That suggests they even let me on the playing field.

...I'm the water boy for the game of Love.

If you think you are the Water Boy, than you are that Water Boy.

If you think you are a Loser, than you are the Loser.

Yeah... I said it is subjective... You can look at the situation from a Winner point of view or a Loser point of view. It is Your choice. Whatever you think, you will be or you will attract in your life.

Nothing is easy in life.
If it is easy, it is not worth it.
If it is hard, it is worth trying even harder.

My personal battle:
I chose to stay with my wife (16 yrs marriage), who recently cheated on me. This is not easy. Forgiving is not a one time event, you have to forgive everyday or every time you are reminded of it. Forgetting is hard, but Time has gotten me to forget alittle more everyday. Trust is the thing that is being build again with time.

There is only two possible outcome. We either get divorced or we get stronger in our marriage. A marriage that can withstand constant Testing.

I am not saying be a fool and never jump off a sinking ship. It is different for everybody. And everybody has a different way with dealing with things. Yes, I wish I could just jump ship. Which would be easier and less painful, but I am always reminded a step-family is not easy... my kids will be paying the price... a chance someone else walking my daughter down the aisle... Someone else yelling at my kids... uh... easier for me to swallow my pride and Forgive and working together on the existing marriage.

It always feels like winning at some point. Unfortunately there is no Come line in love, it's all in or bust.

Seems like the biggest loosers in love are the innocent family members that get caught in the cross fire of the anger, bitterness, depression, and betrayal of the selfish. Living in a toxic family is slow torture.

Seems like the biggest loosers in love are the innocent family members that get caught in the cross fire of the anger, bitterness, depression, and betrayal of the selfish. Living in a toxic family is slow torture.

I like to think of it as a mismatch. Honestly, though, I've been on either side many times. Either I'm all gaga over him and he wants nothing to do with me, or he's all about me and I'm just not into him.

Mutual... that would be nice at some point.

people suck then u die!!! lol

AMEN!!!!!!!

I have been told by others,If they had my bad luck with love,They would have given up long time ago. I believe that he is out there,

I am the Barry Horowitz of love!!!

(how's that for an outdated reference)

There are no winners or losers,, Love,, Lost or found is growth for our Souls

Loser? winner???

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm never thought it that way before/////////////////

how about this????

they are idiots I am soooooooo outty???? kapish??

If I had won yet I would not be here.

I was contemplateing if feeling love, even if it eventually goes bad, is not worth the at least short term boost it gives your heart. A little bit of hope seems to go a long way.