OK, we all get those who come on too strong... I sent the following message....

I want to let you know that I just am not comfortable with the way you are overly attached to me. I think you can be a great guy, just don’t think that I can handle what you want. Maybe it’s just that I am too scared or maybe I just worry about what my kid’s see. I hope you find what you are looking for... I just think I am not it. I hope you understand and I hope you find someone that can handle you better than I have. Thank you for your time and attention; I know how hard this all can be. Take care.

I got... Your a bi**h!!!

I believe in being honest, I tried to be honest with out being hurtful. WTF?

did you send him a bandaid along with email, because you went and hurt his wittle ego... gave him a booboo.

Too scared to get involved in a relationship? Hmm.. perhaps you are not ready to look for one yet.

I hate when I try to be thoughtful and reasonable and adult, and get back that kind of thoughtless, unreasonable, infantile response. Just proves that you were the wiser!!

Its not that I dont want a relationship... just didnt like him emailing me pictures I couldnt show my kids after sending two emails. LOL Cant handle that.

i still cant figure out why guys, go off when women atleast respond back to there emails? im a guy and cant explain it,although i did post a thread that was wrong and i shouldnt of but i wasnt going off i was just calmly stating about a woman i was seeing and she and i agreed to depart each other,but not without her spitting out some very nasty words at me,so i was upset,i should of took a timeout but i used my last one on the challenge i lost,yeah

Oh! Different scenerio then. Why would he feel that he could send you those types of pictures? That in itself is just wrong, unless you ask for them. Myself personally, I wouldn't want to get to know someone that sends those "types" of pictures out.. "I" wouldn't want Jane, Mary, Betty and Sue seeing what could possibly be MINE. I don't share well with others!!

That's why some people ignore the initial email when they're not interested; too much drama when you respond to them. Some people mistake politeness for interest, and then when you reject them, they get all pissy.

(((RKISIT)) Sorry it was bad for you

Itis not like I was mean or even venting how angered that I got what he was sending me or talking about marriage when he didnt even get to know me. So why is it that I am the Bi**h? I know that we have lots of ideas here which is why I put the post cause I cant figure it out.

some are just that way
they can't take rejection
you told him how you felt and were sincere and honest
my advice to you now is to not respond to him
he'll get over the pain...

OP you're rubber he's glue ~ everything he says bounces off of you and stick onto him

he is just asking childish

I agree w/Jules - time and a place for everything, questionable pics not for me.

LOOK at the positive SIDE!!!


at least you replied!!!!!!!!

You're better off without that sort of idiot in your life. Things would only get worse.

Lex, you are so right.. and one of most interesting people that post. Thanks.

Thank you!

I just hate to see good people get messed with for no reason. It's jerks like that guy that make things so difficult for the rest of us....maybe someday there will be an "idiot filter"....

hehehehehehe {{{fran}}} you crack me up woman!!!!

the problem is that women are waaaaay too nice...me, I would have said:

hey, I dont date bulldozers, dont call me, Ill call you...

Yes I am.

some people just cant take rejection easily,no matter how nice you make it

yep, that's why it's best to ignore them from the beginning and not answer them at all.