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Topic: I need an opinion here..bad
Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Thu 09/18/08 05:58 PM
I'm quite grown in case no one noticed... i usually dont feed into this ,but cant you recognize your own problem,oppps yes you do so why r you here trying to make people feel sorry for you,come on man, that sympathy sh!t is old.try a different approach WOW, you do have a brain....

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 09/18/08 05:59 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject... Maybe she doesn't like alcoholics?

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Thu 09/18/08 05:59 PM
Dont listen to an Irishman, they are all alchoholics! (disclaimer - i only refer to REAL irishmen here) Real enough that I can out drink you and also got to watch you cry! Result! lol! Yeah anyway, back on topic! lol!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 09/18/08 05:59 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject... you answered your own question,why would a girl dump me cause i drink alot,cause you drink alot

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 06:01 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject... you answered your own question,why would a girl dump me cause i drink alot,cause you drink alot Thanks for the input, so the gal was right and i'm a jackass - ok

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Thu 09/18/08 06:01 PM
Dont listen to an Irishman, they are all alchoholics! (disclaimer - i only refer to REAL irishmen here) Wait, wait...6 foot 7 and Irish.... Dan you've been replaced as my online unattainable crush... Oh wait, you were never that.... I might have a crush on a boy....

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 09/18/08 06:02 PM Edited by talldub on Thu 09/18/08 06:04 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject... you answered your own question,why would a girl dump me cause i drink alot,cause you drink alot Thanks for the input, so the gal was right and i'm a jackass - ok Eureka! We have a breakthrough! Wait, wait...6 foot 7 and Irish.... Dan you've been replaced as my online unattainable crush... Dan I've also replaced you as my online unattainable crush now ... PS <--- Man, not a boy!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Thu 09/18/08 06:02 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject... you answered your own question,why would a girl dump me cause i drink alot,cause you drink alot Thanks for the input, so the gal was right and i'm a jackass - ok For f*ck sake, now you're passive agressive too.... Get counceling....QUICK

msnj52 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 9893	Thu 09/18/08 06:03 PM
At the risk of sounding 'preachy'....you may have a problem. There's lot's of literature out there that you can read about alcoholism & I encourage you to investigate these &/or go to an AA meeting to listen & learn. When alcohol (or any drug) is so important that you continue to use despite significant negative consequences, you have to stop and ask yourself why? If the relationship was important and you allowed it to end rather than stop drinking....well that's something to look at closely.

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 06:03 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject... you answered your own question,why would a girl dump me cause i drink alot,cause you drink alot Thanks for the input, so the gal was right and i'm a jackass - ok For f*ck sake, now you're passive agressive too.... Get counceling....QUICK LOL - last time i went to counseling the guy said there was nothing he could do for me....passive aggresive? maybe...and why not?

evilpoetess Joined Tue 08/26/08 Posts: 53	Thu 09/18/08 06:04 PM
I would not date a guy who couldn't find anything more interesting to do than sit around and drink.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 09/18/08 06:04 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject... you answered your own question,why would a girl dump me cause i drink alot,cause you drink alot Thanks for the input, so the gal was right and i'm a jackass - ok jackass no,seeking sympathy,yes

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 06:05 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject... you answered your own question,why would a girl dump me cause i drink alot,cause you drink alot Thanks for the input, so the gal was right and i'm a jackass - ok jackass no,seeking sympathy,yes Damn -not seeking sympathy - just wondering WTF? Come on...

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Thu 09/18/08 06:05 PM
Wait, wait...6 foot 7 and Irish.... Dan you've been replaced as my online unattainable crush... Dan I've also replaced you as my online unattainable crush now ... PS <--- Man, not a boy! Thank christ for that!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 09/18/08 06:06 PM
I like to drink ALMOST every day. The way I look at it is this: I work my a$$ off everyday doing something that I really don't care to do - so I can get a paycheck and pay my bills....when I get home, I like to drink and enjoy myself - what's wrong with that? So can you enjoy yourself without the crutch you lean on called alcohol? If so, then no biggy.... If not... then stop being so bloody lazy, get off your arse, do the work, and learn how to live without a mask of alcohol... ( and yep I'm an aussie, and no, I won't play nice, but I will play straight..and you asked for opinions...dime a dozen and like arseholes everyone has one)

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 09/18/08 06:08 PM Edited by RKISIT on Thu 09/18/08 06:09 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject... you answered your own question,why would a girl dump me cause i drink alot,cause you drink alot Thanks for the input, so the gal was right and i'm a jackass - ok jackass no,seeking sympathy,yes Damn -not seeking sympathy - just wondering WTF? Come on... r u starting to find me attractive

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Thu 09/18/08 06:08 PM
Wait, wait...6 foot 7 and Irish.... Dan you've been replaced as my online unattainable crush... Dan I've also replaced you as my online unattainable crush now ... PS <--- Man, not a boy! Thank christ for that! Shut up Dan....

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 06:08 PM
I like to drink ALMOST every day. The way I look at it is this: I work my a$$ off everyday doing something that I really don't care to do - so I can get a paycheck and pay my bills....when I get home, I like to drink and enjoy myself - what's wrong with that? So can you enjoy yourself without the crutch you lean on called alcohol? If so, then no biggy.... If not... then stop being so bloody lazy, get off your arse, do the work, and learn how to live without a mask of alcohol... ( and yep I'm an aussie, and no, I won't play nice, but I will play straight..and you asked for opinions...dime a dozen and like arseholes everyone has one) what else is there to do that I would have the energy for after working all day?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 09/18/08 06:08 PM
If you think you drink too much, you probably do...if other people think you drink too much, they could be right...drinking nightly for little to no reason aside from 'I work a crappy job' is probably a problem. I used to drink every day for about four years, then I realized that it wasn't in my best interest...not that it mattered much with my liver in terrible condition and my kidney's on their way to failure. Honestly though, why do people drink every day...I didn't understand why it was I did, and I don't understand why others do it either. Suppose it is in the gene's, right? Uh-huh...

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 09/18/08 06:09 PM Edited by talldub on Thu 09/18/08 06:09 PM
I like to drink ALMOST every day. The way I look at it is this: I work my a$$ off everyday doing something that I really don't care to do - so I can get a paycheck and pay my bills....when I get home, I like to drink and enjoy myself - what's wrong with that? So can you enjoy yourself without the crutch you lean on called alcohol? If so, then no biggy.... If not... then stop being so bloody lazy, get off your arse, do the work, and learn how to live without a mask of alcohol... ( and yep I'm an aussie, and no, I won't play nice, but I will play straight..and you asked for opinions...dime a dozen and like arseholes everyone has one) what else is there to do that I would have the energy for after working all day? Choke the chicken? Better for your liver and much more satisfying!