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Topic: Ok so here is my question?
MalenaC's photo
Mon 09/01/08 03:19 PM

What would you do if your bf/gf had a ex that was always calling? If it bothered you would you say something about it, and what would you say?





Get the heck out of my life and go with your EX

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Mon 09/01/08 03:33 PM

What would you do if your bf/gf had a ex that was always calling? If it bothered you would you say something about it, and what would you say?



My ex b/f called me last week...he didn't know I moved 1200 miles south a month ago. I still get mail at his address, which I left over 2 yrs. ago, he wanted to know where to send something from my insurance company that he said 'looked like a check'. Hoping he doesn't call anymore!

Last weekend Tony's ex wife called while he was gone hunting all weekend. I asked her if I could pass on a message..."Just tell him I called"...I let him know she called when he returned.

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Mon 09/01/08 03:35 PM
Edited by JusWannaSayHi on Mon 09/01/08 03:36 PM

What would you do if your bf/gf had a ex that was always calling? If it bothered you would you say something about it, and what would you say?






I would say .....
Fine be friends but there has to be LIMITS and if ya cross the limit I am gonna just let ya be with one another......

I mean come on!!!! how much do ya really need to talk to them other than maybe you have kids together... yeah I would NOT LIKE THAT AT ALL

chriswantstocuddle's photo
Mon 09/01/08 06:57 PM
id just ask what the deal was and then move on with life

Chazster's photo
Mon 09/01/08 07:22 PM
I think it would really depend. I have an ex that I talk to on a regular basis. We broke up 2 years ago, but she is a very important friend. She helped me get through some really rough times in my life. I had lots of issues back then and who knows where I would be know if not for her.

I would, of course, explain this to my gf. It is not a normal situation. The ex also lives across the country now.

dawnyhi's photo
Mon 09/01/08 07:24 PM
I would pick up the phone and say the numbr you have dialed is now a residence of an individual who has moved on you do the same...

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 09/01/08 09:32 PM
Hmmm.....

This one...well...one of my ex's and I are still very good friends.

She calls me and asks me for advice about her paintings and selling them and stuff like that.

She doesn't call an inordinate number of times, and if I tell her not to call...she won't.

I don't want to get back together with her. We have talked about why we are not together anymore. But we are still friends.

That's just the way it is.

Anyone who is jealous enough to try to make me stop talking to a friend ( and ONLY a friend ) probably wouldn't get very far into a relationship with me anyway. I don't deal well with jealousy. It's a very ugly thing.

MLG40's photo
Tue 09/02/08 05:30 AM

depends

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