personality.

Nice guys aren't flirtacious.

Nice guys don't take risks.

Nice guys aren't willing to try for the anal sex as they are too scared they'll get rejected.

Nice guys always ask what you want to do and where you want to go.

Nice guys drive you home and would never try to kiss you even if you fall all over them.

Nice guys loan money and say "don't worry about paying me back", and secretly seethe and resent the person they gave it to, believing it was still a loan, not a gift they made it into.

Nice guys wear ugly clothes they get as gifts.

Nice guys haven't yet figured out confidence and flattery will get you almost anywhere as long as it's sincere.


See how nice doesn't mean nice???????


Marry me!!!bigsmile

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:21 PM
Omg lilith!!!! I'm a nice guy!!! Excuse me while I go kill myself.

lilith401's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:24 PM
LHB.... I might miss the funeral as I'm going to go marry Goof. I'll be there to mourn you after the KY runs out....

Justuw8nsee's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:26 PM


Nice doesn't mean nice.

Nice means overly solicitious.

Nice means overthinking and being a weiner.

Nice means you don't push her up against the wall and kiss her until she's breathless and than take her on the stairs 'cus you can't make it to the bed.

Nice means you have no personality.

Nice guys aren't flirtacious.

Nice guys don't take risks.

Nice guys aren't willing to try for the anal sex as they are too scared they'll get rejected.

Nice guys always ask what you want to do and where you want to go.

Nice guys drive you home and would never try to kiss you even if you fall all over them.

Nice guys loan money and say "don't worry about paying me back", and secretly seethe and resent the person they gave it to, believing it was still a loan, not a gift they made it into.

Nice guys wear ugly clothes they get as gifts.

Nice guys haven't yet figured out confidence and flattery will get you almost anywhere as long as it's sincere.


See how nice doesn't mean nice???????


WOW!!! I always thought I was a "nice guy" but.........nah - definitely not!!!laugh laugh


I like that picture its cute! Doh!!

Goofball73's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:29 PM

LHB.... I might miss the funeral as I'm going to go marry Goof. I'll be there to mourn you after the KY runs out....


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

no photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:36 PM
You need to learn to say no. You're getting sloppy seconds. Get out and get your own. brokenheart brokenheart


lilith401's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:38 PM

You need to learn to say no. You're getting sloppy seconds. Get out and get your own. brokenheart brokenheart


It's only sloppy if you don't use protection.

cottonelle's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:44 PM

Nice guys aren't willing to try for the anal sex as they are too scared they'll get rejected.

so basicly what you are saying is that you want a guy that aint scared and willing to do you in the bum?

DrJwells's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:46 PM
Oh, gross... I'm outta here...