Absolutely it's made a difference....I went from being an ambitious, constructive person...to someone who has no life, stuck to a computer for serval hours a day and being half blind from staring at a computer screen. And if I see one more thread about would you, could you or will you do something with the person above you...I'll hang myself!!!

prayers & love


for you my Sister Suzanne and for your Boys...


i hope you are getting enough rest & eating well...


i worry about you.... you are so tiny as it is...

Well I'm hiding my Rope then lol

I have made a lot of friends here, and a few enemies lol...

The thing about internet communities, (and i have been in a few) is that if you take time to really get to know people, and understand, or at least try and understand others positions on issues...Then that opinion may do one of three things..

It may reinforce your own opinion, or maybe give some insight to modify your opinion, or it could alter your stance on any given issue completely.

I think too many people misinterpret the typed word, and are too quick to jump to conclusions. Reading first and hanging back a bit can really enhance perspective.

I have made alot of friends....but these three have seen me through alot of bumps in the road of life in the last 9 months.

Lillith- It's like we share a brain.I would trust her with my child, my money and my boyfriend.

Hiker- My non sexual hand holding wifey.

Darth- Someone I can count on to piss me off at the right time, be there to talk about the important things at the right time, and spend endless hours on the phone and texting double entandras to each other.... Or blatent sexual references whatever...

Awwwwwwww myself I must say that the people I have meet on this site have been AWESOME. I have learned a lot these last two years since I have been here. I have gain a whole lot of friends that have been there for me when I needed them. And I tried to do the same for them.


Awwwwwww and I got into writing poetry hummm which I did not before JSH had only done 3-4 before arriving here. Now with well over 300 written.

I have seen many find a love. and then some loose the ones they found. But.....only cause they were not meant to be.

Myself I think I have learn to put things in the past that belong there and have been able to move on with my life.

I'm sure that we all have learned a few things and made some great friends.

i miss the talks but i understand my friend

☼ it changed my bedtime schedule

Ohhh John the feeling is mutual you have been a dear friend to me as well. I wish you only the best in life.

Meh. For better or worse..I am who I am.

With or without this site, I would be me.

Am I a better person because of this place....honest answer???....not really.

Every day that I am here....I get a little more discouraged about my prospects of finding someone.

Don't get me wrong...I love the people here. That's why I am still hanging around.

Very well put...!

And I have found that after I start talking on the phone with them, it cements the friendship formed here..

You know, when you jump into a big body of waters that you cannot tell the depth and direction of things all over, all at once.
It's like that, being new here.
So I flail and flounder and don't accomplish much except learning to swim.

It frustrates the assumptions and illusions of coming in here. It's not relaxing unless I relax and let it be. I cannot swim against the tide...but I am learning a little with time.

That's the hardest thing: To let go of what I expected and to deal with what is here. There are tons of profiles to Mutual Match, and people to meet, and the distance is not a problem.

"The distance is nothing; it is only the first step that is difficult." ~ Madame du Deffand~

I just want to say THANKS to you and your MARINE SON, for the service to This Country and may He return safe.....!!

May GOD Bless,


Clark

Amen Clark !!!...


Suz... Brett Brad



Love, Prayers and Respect always,


Nessa

Thank u Clark...I appreciate u..more than words can say..

Venessa...I love you..U are awesome..and ur support for our military ant he families...

are bigger than this Earth..

Suzanne..

Has it made a difference in my life?
...I learned a few things and that make a difference in the way I see these sites..I learned that the majority of folks behind keyboards belong there..The amount of censorship is unreal ..constructive criticism is better relayed in person. .vulgarity is rampant..and sadly the moral conduct among adults is appalling..If the censors took out all references to sexual organs and ways to use them the forums would be a great place to visit however that is not the style here..so we get stuck reading through trash to find readable content....
Dollar value is perfect however ...after all we get what we pay for....you asked...
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I learned that this is not my place to be and I would urge every one here looking for a relationship to leave the comfort of your home and keyboard and go find one...My logic there is that the more we exersice the longer we live ,hence more time to make friends....
...and yes I will be deleting my profile...

It has a bit, could I of lived without the site...yes. Do I enjoy the friends I've made...yes...all in all the site is fun, but the fact remains that most of the people I have met are out of state...seems all the locals disappear as soon as one signs on.

Im here for a reason....no one knows why......I hope I made a difference.........

Yes, this summer my grass didn't get mowed often enough, my flowers look scraggly, my car isn't as clean as it should be & my house needs a though cleaning. I have spent way to much time on JSH.