Your entitled to your opinion. I was never looking for anyone's pitty.

You should know eh?

^^What are you trying to say Judy? Are you saying i am the ugly funny guy? lol

I think u are wanting a pity party. Well guess what...no one is falling for it.

I think the best thing you can do is to stop thinking about them as dating sites. That's what I did, now dating sites are friend sites to me and that can't really lead to much disappointment.

You are the interesting, intelligent and funny guy .. all wrapped into one. Yep yep yep.

I agree with Lisa too. I am very attracted to a guy who is confident, is smart & is funny.

A sense of humor is HUGE.

SO im the UGLY interesting intelligent funny guy huh?! lol!

(thanks Judy! you charmer!)

OMG ... *rolls eyes and sighs* who EVER said anything about the ugly part ..

MEN! especially those confused british blokes ...




ps .. Dan I think you are very good looking .. Lisa is a very lucky woman!! (so are you of course)

Your entitled to believe whatever you like.
I wasn't looking for a bridge club or bingo night...

Wow. I don't believe Liz did a thing to warrant this rude nasty response to her trying to befriend you. And I don't believe she DID ask you. LMFAO

You say you get no mail. She probably didn't give a flying leap about you romantically, but was kind enough to reach out to you. D*mn dude.

As to women who date younger, I do and it sure as h*ll is NOT creepy. I don't hit up on younger men, and I don't initiate the connection. I respond to mail and interest I get that they initiate. It's a huge trend in today's society so wake up to reality.

It certainly isn't 'creepy' and even tho you have a right to your opinion, there was no reason for you to insult her as you gave it.

You need to chill out dude. Seriously. Lighten up. Get a sense of humor. Women REALLY love to have fun ..

I don't think being rude is the right way to go here. The forums are a tight knit community, meaning we all get along fairly well. You joined this community a year ago, yet you've only made 15 posts in the forums, ie. we don't know you. Your profile contains maybe 2 lines of information. As someone else pointed out, your pics hide your face.

As for your emails, not every email gets answered, get over it. Several people have emailed me and I don't answer, for whatever reason, and sometimes it's not personal, I just don't have anything to say to them. Or maybe I just get the impression that they're looking for something I don't want to give. Whatever.

I have emailed men and I haven't gotten a reply from them either, oh well, their loss. I doubt if they have resorted to bashing others on a forum as a form of retaliation and I have certainly never stooped so low. Not everyone will find you attractive, or interesting, or "worthy" of having your emails answered in a timely, efficient way, if at all. The correct approach for you would be to work on your profile, and make some posts, and/or comments in the forums, so we can get to know you. View some profiles, see who views yours, to see if they're interested. Then maybe email some people, and not just to say "hi." Make conversation, mention common interests, etc.

I'm sure this will undoubtably piss you off- since you don't appear to take criticism well, but no matter, it needed to be said, but I'm only trying to help. Every great relationship starts with friends first, and you're not making friends here, you're making enemies. Just my thoughts. Good luck.

I come to a point as far as datting sites go and like many others. Datting sites are more for making friends and hopefully have a good time. Either you got the people that try to hard in making somthing happen thats will not happen unless it's soppose to. Then you have the ones that don't put any effert at all and do nothing but complain. On tope of it all you have your players that lead people on,people that are here just looking just for sex. So knowing all this, i gave up a little while back thinking that i'm going to actually meet somone as far as relationships go. So i look at this for me that it's better to look at dattings sites more for just looking to make friends. Out of 100 people that are on this forum. maybe 10% if luckey will find someone. The interestiong thing about all this to me, is i think i did find somone that i could actually be with. But having the issues that i have in my life, is going to do no good for either of us. Not saying that it don't happen for some, but few will actually meet s0omone because they way this world is today. People don't know how to be honest with themseves on what they want or even looking for or even really know who to give. This is a selfish world and few know how to give.

I did not read eveyone's reply. I will say this though, there was one man that I met on another dating site and I could have pictured myself in a committed relationship with him, we got along GREAT when we would get together. The problem was, he was married to his business, and I desired him more than he would ever know.

I can't compete with a business, never will.......

I think it is You and your outlook on life
First off your lack of confidence in yourself is
one thing that handicaps you . And the second thing is
Your lack of empathy towards other people just because
They are online and you are not in there face gives you
No right to be rude to them and hurt there Feelings
And then you have the nerve to wonder why things don't
Work for you . Take a read back over all the words
You have put out here so far and the way you talk to people. You have no people skills and no manners
something you should have been taught a long time ago
Go seek out some help for you Depression and get some anger management classes to go with that . This is my OP to you!

Anything she had to say could have easily been said here in the forums just as you have done. There was no reason what so ever for her to attempt messaging me. I think you need to reread her post.
that's her exact words. She would not have known about the age restriction unless she attempted. Even if she had known then that should have been a clear sign women of her age range was not welcomed to message and to come into a forum and complain about it was unwarranted.




I never said it was wrong I just find it personally creepy. If that's what others want to do that's fine but don't think all of us are cool with it. I know I wouldn't want some 36 year old man banging my 19 year old daughter. Nor would I think My 19 year old daughter appreicate some lady old enough to be her grandmother to be sleeping with her father. You have your morals and I have mine let's leave it at that...


Believe me I took no pleasure in having to do that, I feel I gave her ample opportuinity to get the hint but she insisted upon fanning the flames. Furthermore it really wouldn't have bothered her so much had I not hit the nail right on the head. I'm sorry it had to come to that for I was willing to let it pass without insult but I'm not going to be railroaded, its far better to be considered a jerk than let people walk all over you.

Ladies & Gentlemen .. we have a winner.

BOB !! Tell him what he won!!

Wow. Well....usually the best way to get responses from the ladies here is to actually post in the forums.

Hell...I was on this ( and MANY others for a LONG time ) site for quite a while before I started posting in the forums. No responses, no messages, no Mutual Matches...nothing at all.

Then I started posting here and just talking to people. I was pleasantly surprised to see that once the ladies here saw who I was through my posts, I started getting more and more responses and a few uninitiated ( by me ) messages.

Unfortunately for you, it would appear that your posts in this thread have pretty much killed any chances you may have had with any of the lovely ladies that post here.

Best bet for you would be to go ahead and stop posting now while you are behind, and just cross your fingers and click away at the Mutual Match. At least that way, they won't see your personality..until later.

Hopefully no messages from courgars...

this coming from a man who's been whining about how women don't give him a chance based on the physical??

it's fairly obvious to me why women aren't replying to any of your emails