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Topic: I need an opinion here..bad
talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 09/18/08 05:47 PM
Ya I totally appreciate the input don't get me wrong..I am thinking of counseling I'm going through something like that now. If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me anytime. Thanks dude - that means a lot to me! I drink maybe 4 or 5 beers a day, but like I said...some days I dont drink and if a week goes by it's no problem What beer? I know some american beer is pretty pissy. If you drink a light beer, thats not all that much at all in my opinion. Some of it? The only time we got drunk over there was when we broke out the imported whiskey and vodka!

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 05:47 PM
Ya I totally appreciate the input don't get me wrong..I am thinking of counseling I'm going through something like that now. If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me anytime. Thanks dude - that means a lot to me! I drink maybe 4 or 5 beers a day, but like I said...some days I dont drink and if a week goes by it's no problem What beer? I know some american beer is pretty pissy. If you drink a light beer, thats not all that much at all in my opinion. I drink 8 point beer

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Thu 09/18/08 05:47 PM
The problem is not your drinking. The problem is that you are going on the internet asking a bunch of total strangers whether you have a problem in this sort of antagonistic way ("what's wrong with THAT?"), ya know, like you want to fight about it or something. (Why should I give a flying fig whether you drink or not? Go at it! Drink hearty! That's the spirit! Drink more! Hell yeah! Good boy!) It could be anything: Collecting Matchbox cars, roller skating, crocheting, visiting widows and orphans, to wit: "Every day I come home from my job--which I hate--and unwind by (blank). A girl ditched me because my devotion to (blank) exceeded my desire to be in a relationship. So, what the hell is wrong with (blank)? Why should I care?" You're telling us that you have a problem, and then saying--in this sort of immature and narcissistic way--"But if you think I have a problem, YOU'RE WRONG!" If you were really just a big, loveable, happy, nonviolent drunk, you would find someone to be with who shared your values and not go posting about it on the internet. If you really thought you had a problem and wanted help, you would, you know--GO GET HELP. (lol) Your problem is not drinking. Your problem is unrealistic expectations. You want to be with someone who is not a boozehound like you, for whatever reason. You're having a hard time finding someone who's not a boozehound who will love you the way you are, for whatever reason. snort, giggle Er... sorry. Anyway: There are plenty of women (and men) out there in the world who will love you just the way you are. You're just not looking in the right places for them. I hope this was helpful. yours in Chaos, Scarlett I recognise that sign off!!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 09/18/08 05:47 PM
I like to drink ALMOST every day. The way I look at it is this: I work my a$$ off everyday doing something that I really don't care to do - so I can get a paycheck and pay my bills....when I get home, I like to drink and enjoy myself - what's wrong with that? you know something guy,you dont need help you need to grow up

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Thu 09/18/08 05:48 PM
Ya I totally appreciate the input don't get me wrong..I am thinking of counseling I'm going through something like that now. If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me anytime. Thanks dude - that means a lot to me! I drink maybe 4 or 5 beers a day, but like I said...some days I dont drink and if a week goes by it's no problem What beer? I know some american beer is pretty pissy. If you drink a light beer, thats not all that much at all in my opinion. Some of it? The only time we got drunk over there was when we broke out the imported whiskey and vodka! lol! Thats very true too. I worked hard out there to even get a buzz on the beer.

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 05:49 PM
I like to drink ALMOST every day. The way I look at it is this: I work my a$$ off everyday doing something that I really don't care to do - so I can get a paycheck and pay my bills....when I get home, I like to drink and enjoy myself - what's wrong with that? you know something guy,you dont need help you need to grow up So tell me what you do...

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Thu 09/18/08 05:50 PM
The problem is not your drinking. The problem is that you are going on the internet asking a bunch of total strangers whether you have a problem in this sort of antagonistic way ("what's wrong with THAT?"), ya know, like you want to fight about it or something. (Why should I give a flying fig whether you drink or not? Go at it! Drink hearty! That's the spirit! Drink more! Hell yeah! Good boy!) It could be anything: Collecting Matchbox cars, roller skating, crocheting, visiting widows and orphans, to wit: "Every day I come home from my job--which I hate--and unwind by (blank). A girl ditched me because my devotion to (blank) exceeded my desire to be in a relationship. So, what the hell is wrong with (blank)? Why should I care?" You're telling us that you have a problem, and then saying--in this sort of immature and narcissistic way--"But if you think I have a problem, YOU'RE WRONG!" If you were really just a big, loveable, happy, nonviolent drunk, you would find someone to be with who shared your values and not go posting about it on the internet. If you really thought you had a problem and wanted help, you would, you know--GO GET HELP. (lol) Your problem is not drinking. Your problem is unrealistic expectations. You want to be with someone who is not a boozehound like you, for whatever reason. You're having a hard time finding someone who's not a boozehound who will love you the way you are, for whatever reason. snort, giggle Er... sorry. Anyway: There are plenty of women (and men) out there in the world who will love you just the way you are. You're just not looking in the right places for them. I hope this was helpful. yours in Chaos, Scarlett I might love you a little bit....

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Thu 09/18/08 05:50 PM
Ya I totally appreciate the input don't get me wrong..I am thinking of counseling I'm going through something like that now. If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me anytime. Thanks dude - that means a lot to me! I drink maybe 4 or 5 beers a day, but like I said...some days I dont drink and if a week goes by it's no problem What beer? I know some american beer is pretty pissy. If you drink a light beer, thats not all that much at all in my opinion. I drink 8 point beer Im not sure what that is. 5% abv is pretty strong for a beer. If you are drinking 8% beer, then that is probably too much. Only tramps and proper alcholohics really drink beer that strong here in the uk.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 09/18/08 05:50 PM
I like to drink ALMOST every day. The way I look at it is this: I work my a$$ off everyday doing something that I really don't care to do - so I can get a paycheck and pay my bills....when I get home, I like to drink and enjoy myself - what's wrong with that? you know something guy,you dont need help you need to grow up

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 05:51 PM
I'm quite grown in case no one noticed...

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 09/18/08 05:53 PM Edited by talldub on Thu 09/18/08 05:54 PM
Ya I totally appreciate the input don't get me wrong..I am thinking of counseling I'm going through something like that now. If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me anytime. Thanks dude - that means a lot to me! I drink maybe 4 or 5 beers a day, but like I said...some days I dont drink and if a week goes by it's no problem What beer? I know some american beer is pretty pissy. If you drink a light beer, thats not all that much at all in my opinion. I drink 8 point beer Im not sure what that is. 5% abv is pretty strong for a beer. If you are drinking 8% beer, then that is probably too much. Only tramps and proper alcholohics really drink beer that strong here in the uk. Which is why you can find Dan on the street corner most nights with a 2 litre in a brown bag and a revealing mini-skirt on! And in answer to the OP, there's nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't turning you into an abusive ass

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 09/18/08 05:54 PM
I'm quite grown in case no one noticed... just because you have a job an can pay bills does not make you an adult.. Its your priorities. You came on here asking whats wrong with drinking an all that an when someone tells you something you don't wanna hear you get upset.

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 05:54 PM
Ya I totally appreciate the input don't get me wrong..I am thinking of counseling I'm going through something like that now. If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me anytime. Thanks dude - that means a lot to me! I drink maybe 4 or 5 beers a day, but like I said...some days I dont drink and if a week goes by it's no problem What beer? I know some american beer is pretty pissy. If you drink a light beer, thats not all that much at all in my opinion. I drink 8 point beer Im not sure what that is. 5% abv is pretty strong for a beer. If you are drinking 8% beer, then that is probably too much. Only tramps and proper alcholohics really drink beer that strong here in the uk. Which is why you can find Dan on the street corner most nights with a 2 litre in a brown bag and a revealing mini-skirt on! And in answer to the OP, there's nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't turning you into an abusive ass Sweet!

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 05:55 PM
I'm quite grown in case no one noticed... just because you have a job an can pay bills does not make you an adult.. Its your priorities. You came on here asking whats wrong with drinking an all that an when someone tells you something you don't wanna hear you get upset. Ummmm...last i checked, I'm not upset - WTF?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 09/18/08 05:56 PM
I'm quite grown in case no one noticed... i usually dont feed into this ,but cant you recognize your own problem,oppps yes you do so why r you here trying to make people feel sorry for you,come on man, that sympathy sh!t is old.try a different approach

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Thu 09/18/08 05:56 PM
Ya I totally appreciate the input don't get me wrong..I am thinking of counseling I'm going through something like that now. If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me anytime. Thanks dude - that means a lot to me! I drink maybe 4 or 5 beers a day, but like I said...some days I dont drink and if a week goes by it's no problem What beer? I know some american beer is pretty pissy. If you drink a light beer, thats not all that much at all in my opinion. I drink 8 point beer Im not sure what that is. 5% abv is pretty strong for a beer. If you are drinking 8% beer, then that is probably too much. Only tramps and proper alcholohics really drink beer that strong here in the uk. Which is why you can find Dan on the street corner most nights with a 2 litre in a brown bag and a revealing mini-skirt on! And in answer to the OP, there's nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't turning you into an abusive ass Sweet! Dont listen to an Irishman, they are all alchoholics! (disclaimer - i only refer to REAL irishmen here)

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 09/18/08 05:57 PM
I'm quite grown in case no one noticed... just because you have a job an can pay bills does not make you an adult.. Its your priorities. You came on here asking whats wrong with drinking an all that an when someone tells you something you don't wanna hear you get upset. Ummmm...last i checked, I'm not upset - WTF? Thats what I'm talking bout!

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 09/18/08 05:58 PM
I'm not looking for sympathy btw....just why a gal would dump me for drinking a lot - ok peeps get back to the main subject...

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Thu 09/18/08 05:58 PM
I'm quite grown in case no one noticed... just because you have a job an can pay bills does not make you an adult.. Its your priorities. You came on here asking whats wrong with drinking an all that an when someone tells you something you don't wanna hear you get upset. Ummmm...last i checked, I'm not upset - WTF? Thats what I'm talking bout! LOOK! HE IS NOT FKN UPSET! AND NEITHER AM I! FOR GODS SAKE!

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 09/18/08 05:58 PM
Dont listen to an Irishman, they are all alchoholics! (disclaimer - i only refer to REAL irishmen here) Real enough that I can out drink you and also got to watch you cry! Result! lol!