Topic: Responding to emails
Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:23 PM
I have found that if you give an inch they want a mile, so if I have no want to converse with someone I just don't reply.

It's kinda like that guy at a bar who buys you a drink and you think "he's nice enough" then he starts talking and getting all "hey baby" with ya, then you can't get rid of him.

I don't return emails, texts, or phone calls unless I want to talk...Yes, I'm selfish like that, but hey if I don't look out for me who will?

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Mon 09/15/08 06:24 PM

I have found that if you give an inch they want a mile, so if I have no want to converse with someone I just don't reply.

It's kinda like that guy at a bar who buys you a drink and you think "he's nice enough" then he starts talking and getting all "hey baby" with ya, then you can't get rid of him.

I don't return emails, texts, or phone calls unless I want to talk...Yes, I'm selfish like that, but hey if I don't look out for me who will?



You are so right (((lily)))

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Mon 09/15/08 06:24 PM

I have found that if you give an inch they want a mile, so if I have no want to converse with someone I just don't reply.

It's kinda like that guy at a bar who buys you a drink and you think "he's nice enough" then he starts talking and getting all "hey baby" with ya, then you can't get rid of him.

I don't return emails, texts, or phone calls unless I want to talk...Yes, I'm selfish like that, but hey if I don't look out for me who will?


:heart: Lily:heart:

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Mon 09/15/08 06:25 PM
flowers my girls. smitten

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Mon 09/15/08 06:27 PM


I did read and I do understand. But you don't have to mean about it, especially to the guys that want to get to know you. All you have to do is say thank you but not interested. You don't have to tell everyone and put down the poor guys that think they have a chance in finally meeting someone on this site. Sorry for not being a professional on this site.


I agree. If you email someone back, they are going to think you are interested. And, why not? Why jump on them for trying? Just say no thank you if you don't want what they are offering.


Being friendly and responding to an email does not equal interest.

RKISIT's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:28 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Mon 09/15/08 06:29 PM
man nevermind i was to late

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:29 PM

so would a foursome be out of the questionflowerforyou


Not at all, but you're not invited....laugh

RKISIT's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:29 PM


so would a foursome be out of the questionflowerforyou


Not at all, but you're not invited....laugh
frown well it was worth a shotflowerforyou

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Mon 09/15/08 06:30 PM


so would a foursome be out of the questionflowerforyou


Not at all, but you're not invited....laugh




hahahahahahahalaugh :wink:

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Mon 09/15/08 06:30 PM


so would a foursome be out of the questionflowerforyou


Not at all, but you're not invited....laugh


laugh laugh laugh laugh

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:32 PM
well then that was exciting bigsmile :banana:

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:35 PM
Princess, be who you are, anyone who doesn't like you is ignorant. F*ck 'em....flowers

johncarl's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:36 PM
joy you are so sweet.i love the emails you send me my friend.flowers

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:40 PM
I am Lily, you know I love you...

(((John))) thank you sweets...

and thank you to all of my beautiful friends that "get" me and knew what I was saying and knew it wasn't being mean... flowerforyou

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Mon 09/15/08 06:44 PM
You are nicer than me, I either don't reply or am skeptical...but only the strong survive, and if they can't handle a bit of "me" in the begining, they will never stand the test of time...

At my brother's birthday party yesterday one of his ex-co workers said to me "So you're Dave's sister, are you as ornery as he is?" I answered "I'm alot tougher that's for sure" and the guy laughed and my brother 6 foot 2 and 250lbs ex cop says "don't laugh she is"

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Mon 09/15/08 06:48 PM

You are nicer than me, I either don't reply or am skeptical...but only the strong survive, and if they can't handle a bit of "me" in the begining, they will never stand the test of time...

At my brother's birthday party yesterday one of his ex-co workers said to me "So you're Dave's sister, are you as ornery as he is?" I answered "I'm alot tougher that's for sure" and the guy laughed and my brother 6 foot 2 and 250lbs ex cop says "don't laugh she is"



I try to be nice Lil but as we've seen um well guess I'm not... :wink:

laugh laugh laugh
That's funny but from what you've told me accurate.. :wink:

euphoriaholic's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:49 PM
Wellllllllllll.......John is right, why complain or question something so obvious, on ALL dating sites you're gonna run into uncouth jerks who get their thrills being complete morons. That's why there is a block option all you have to do is click on it when they write something you don't like and PROBLEM SOLVED!

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 09/15/08 06:51 PM

Wellllllllllll.......John is right, why complain or question something so obvious, on ALL dating sites you're gonna run into uncouth jerks who get their thrills being complete morons. That's why there is a block option all you have to do is click on it when they write something you don't like and PROBLEM SOLVED!


Again I will say the obvious... It was a "statement" not a complaint.. I will announce in advance for all to know if I decide to post a complaint....

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Mon 09/15/08 06:51 PM

Wellllllllllll.......John is right, why complain or question something so obvious, on ALL dating sites you're gonna run into uncouth jerks who get their thrills being complete morons. That's why there is a block option all you have to do is click on it when they write something you don't like and PROBLEM SOLVED!
awwwwww sh!t here we godrinker

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Mon 09/15/08 06:52 PM
I was told in an email the other day "It's not that you are mean, it's that the people who want to whine and cry find you harsh because they don't want to admit they are failures in life"

I have never in my life used the word "mean" to describe someone... It's kinda like "nice guy" or "slutty girl" it's a perception. I may not like what someone says or think they are way off base, but to say someone is "mean" is just a judgement call...