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FLcoolGuy Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 34	Sun 09/14/08 12:12 PM
Are these things all they are cracked up to be? Some say yes while others say no? As for myself I guess one would have to lot me in the "No" boat. I've tried many of them over several years and never have I once met anyone. In fact it's hard enough to get someone to even reply back with a simple Thanks but no thanks response. In most cases you just get ignored... Now If you're one of those in the "Yes" group. I'm sure it's a total pleasure for everytime you log on there is mail waiting for you... My point being is it truley a waste of ones efforts if they never get messaged over many years. Woulkd that not be a hint that your just not attractive enough to anyone and just give up?

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Sun 09/14/08 12:13 PM
Welcome and have a blast! Post often and mingle in the forums and meet the family

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sun 09/14/08 12:15 PM
hey now there are attractive people giving up too

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 09/14/08 12:15 PM
Are these things all they are cracked up to be? Some say yes while others say no? As for myself I guess one would have to lot me in the "No" boat. I've tried many of them over several years and never have I once met anyone. In fact it's hard enough to get someone to even reply back with a simple Thanks but no thanks response. In most cases you just get ignored... Now If you're one of those in the "Yes" group. I'm sure it's a total pleasure for everytime you log on there is mail waiting for you... My point being is it truley a waste of ones efforts if they never get messaged over many years. Woulkd that not be a hint that your just not attractive enough to anyone and just give up? You've only made 1 post on the forum so far, try making a few hundred, maybe you'll get replies to your emails then. Not everyone cares about looks (I do, but everyone says I'm weird) so just get to know people around here, and see what happens. Don't rush things.. Good luck!

star1972 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 2323	Sun 09/14/08 12:16 PM
Are these things all they are cracked up to be? Some say yes while others say no? As for myself I guess one would have to lot me in the "No" boat. I've tried many of them over several years and never have I once met anyone. In fact it's hard enough to get someone to even reply back with a simple Thanks but no thanks response. In most cases you just get ignored... Now If you're one of those in the "Yes" group. I'm sure it's a total pleasure for everytime you log on there is mail waiting for you... My point being is it truley a waste of ones efforts if they never get messaged over many years. Woulkd that not be a hint that your just not attractive enough to anyone and just give up? well it looks like u wait for it to come to u, by not joining in the forums, its a great way to meet people. I met a guy on here and had a great (short) relationship with him. join in more. just a idea

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sun 09/14/08 12:16 PM
welcome to the family and join in the and the and have a

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sun 09/14/08 12:17 PM
Helps to post in the forums & get known. I think it helps people to see what you think about subjects & how you react to different comments. Welcome & enjoy. Always remember, YOu reap what you sow. Don't make an effort to do something, it seldom works the way you want.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sun 09/14/08 12:18 PM
Are these things all they are cracked up to be? Some say yes while others say no? As for myself I guess one would have to lot me in the "No" boat. I've tried many of them over several years and never have I once met anyone. In fact it's hard enough to get someone to even reply back with a simple Thanks but no thanks response. In most cases you just get ignored... Now If you're one of those in the "Yes" group. I'm sure it's a total pleasure for everytime you log on there is mail waiting for you... My point being is it truley a waste of ones efforts if they never get messaged over many years. Woulkd that not be a hint that your just not attractive enough to anyone and just give up? yes, im marked as a woman hater, cause of a nasty thread i wrote

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Sun 09/14/08 12:19 PM
If you dont get mail its because you are doing something wrong, or you arent putting enough effort in. If you have been doing it for many years and still havent worked out how to get noticed i would just give up. Getting a reply to a mail isnt about how attractive you are, its about how interesting/intelligent/funny you are.

star1972 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 2323	Sun 09/14/08 12:20 PM
Helps to post in the forums & get known. I think it helps people to see what you think about subjects & how you react to different comments. Welcome & enjoy. Always remember, YOu reap what you sow. Don't make an effort to do something, it seldom works the way you want. hey sage how u doin??

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sun 09/14/08 12:21 PM
If you dont get mail its because you are doing something wrong, or you arent putting enough effort in. If you have been doing it for many years and still havent worked out how to get noticed i would just give up. Getting a reply to a mail isnt about how attractive you are, its about how interesting/intelligent/funny you are. agreed dan there's something very attractive about a person that can make you laugh

Sangove Joined Sat 09/06/08 Posts: 137	Sun 09/14/08 12:25 PM
Are these things all they are cracked up to be? Some say yes while others say no? As for myself I guess one would have to lot me in the "No" boat. I've tried many of them over several years and never have I once met anyone. In fact it's hard enough to get someone to even reply back with a simple Thanks but no thanks response. In most cases you just get ignored... Now If you're one of those in the "Yes" group. I'm sure it's a total pleasure for everytime you log on there is mail waiting for you... My point being is it truley a waste of ones efforts if they never get messaged over many years. Woulkd that not be a hint that your just not attractive enough to anyone and just give up? unfortunately, most of these sites nowadays are marked with scammers, wanting to rob you of your cash. and way too much drama! relax, just post awhile, and be yourself. maybe you get mail, maybe you dont. just dont fret, try to make FREINDS first!

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Sun 09/14/08 12:27 PM
Are these things all they are cracked up to be? Some say yes while others say no? As for myself I guess one would have to lot me in the "No" boat. I've tried many of them over several years and never have I once met anyone. In fact it's hard enough to get someone to even reply back with a simple Thanks but no thanks response. In most cases you just get ignored... Now If you're one of those in the "Yes" group. I'm sure it's a total pleasure for everytime you log on there is mail waiting for you... My point being is it truley a waste of ones efforts if they never get messaged over many years. Woulkd that not be a hint that your just not attractive enough to anyone and just give up? unfortunately, most of these sites nowadays are marked with scammers, wanting to rob you of your cash. and way too much drama! relax, just post awhile, and be yourself. maybe you get mail, maybe you dont. just dont fret, try to make FREINDS first! interesting response...... and yes hang out get to know people in the forums is the key....and always have the Matchmaking Game...I take all the headache out of it...gigglesnort.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sun 09/14/08 12:28 PM
im just here to kick it

Dangerous_Kitchen Joined Mon 06/02/08 Posts: 2897	Sun 09/14/08 12:38 PM
heck, i'm fugly and i've met quite a few gals online!

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Sun 09/14/08 12:38 PM
Yes it can happen.Never give up...I found the most awesome man on this site.Sure glad i didn't give up.

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Sun 09/14/08 12:45 PM
i dont like dating sites, i just like there forums

FLcoolGuy Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 34	Sun 09/14/08 01:40 PM
If you dont get mail its because you are doing something wrong, or you arent putting enough effort in. If you have been doing it for many years and still havent worked out how to get noticed i would just give up. Getting a reply to a mail isnt about how attractive you are, its about how interesting/intelligent/funny you are. Well, then I must have the patent on that? LOL... I don't ever get mail and I've tried several sites over many years. I get the uneasy feeling they pass me over because they feel I'm not attractive neough for them. Do you not also get this feeling as well? Believe me it's not due to a lack of effort for I've wrote more messages than I dare count and never get a reply. unfortunately, most of these sites nowadays are marked with scammers, wanting to rob you of your cash. and way too much drama! relax, just post awhile, and be yourself. maybe you get mail, maybe you dont. just dont fret, try to make FREINDS first! LOL, I don't even get the scammers how pathatic is that? LOL

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 09/14/08 01:56 PM
If you dont get mail its because you are doing something wrong, or you arent putting enough effort in. If you have been doing it for many years and still havent worked out how to get noticed i would just give up. Getting a reply to a mail isnt about how attractive you are, its about how interesting/intelligent/funny you are. Well, then I must have the patent on that? LOL... I don't ever get mail and I've tried several sites over many years. I get the uneasy feeling they pass me over because they feel I'm not attractive neough for them. Do you not also get this feeling as well? Believe me it's not due to a lack of effort for I've wrote more messages than I dare count and never get a reply. unfortunately, most of these sites nowadays are marked with scammers, wanting to rob you of your cash. and way too much drama! relax, just post awhile, and be yourself. maybe you get mail, maybe you dont. just dont fret, try to make FREINDS first! LOL, I don't even get the scammers how pathatic is that? LOL I have never gotten a scammer either. I have had a few friends who were married pretending to be single and a few friends who I am pretty sure were teenage boys playing grown men online...and badly. I want to believe that anyway, or the integrity and intelligence levels of some grown men out there would give me nightmares, for sure! That being said...I was only here for friends cause I travel too much and get lonely. I came to the forums and found a man anyway. I don't see this as being any different than any avenue you might meet people. You never find any connection, be it friends or lovers, without meeting people. Good luck.

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Sun 09/14/08 02:08 PM
If you dont get mail its because you are doing something wrong, or you arent putting enough effort in. If you have been doing it for many years and still havent worked out how to get noticed i would just give up. Getting a reply to a mail isnt about how attractive you are, its about how interesting/intelligent/funny you are. Well, then I must have the patent on that? LOL... I don't ever get mail and I've tried several sites over many years. I get the uneasy feeling they pass me over because they feel I'm not attractive neough for them. Do you not also get this feeling as well? Believe me it's not due to a lack of effort for I've wrote more messages than I dare count and never get a reply. Lol! Are you saying i am ugly? haha To be honest i have never had the problem you have. Mainly because i have never really bothered to send out blind emails to random women. Ive always posted in forums and become known that way, and as a result have always gotten plenty of mail, sometimes more than what i want even.