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Being a "nice guy" myself I know the nice guy problem. It is actually being a nice guy instead of pursuing the girl. The times I quit being nervous about what she thought and actually went after it were the times things worked out. I think the women can sense the nervousness and such even if they are not fully aware. Turn over a new leave like me and take the, just go for it attitude. I am asking the girl I am interested in out tomorrow. Not taking a maybe or anything. Either yes, or I am not interested. That way I either get a date, or can move on.
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Mon 09/01/08 07:54 PM
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 We are not getting on this nice guy stuff again are we 
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EDIT! na ah now you gotta say it... I couldnt post what i was going to say, i am far too much of a nice guy. I so wish i could develop a back bone.. |
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We are not getting on this nice guy stuff again are we
The nice guy threads are always exciting
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I'm going to copy this so all I have to do in the future is copy it.
Why do nice guys finish last is the question, here is the answer from a once "nice guy". We are a burden more then we are a treasure, think about it this way everyday your lady hears the same "I think you're beautiful" so it begins to wear on her (she grows either annoyed or accepting, either/or it is negative). After perhaps a couple of months of the same phrase and the gift giving the constant uplifting she starts to wear with the relationship, thus she grows weary of the future (life is not a fairytale)...so after this goes on possibly for years she wants a change of pace, someone to compliment her eyes, dress, legs, hair, etc. Something other then "you're beautiful" she wants a statement that can be played and used in different contexts because lets face it "you're beautiful" can only go so far. Don't get me wrong the statement is good, but use it responsibily and not liberally. Now for the copy. 
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Being a "nice guy" myself I know the nice guy problem. It is actually being a nice guy instead of pursuing the girl. The times I quit being nervous about what she thought and actually went after it were the times things worked out. I think the women can sense the nervousness and such even if they are not fully aware. Turn over a new leave like me and take the, just go for it attitude. I am asking the girl I am interested in out tomorrow. Not taking a maybe or anything. Either yes, or I am not interested. That way I either get a date, or can move on. Yes, that is exactly what you want to do..... 
For me it's not the nervousness that gets to me, it's the wishy washy I can't make a decision it makes me feel like they really aren't interested. they elude to asking you out, then they don't, they say they will call then they don't because they couldn't get the nerve up.... But the ones who deem themselves NICE never are anymore "nice" than the ones who are the assholes... They both act the same, but the jerk guy pays for dinner. |
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Oh yes, because only slutty girls like sex... and judgeing on your opinion and the way you openly use words of hate....that's why your not getting any..... Quoteing you.
If i wantted to get "ANY" i could. It really not that hard, just go in to any bar & start asking Do you want to have sex? 3time out of 10 youll get laid. so that not what i mean. I dont trust to many people, I have to lknow someone before i ask them out. |
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 Nice guys really do turn me on 
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Nice guys really do turn me on
I bet you get a crapload of views with this don't you?
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Oh yes, because only slutty girls like sex... and judgeing on your opinion and the way you openly use words of hate....that's why your not getting any..... Quoteing you. If i wantted to get "ANY" i could. It really not that hard, just go in to any bar & start asking Do you want to have sex? 3time out of 10 youll get laid. so that not what i mean. I dont trust to many people, I have to lknow someone before i ask them out. My question is How do you KNOW a girl is slutty? |
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Oh yes, because only slutty girls like sex... and judgeing on your opinion and the way you openly use words of hate....that's why your not getting any..... Quoteing you. If i wantted to get "ANY" i could. It really not that hard, just go in to any bar & start asking Do you want to have sex? 3time out of 10 youll get laid. so that not what i mean. I dont trust to many people, I have to lknow someone before i ask them out. As easy as that huh? 3 in 10? thats almost 1 in 3. Maybe you are confusing getting slapped around the face with getting laid? |
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Oh yes, because only slutty girls like sex... and judgeing on your opinion and the way you openly use words of hate....that's why your not getting any..... Quoteing you. If i wantted to get "ANY" i could. It really not that hard, just go in to any bar & start asking Do you want to have sex? 3time out of 10 youll get laid. so that not what i mean. I dont trust to many people, I have to lknow someone before i ask them out. My question is How do you KNOW a girl is slutty? Good question. Its the quiet nice girls that you wanna watch out for! |
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Is it because I remeber there brith days,almost never forget to get them gift on holiday, I'm always giveing them advice, They send mix message, but they only like me as a friend? Humm okay back to the Topic in hand. Honestly it could be that you start treating them more so as a friend instead from the beginning. Maybe the problem is you need to let them know how you really feel about them instead. For one will never know unless you tell them. 
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Edited by
Senpai
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Mon 09/01/08 08:10 PM
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I think a sult is a female/male who talk about how many people they had sex with like it nothing. come to detroit & youll be amazed at eazy it is to have sex here. all you need is a comdom.
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I think a sult is a female/male who talk about how people they had sex with like it nothing. come to detroit & youll be amazed at eazy it is to have sex here. all you need is a comdom. ummmm no thanks thats the kind of sex that ruins it for the real stuff |
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Oh yes, because only slutty girls like sex... and judgeing on your opinion and the way you openly use words of hate....that's why your not getting any..... Quoteing you. If i wantted to get "ANY" i could. It really not that hard, just go in to any bar & start asking Do you want to have sex? 3time out of 10 youll get laid. so that not what i mean. I dont trust to many people, I have to lknow someone before i ask them out. My question is How do you KNOW a girl is slutty? I'll answer this question and yours at the same time... I have a group of guy friends, we go camping, out to the bars, play sports together ect ect... They are only friends due to a few facts... 1.) Some of them I am only attracted to as a friend. 2.) Some of them that in the past I have been attracted to I have watched how they treat other women and the words they use...slutty and whore are two of them... If they use these words they are not of a caliber that I would date. They are my friends because of the way they treat me, but would never date them due to their inmatureity of respect. 3.) I have been friends with girls they have dated and I don't do that. |
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I think a sult is a female/male who talk about how people they had sex with like it nothing. come to detroit & youll be amazed at eazy it is to have sex here. all you need is a comdom. ummmm no thanks thats the kind of sex that ruins it for the real stuff Smart man!! 
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what did i ask for you to answer?
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what did i ask for you to answer? Nothing? I don't believe you asked me a question.... |
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