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Topic: why do women only think of me as a friend?
Senpai Joined Wed 08/27/08 Posts: 27	Mon 09/01/08 06:29 PM Edited by Senpai on Mon 09/01/08 06:30 PM
Is it because I remeber there brith days,almost never forget to get them gift on holiday, I'm always giveing them advice, They send mix message, but they only like me as a friend?

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 09/01/08 06:30 PM
friend is as friend does

marky84 Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 1057	Mon 09/01/08 06:31 PM
cuz girls go for the jerks and come whining to the really nice guys granted its not ALWAYS true but...

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Mon 09/01/08 06:33 PM
maybe you're friendly

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Mon 09/01/08 06:33 PM
what is so bad about that? you have to start somewhere...why not friends? why rush into all the other stuff like sex and relationships that just puts pressure on you and leads to heart ache. If you can stick with a person with no expectations something may just grow...it is called learning to value another human being even the opposite sex.

Troublemaker7 Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 326	Mon 09/01/08 06:33 PM
I can't really answer that without knowing you, but most likely it is because once a man is in the "friend zone" it's hard to picture yourself being romantic with him. At least that is true for me. You don't want to mess up the friendship and possibly lose what you have. Plus, it can sometimes feel weird being intimate (and I'm not just talking about sex) with someone who has been just a friend for a while.

NURSE2000 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 606	Mon 09/01/08 06:35 PM
maybe you are giving signals to the girls that you want to only be friends as of opposed to being attractive to them ? I have a friend with the same problem and taught him to be a little more sexy and flirtatious with the girls and is working

cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Mon 09/01/08 06:36 PM
Its best to start out as frtends any

lgo Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 1824	Mon 09/01/08 06:36 PM
maybe you're friendly yea.. thats proberly it.

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Mon 09/01/08 06:37 PM


dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Mon 09/01/08 06:38 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oOCJAVlESEo

Senpai Joined Wed 08/27/08 Posts: 27	Mon 09/01/08 06:42 PM
O Well maybe you're friendly yea.. thats proberly it.

marky84 Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 1057	Mon 09/01/08 06:42 PM
what is so bad about that? you have to start somewhere...why not friends? why rush into all the other stuff like sex and relationships that just puts pressure on you and leads to heart ache. If you can stick with a person with no expectations something may just grow...it is called learning to value another human being even the opposite sex. i agree, but women just seem to always go for the bad boys that treat em like dirt

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Mon 09/01/08 06:44 PM
what is so bad about that? you have to start somewhere...why not friends? why rush into all the other stuff like sex and relationships that just puts pressure on you and leads to heart ache. If you can stick with a person with no expectations something may just grow...it is called learning to value another human being even the opposite sex. i agree, but women just seem to always go for the bad boys that treat em like dirt been there done that never going back

marky84 Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 1057	Mon 09/01/08 06:45 PM
what is so bad about that? you have to start somewhere...why not friends? why rush into all the other stuff like sex and relationships that just puts pressure on you and leads to heart ache. If you can stick with a person with no expectations something may just grow...it is called learning to value another human being even the opposite sex. i agree, but women just seem to always go for the bad boys that treat em like dirt been there done that never going back amen

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 09/01/08 06:49 PM
what is so bad about that? you have to start somewhere...why not friends? why rush into all the other stuff like sex and relationships that just puts pressure on you and leads to heart ache. If you can stick with a person with no expectations something may just grow...it is called learning to value another human being even the opposite sex. i agree, but women just seem to always go for the bad boys that treat em like dirt Well at least bad boys have balls, nice guys lost them somewhere along the way...Nice guys don't get girls because they don't make that move to be with the girls.... So what are we going to do sit home on a saturday night with nothing to do while the nice guy with no balls goes to the bar and looks at all the girls who will never want him or am I going to go out with the guy that at least had the balls to ask me out? Tell me again, how I'm supposed to react to this?

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 09/01/08 06:52 PM
We are not getting on this nice guy stuff again are we

Senpai Joined Wed 08/27/08 Posts: 27	Mon 09/01/08 06:55 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koDpHQXAB0w

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Mon 09/01/08 06:58 PM
Is it because I remeber there brith days,almost never forget to get them gift on holiday, I'm always giveing them advice, They send mix message, but they only like me as a friend? dont you know that nice guys always cum in last

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Mon 09/01/08 06:59 PM
what is so bad about that? you have to start somewhere...why not friends? why rush into all the other stuff like sex and relationships that just puts pressure on you and leads to heart ache. If you can stick with a person with no expectations something may just grow...it is called learning to value another human being even the opposite sex. i agree, but women just seem to always go for the bad boys that treat em like dirt grow some balls and quit your crying