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Topic: Responding to emails
Angelface2000 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1930	Mon 09/15/08 06:01 PM
Women like me? Women like me? You dont know a thing about women like me

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 09/15/08 06:01 PM
I think Princess has figured out how to live with being attractive. She is a person though, and expects & deserves to be treated as more than a pretty face. This is about common courtesy and people taking things as more than they are. Thank you Lilith and the fact that well to respond to my thank you and my answer that I would be a friend but don't IM on here with "how can I seduce you" um yeah doll I can see how John thinks I'm mean to express frustration...

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 09/15/08 06:01 PM
You can't complain about getting emails and IM's on a dating site. It's posts like these that make guys afraid to email or IM to start a conversation. If you don't want to talk just don't respond or decline the IM.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 09/15/08 06:02 PM
Women like me? Women like me? You dont know a thing about women like me I think that's where the bad luck came in... just sayin'...

Socratease Joined Wed 07/30/08 Posts: 417	Mon 09/15/08 06:02 PM
I think Princess has figured out how to live with being attractive. She is a person though, and expects & deserves to be treated as more than a pretty face. This is about common courtesy and people taking things as more than they are. I agree with courtesy,and i guess she will have to endure that curse of looking good hehe...but some dont respect or know boundrys and limits, and it will happen from time to time unfortunately:(

Angelface2000 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1930	Mon 09/15/08 06:03 PM
Hey dollface=] Hope life is treating you nice Where has Nora been hiding?

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 09/15/08 06:03 PM
I am completely aroused by this thread

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 09/15/08 06:04 PM
Hey dollface=] Hope life is treating you nice Where has Nora been hiding? Lily told me gone for good..

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 09/15/08 06:04 PM Edited by plk1966 on Mon 09/15/08 06:05 PM
I think Princess has figured out how to live with being attractive. She is a person though, and expects & deserves to be treated as more than a pretty face. This is about common courtesy and people taking things as more than they are. I agree with courtesy,and i guess she will have to endure that curse of looking good hehe...but some dont respect or know boundrys and limits, and it will happen from time to time unfortunately:( and when that situation occurs that someone can not take a courtesy hint, that is what the block button is for.

Johnc198700 Joined Mon 02/26/07 Posts: 44	Mon 09/15/08 06:05 PM
(((Angel))) where have you been sweetpea? Socratease you are right and I try to always say thank you, etc. I understand the email and im reasons.. John 1) I wasn't putting the "guy" down.. I was expressing how I feel and understand how others feel... which is my right. Not sure you realize this but it's a free site and in America even.... Makes a difference... 2) did I say his name? and he's not in the threads.... 3)Angry much? 4)maybe a little more time in the threads before judging will give you an idea of how people are on here... again glad you played.... First of all I wasn't trying to be mean. Second, Its a free site and and I can respond to any posts that I want, just as you can post anything you want. Third, yes bad day.. thank you for asking. and lastly. I know how people are on here. I know how people are on here, but I didn't know we were playing a game..

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Mon 09/15/08 06:05 PM
hi indn prncs

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 09/15/08 06:05 PM
You can't complain about getting emails and IM's on a dating site. It's posts like these that make guys afraid to email or IM to start a conversation. If you don't want to talk just don't respond or decline the IM. I reread my email and I see I was acknowledging a revelation of understanding "not complaining" and I have my IM's turned off b/c I don't want IM's...

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 09/15/08 06:06 PM
I did read and I do understand. But you don't have to mean about it, especially to the guys that want to get to know you. All you have to do is say thank you but not interested. You don't have to tell everyone and put down the poor guys that think they have a chance in finally meeting someone on this site. Sorry for not being a professional on this site. I agree. If you email someone back, they are going to think you are interested. And, why not? Why jump on them for trying? Just say no thank you if you don't want what they are offering.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 09/15/08 06:06 PM
I just totally disabled my IM feature after the first week on here and never looked back!! But stay true to you, keep replying and being communicative and cut them off if they don't respect your boundaries. I get some trying to talk me into an LDR (and you know why I won't do that right now) and there is no respect for what I want. It's not you, lovie.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 09/15/08 06:07 PM
(((Angel))) where have you been sweetpea? Socratease you are right and I try to always say thank you, etc. I understand the email and im reasons.. John 1) I wasn't putting the "guy" down.. I was expressing how I feel and understand how others feel... which is my right. Not sure you realize this but it's a free site and in America even.... Makes a difference... 2) did I say his name? and he's not in the threads.... 3)Angry much? 4)maybe a little more time in the threads before judging will give you an idea of how people are on here... again glad you played.... First of all I wasn't trying to be mean. Second, Its a free site and and I can respond to any posts that I want, just as you can post anything you want. Third, yes bad day.. thank you for asking. and lastly. I know how people are on here. I know how people are on here, but I didn't know we were playing a game.. John I do hope your day gets better and that you make a lot of friends here as well as meet the love of your life... Glad you came back...

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 09/15/08 06:07 PM
You can't complain about getting emails and IM's on a dating site. It's posts like these that make guys afraid to email or IM to start a conversation. If you don't want to talk just don't respond or decline the IM. I reread my email and I see I was acknowledging a revelation of understanding "not complaining" and I have my IM's turned off b/c I don't want IM's... Well, there you go. Problem solved.

guyguy1225 Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 1936	Mon 09/15/08 06:07 PM
I am completely aroused by this thread there you go again bud tooting your train horn again !!

Johnc198700 Joined Mon 02/26/07 Posts: 44	Mon 09/15/08 06:08 PM
hi indn prncs Are you going to compain now IndnPrncs. Someone said hi to you

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 09/15/08 06:08 PM
You can't complain about getting emails and IM's on a dating site. It's posts like these that make guys afraid to email or IM to start a conversation. If you don't want to talk just don't respond or decline the IM. There's nothing wrong with asking someone if they're ok with IMing.

Angelface2000 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1930	Mon 09/15/08 06:09 PM
Hey dollface=] Hope life is treating you nice Where has Nora been hiding? Lily told me gone for good.. I havent talked to Lily for a week or so...didnt she come back for a while?