Ive chatted with alot of women about this very subject...now, mind you this dosent always hold true by any means, but there is a large portion of women that say this.

Without getting into the deep seeded reasons for abusive relationships where the woman goes back (lots of reasons for that and better explained by shrinks) to the guy...Ill tell you what most women have told me.

1. Younger women typically do this more so than older...they have said they like the 'excitiment' of the 'badboy' appeal. But as they get older, they look more for a 'bread-winner' and 'stable' guy to take care of them/family--essentially, their needs have changed.

2. Usally a woman does 'like' the nice guy, but dosent 'like like' them--if you get what I mean--the guy is more of a friend than a lover--and they are looking for someone with more sex appeal.

Women are JUST like us men...I do not for one minute believe that women are 'shy' and 'submissive' as so many ppl seem to be--they are just as sexually driven and perverse as us men--they just hide it better (or deny it). Not all guys are pigs and not all women are looking for that 'humdrum' kinda guy--everyone wants spice in their life.

Best thing to ask yourself is, "If I were the opposite sex, would I date me"--and for anything that you dont like about yourself, change it (if you can).

i have yet to meet a guy who defines himself as "nice" who didn't have some major flaws, ie., why he was "mistreated" in the first place. just because you consider yourself nice doesn't mean the world agrees. i used to talk to a guy, a self-proclaimed "nice guy" who turned out to be as much of a pill as the "bad boys" he was always bashing. at the end, i knew full well why he's still alone!

exactly!

Nice guys have tiny wee wee's

i still say there's more to it than them being too nice, but most people don't want to admit that.

Why do teh womenz not lik teh tiny wee wee'z?!?

cause it reminds them too much of changing diapers in daycare? just a thought??

nice guys dont finish last...the problem is that "nice" guys just dont seem to be very interested in "nice" gals....

thats a lie

Grow some peanuts and try again!

which?

its not a lie, its an "opinion".....

opinions aren't allowed on m2, we eradicated free speech yesterday.

Thought that happened months ago? I should probably edit my post...

that's one reason.... stop taking in strays!

2. women that have a history of abuse relationships will continue to cycle through and to abusive relationships..... one relationship with a 'good guy' is not going to fix them.

3. make sure you are a 'good guy' and not whiney or clingy!

you need to keep up, dude!

dang, miss a day and see what happens....

Tired of the games? There's always the clergy!

Your picking the wrong biotches, thats all.
I would kill to find someone who would treat me nice ...that is, in between dragging me around by my leash, and spanking me for being a bad girl.

I'm sorry but I don't claim to be a "nice guy", but I am just speaking from what I have been told. I do not put on a front or change who I am for anyone. I just treat people the way I want to be treated. As far as "nice guys" not likeing "nice girls" I have to disagree. I have been with one that I would of been more than happy to spend my life with. But she decided to go back to her ex that always treats her like ****. But she always comes back to me as a friend to talk about all the problems and the issues that she is having. I am far from perfect. But I do treat others with respect.