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| Topic: why do women only think of me as a friend? | |
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I think a sult is a female/male who talk about how many people they had sex with like it nothing. come to detroit & youll be amazed at eazy it is to have sex here. all you need is a comdom. and $20 or a small rock...lol |
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what did i ask for you to answer? when you come on the forum I guess you are asking all or any of us to answer...aren't you? 
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...So what are we going to do sit home on a saturday night with nothing to do while the nice guy with no balls goes to the bar and looks at all the girls who will never want him...
But if we go and look...and we already KNOW that they will never want us....why should we bother then?? |
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...So what are we going to do sit home on a saturday night with nothing to do while the nice guy with no balls goes to the bar and looks at all the girls who will never want him...
But if we go and look...and we already KNOW that they will never want us....why should we bother then?? The whole quote stated why "we" go out with jerks, because jerks ask us out and the nice guys don't.... |
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...So what are we going to do sit home on a saturday night with nothing to do while the nice guy with no balls goes to the bar and looks at all the girls who will never want him...
But if we go and look...and we already KNOW that they will never want us....why should we bother then?? The whole quote stated why "we" go out with jerks, because jerks ask us out and the nice guys don't.... I understand that, Lily. But my point still stands. If we already know the outcome, why subject ourselves to the abuse? Just playing Devil's Advocate here. :-) |
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what is so bad about that? you have to start somewhere...why not friends? why rush into all the other stuff like sex and relationships that just puts pressure on you and leads to heart ache. If you can stick with a person with no expectations something may just grow...it is called learning to value another human being even the opposite sex. As Medea Would say ...... HELERRE!! OK!!!! UH HUH!!! DATS RIGHT!!! |
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...So what are we going to do sit home on a saturday night with nothing to do while the nice guy with no balls goes to the bar and looks at all the girls who will never want him...
But if we go and look...and we already KNOW that they will never want us....why should we bother then?? The whole quote stated why "we" go out with jerks, because jerks ask us out and the nice guys don't.... I understand that, Lily. But my point still stands. If we already know the outcome, why subject ourselves to the abuse? Just playing Devil's Advocate here. :-) Ok well the nice guy can stay home and play pocket pool for all I care, the fact of the matter is that he didn't ask and the jerk did. |
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...So what are we going to do sit home on a saturday night with nothing to do while the nice guy with no balls goes to the bar and looks at all the girls who will never want him...
But if we go and look...and we already KNOW that they will never want us....why should we bother then?? The whole quote stated why "we" go out with jerks, because jerks ask us out and the nice guys don't.... I understand that, Lily. But my point still stands. If we already know the outcome, why subject ourselves to the abuse? Just playing Devil's Advocate here. :-) Ok well the nice guy can stay home and play pocket pool for all I care, the fact of the matter is that he didn't ask and the jerk did. But...but...but...women say they are TIRED of the jerks. So they go out with them anyway for lack of better options??? lol |
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But...but...but...women say they are TIRED of the jerks. So they go out with them anyway for lack of better options??? lol Some of the jerkiest asshole guys I've gone out with have been "nice" |
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Ummm.....that makes absolutely NO sense. Not to a guy anyway...lol
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Ummm.....that makes absolutely NO sense. Not to a guy anyway...lol wait for it, wait for it...... look carefully at the quotations around certain words.... Oh score.... |
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Yeah....umm...I kinda noticed the quotes....still doesn't change the fact that the statement doesn't make sense.
If a guy was a " jerky ass*ole " then there was no " nice " about him. Just a pleasant facade. :-) |
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watch the movie "swingers" it was an independent film. it has vince vaugn in it. with a name like that you are probably thinking porno.. nope- no nudity. but it has a guy thzt was going through heartache... and it talks about this. good movie for people who thinks girls just always want to be friends.
it was made in 1996. |
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Yeah....umm...I kinda noticed the quotes....still doesn't change the fact that the statement doesn't make sense. If a guy was a " jerky ass*ole " then there was no " nice " about him. Just a pleasant facade. :-) DING DING DING...WINNER WINNER.... WHOOP WHOOP....    
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Edited by
sca344
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Mon 09/01/08 09:27 PM
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Yeah....umm...I kinda noticed the quotes....still doesn't change the fact that the statement doesn't make sense. If a guy was a " jerky ass*ole " then there was no " nice " about him. Just a pleasant facade. :-) she is not talking nice in a personality sense. edit*i didnt see your last sentence. when i posted this :P |
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Yeah....umm...I kinda noticed the quotes....still doesn't change the fact that the statement doesn't make sense. If a guy was a " jerky ass*ole " then there was no " nice " about him. Just a pleasant facade. :-) she is not talking nice in a personality sense. edit*i didnt see your last sentence. when i posted this :P No worries, dude. I have been guilty of having that happen a few times, myself.
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Mon 09/01/08 09:41 PM
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Yeah....umm...I kinda noticed the quotes....still doesn't change the fact that the statement doesn't make sense. If a guy was a " jerky ass*ole " then there was no " nice " about him. Just a pleasant facade. :-) DING DING DING...WINNER WINNER.... WHOOP WHOOP....
Ok....so what if there is a guy who actually IS a nice guy....but knows that he can be an ass*ole at times.....just not the times that being one would be good for you??? lol * grabs fencing helmet to try to avoid the stabs that are surely coming my way * |
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Yeah....umm...I kinda noticed the quotes....still doesn't change the fact that the statement doesn't make sense. If a guy was a " jerky ass*ole " then there was no " nice " about him. Just a pleasant facade. :-) DING DING DING...WINNER WINNER.... WHOOP WHOOP....
Ok....so what if there is a guy who actually IS a nice guy....but knows that he can be an ass*ole at times.....just not the times that being one would be good for you??? lol * grabs fencing helmet to try to avoid the stabs that are surely coming my way * I don't deal with an asshole guy ever.... They go out with last nights trash.... The nice ones, the asshole ones, the almost nice but still asshole ones, the ones who's true asshole hasn't come out yet but is rearing it's ugly head.... They all get kicked out...WHY THE HELL DO YOU THINK I'M SINGLE? |
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Mon 09/01/08 09:52 PM
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Yeah....umm...I kinda noticed the quotes....still doesn't change the fact that the statement doesn't make sense. If a guy was a " jerky ass*ole " then there was no " nice " about him. Just a pleasant facade. :-) DING DING DING...WINNER WINNER.... WHOOP WHOOP....
Ok....so what if there is a guy who actually IS a nice guy....but knows that he can be an ass*ole at times.....just not the times that being one would be good for you??? lol * grabs fencing helmet to try to avoid the stabs that are surely coming my way * I don't deal with an asshole guy ever.... They go out with last nights trash.... The nice ones, the asshole ones, the almost nice but still asshole ones, the ones who's true asshole hasn't come out yet but is rearing it's ugly head.... They all get kicked out...WHY THE HELL DO YOU THINK I'M SINGLE? LOL!!! Good point.
Ok....so just because I HAVE to ask..... What constitutes being an ass*ole??? Is it the third time he comes home grumpy grumpy after a long day at work? Just generally treating you badly? I mean, I know that there are times when I am not the easiest person in the world to live with ( hence a part of the reason I am still single as well ), but generally, I am a GOOD man. Where does the " ass*ole " line get drawn? |
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GIRLS do that with men. WOMEN ... not so much. as a woman, i seek a man that knows how to be best lover and best friend. as for the guy who will never go that way again, ya right. if you seek to be in the company of women, you must forgive and move the hell forward baby. we are not that different than you. we've been hurt too ... who's brave enough to be both friend AND lover? hell, i may get hurt, but i want no less than that. :D can i get an amen?!! from both sides of the gender equation?!! :D
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