Ok so a while back when it was JSH, I met a guy, he was cool ONLINE! we meet and he is a total CHILD! Smothered me constantly. Of course I tried to Leave him be, but did he listen NO, he had to make me mad at him and I turned into a total Biatch.
Is this normal to be someone else in here, yet act like a crazy child in public??

AND


Should I not come here due to this downfall??


What would you do?

I dunno if its normal. But im sure there are plenty of people on here that are totally different in real life.

Just gotta weed through the fakes.

I wouldnt stop coming here because of one bad apple. Shyt happens. Just gotta get on with it.

Yes, it's normal. I've met several guys in person that I had talked to online and every one of them were like that. However, some people have had success with online dating, so maybe you're choosing the wrong men? I don't know. As for if you should chat on here again, by all means do! Just try to really get to know the person this time, if and when you decide to take it into "real life." Best of luck.

Hey....i was NOT like that in person!!

Lol...j/k.

Some people are better than others at hiding their true colors for a long time. But...it all comes out in the end.

I have met some very nice people online.

come here child!!!!!!!!!! haha. jk
but seriously, i met two guys off here.
one i fell in love with, and the other was a child.

soooo....don't give up hope

I think you handled that WELL!

yea be real careful on the transition to real life

i wouldnt take it personally. i mean. i am personally looking for something serious. if it doesnt work out, i would just keep it serious with others.

The problem I found was no one really treated me kind ,even women on JSH had their clicks. I like to be nice to everyone, but rudeness is just so beyond my personality, I was treated rudely because of my appearence. That has to be it , I never have enemies. What they say I suppose is true, if your skinny and mean then you get HIM, but if your like me ya get chased by crazy FOCKS who dont treat me good. I am not ugly , sure I could loose more weight, but seems as though I was/ am a magnet for mean guys. AND I BELEIVE THEM!! LMAO!


I know I sound wrong and I should not say such things. Just my feelings.
Thank you for hearing my cries lmao

i'll admit,i'm completely different in person than i am on here.i'm alot shyer and quieter in person (not sure why,i just am)but i'm not some childish person.

no one is worth your time if they are rude and mean about your appearance. everyone is beautiful.
models suck.
size 0 is bones
and thats gross :)

Gotta have fun!

models do suck - i need a woman with some junk in da trunk.

Well I did love food until it almost killed me a while back.
I was 301 and I am VERY proud to say that as of today I am 191
I know still big, but THANK GOD I AM STILL HERE TO TELL MY STORY!












I am also shyer in person. I think its because you dont have to worry about actually looking at the person right away.

AWESOME!! lost over 100 pounds!!? Wow. Thats so impressive. Congrats to you -

how the hell did you do that?

Wow!! That weight loss is quite an accomplishment.

*high five*

i used to weigh 365 and now i weigh a good 150
woot woot.
but i say all the weight is in my boooooobs.
cause i can

I had a stroke in May.
I was in the hospital for 3 moths and went from Eating everything to eating only 1200 cals a day.
Started to love myself and above all realized my child would be with out a mother to guide her.
I had NO CHOICE!