That's only because you haven't prayed to the mutual match gods. It also helps to sacrifice a goat. Or a virgin. Can't remember which. But I don't know where to get a virgin anyhow.





LOL so true!!

Sorry it hasn't worked out for you, but congrats to your friend!

Because coincidentally all the women I want to meet share the same last name.... I'M TAKEN.

The other half not TAKEN share a common factor regarding me.... I'M NOT INTERESTED.

yep...*sigh*


The problem is though that all my "equals" are just stragglers in life... Like me...
Sick,lame,crazy & lazy...


No, seriously though, I reckon I just don't get out enough. I don't do bars. I live in a small town. Almost all my hobbies and interest don't require group settings. I usually work alone. I'm not interested in spending tons of time and energy on LTR's.
And I'd rather just want what I can't have, than have what I don't want...If that makes sense.

I have a good vehicle and a job but still, I guess the same reason.

My preferences outwiegh my assets.

I made a mutual match with a guy who lived within 10 miles of me early February this year. He asked me out right away, and normally I would have talked more and waited, but for some reason, this time, I did not. We met face to face February 15th. We have been inseperable ever since, I moved into his house in May, and we just spent our first Christmas together, and things are amazing. We have never fought, of course we get frustrated at each other, but this is the first time that I've been in a relationship where we are mature enough to talk out our problems. We have overcome a lot in the last almost year, and I see us spending the rest of our lives together, I really do.

Yesterday morning we were at my parents house for breakfast, and I went into the kitchen to help my mom finish getting breakfast ready, she asked me what I got for Christmas. I told her a remote starter for my car. She yelled out into the living room for my BF to come into the kitchen and she yelled at him for not getting me a ring and proposing. She loves him to pieces.

Anyways, there are happy ending stories on here! I think that there are more then what it seems. I don't know how many people continue on a dating site after they have found someone. I still come around periodically because of the great friends that I made along the way.

When you fall in love it doesn't automatically means it will be to the right person but if you look for reason not to your a 100% sure to find one, nobody is perfect, everybody have flaws and are my preconceived way of thinking who she should be the right ones.

Maybe I want one kind of woman but she is all there is wrong for me maybe my screening process should be reviewed, maybe all I want is all there is wrong for me so whatever time I take or see in her doesn't matter because what I want is the completely opposite of what I should have so i will always choose the wrong on and let the right one pass by. So doesn't matter how I use my head I will always be wrong.

there are men out there who are available.... but I have to agree with a comment about what we want... sometime we all both men and women settle for less in hopes of finding love and then it all falls apart "no commitment"... .... but by the same token you really have to work hard at a relationship have a outstanding outlook on who you are and who they are be willing to compromise accept faults weaknesses and yet revel in the positive things and build on that..... personally I wouldlove to meet just one woman who is willing to try that.. so its a two way street...

Exactly. And, one of my biggest mistakes has been to fall in love and then try to make it work no matter what. I have to approach this more logically and that is hard to do being the hopeless romantic that I am. But, I'm learning fast.