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 Well, you are hot!!! Okay, to answer you I think you should do things exactly the same. It is just what they do, they assume. I told one guy I matched with I wanted to mail and he replied with do you want to chat. No, I want to mail, silly. There is a barrier in what some people experience on here, and it's called ignorance. There are those who assume and have tunnel vision. It's okay Princess, they don't have clearance for you.   
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So many times I hear complaints on here that when sending emails people don't get a response... I personally try to respond to everyone if possible.. What makes it impossible.. If you email and start talking sexy talk, not what I'm looking for... If you email and just say "hi" ummmmmmmmm if that's all you have to say then we don't have much to talk about... Now I just got an email that gave me a very nice compliment and the email stated that they just felt it right to give me the compliment.. Sounds nice right? So in being courteous and gracious I respond with a "thank you very much"... Why is it now this person thinks a door is opened to IM??? I've seen other women say this is exactly why they don't respond, by responding with even a thank you at times makes people think a door is opened when it wasn't... Had he said in the original email that he wanted to talk/get to know me, etc then he should have also asked how I felt talking to men much younger than me.... I just don't get how people that don't answer are mean yet when they do it's assumed there's a door open for saying thank you to a compliment.. Does this mean I should stop saying thank you unless I'm interested in a conversation? well i have stoped! all i ever get is hey baby, i'd hit dat or hey you look good in those pics, never hi how ya doin! just regular emails from my good friends... |
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So many times I hear complaints on here that when sending emails people don't get a response... I personally try to respond to everyone if possible.. What makes it impossible.. If you email and start talking sexy talk, not what I'm looking for... If you email and just say "hi" ummmmmmmmm if that's all you have to say then we don't have much to talk about... Now I just got an email that gave me a very nice compliment and the email stated that they just felt it right to give me the compliment.. Sounds nice right? So in being courteous and gracious I respond with a "thank you very much"... Why is it now this person thinks a door is opened to IM??? I've seen other women say this is exactly why they don't respond, by responding with even a thank you at times makes people think a door is opened when it wasn't... Had he said in the original email that he wanted to talk/get to know me, etc then he should have also asked how I felt talking to men much younger than me.... I just don't get how people that don't answer are mean yet when they do it's assumed there's a door open for saying thank you to a compliment.. Does this mean I should stop saying thank you unless I'm interested in a conversation? well i have stoped! all i ever get is hey baby, i'd hit dat or hey you look good in those pics, never hi how ya doin! just regular emails from my good friends... 
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So many times I hear complaints on here that when sending emails people don't get a response... I personally try to respond to everyone if possible.. What makes it impossible.. If you email and start talking sexy talk, not what I'm looking for... If you email and just say "hi" ummmmmmmmm if that's all you have to say then we don't have much to talk about... Now I just got an email that gave me a very nice compliment and the email stated that they just felt it right to give me the compliment.. Sounds nice right? So in being courteous and gracious I respond with a "thank you very much"... Why is it now this person thinks a door is opened to IM??? I've seen other women say this is exactly why they don't respond, by responding with even a thank you at times makes people think a door is opened when it wasn't... Had he said in the original email that he wanted to talk/get to know me, etc then he should have also asked how I felt talking to men much younger than me.... I just don't get how people that don't answer are mean yet when they do it's assumed there's a door open for saying thank you to a compliment.. Does this mean I should stop saying thank you unless I'm interested in a conversation? well i have stoped! all i ever get is hey baby, i'd hit dat or hey you look good in those pics, never hi how ya doin! just regular emails from my good friends... and i consider you a friend , so that don't count ! i only exspect ya to perv me hon! i think maybe men think of me as too much of a jokster, but hey thats who i am... |
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Edited by
papersmile
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Tue 09/16/08 03:32 AM
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I did read and I do understand. But you don't have to mean about it, especially to the guys that want to get to know you. All you have to do is say thank you but not interested. You don't have to tell everyone and put down the poor guys that think they have a chance in finally meeting someone on this site. Sorry for not being a professional on this site. how about the guys that don't even bother to read the profile and aren't respecting MY wishes to not be contaced via IM, or via a friend's invite (without ever having spoken with before?) how about the ones that write asking if i want to meet for coffee, for dating, for sex, when, if they took about 30 seconds, they could actually read that i'm not looking for love? how about the guys who write anyway even when a profile states that i'm only interested in making friends via the forums, that i'm not interested in chatting men up in private? i don't even apologize any more, or feel bad in the least, for NOT replying to someone who obviously didn't read my profile. or, even worse, who read it, but didn't care for, or respect, my wishes. mean? rude? hell no, it's the person ignoring what i said who was mean and rude. |
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 I wanna get freaky with Indian Princess on the webcam
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I wanna get freaky with Indian Princess on the webcam WHYYYYYYYYYYY are we not surprised? 
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I wanna get freaky with Indian Princess on the webcam WHYYYYYYYYYYY are we not surprised? you too
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