It is a representation of strength the ability to carry not only
childrenn but the weight of the world of your back with assuredness..I
give good feet rubs WILL

the most important thing for me isn't looks at all..... it has to be
that whether or not that they are being honest to me. I hate it that
people are lying to me..... I've been in way too many relationships when
women have stright faced used me and lied to me about it. So honesty is
the most important factor in a relationship to me, period.

Let's be real you have to be initally attracted to the person but yes,
personality can make or break someone that is cute.

But looks is also in the eye of the beholder

being attracted to someone is important, but I'm not sure that
attraction (even at first) is purely a "looks" thing. I've met guys
that were really attractive physically and either really dumb or really
obnoxious-and both of those are an absolute deal breaker.

plus, there are people like me that, uh, look nothing like their
personality (I've been told this many times...and quite recently as
well). I've been passed up plenty of times because I'm not a "barbie
doll" kinda girl, and that's okay with me...their loss and I'm glad they
kept walking. (Don't let the door hit ya where the god Lord split ya!)

I know who I am and I know what I have to offer. People that know me
love me for my flaws, inside and out. To me, personality and a man's
CHARACTER are so much more important that anything superficial. I've
always believed that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What is
absolutely beautiful to me may be horendous to you.

Feh...You people are nuts. The number one most important thing to look
for in a woman is a pulse, am I right??? lol

Heh, sorry...But seriously, I think its what you have in mind to happen
when you meet a person. If its just a casual dating thing that you
really have no desire to spend much time with them, looks over
personality. However, if you were looking for a long term relationship
that you planned on staying in for the long haul, then its personality
over looks.

I also guess that age might have something to do with it. Back in
school, it was always looks over personality because when you're that
young, who believes that looks could actually fade one day, or that you
might have to spend more then a few hours at a time? -=x

actually I look for personality, but most important on how they interact
with my children, I look at my children to see how they feel first
before I make my decision.