Topic: What is the #1 most important thing you look for? | |
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is it more so looks or personality? I myself like a good balance whats a
great looking person without a personality? what about you? |
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hi,
for anyone to say that looks don't matter at all would be lying. generally, i feel most folks need to find someone who's at least average looking and maybe have a fantastic personality. although, i need to be attacted to someone's personality before considering bringing things to a new level. but it does help if they're good looking though! |
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It seems to me that looks are mostly a doorway to me. Looks tend to get
things started, but after that personality becomes important. For example, there have been times that people I was not initially attracted to became attractive the more I got to know them.. |
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I think that personality is more important than looks. I am not openly
looking for someone I find unattractive, but there have been many cases where someone who would be generally considered cute became repulsive because of their personality. I have also had cases where people who wouldn't ordinarily be cute became a very big interest because of their personality. |
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I always mention to an attractive looking female that if she has a
personality to match her looks I could dig that. Unfortunately (maybe) I am picky sometimes maybe too picky for my own good hahaha |
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I Agree what would you rather have a good looking girl that's a BI*** or
and not so looking girl that you can carry a conversation on with or even more |
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to be honest it is all about the smile and the eyes and the personality
if thats all fake you might as well not even talk to me |
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Love. A lady who knows how to really love..... there is nothing more wonderful on the earth...haha is that corny?? well i don't give a shit:) Andrew |
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Anyone that says looks r not important is lying. Im not saying they
have to be drop dead gorgeous but at least attractive to you. Personality is also very importants to me. I like to have fun and joke around and I like someone that can laugh and have fun with me. So neither one is as important as the other to me but i would like them to have both qualities going for them. |
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I look for someone i can relate to. I enjoy good conversation and humor
so i like a guy who is intelligent and knowledgeable on numerous topics. Overall though if we have nothing in common he could be as hot as hell but i'm still not going to do more then drool at him. ;p |
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I completely agree.
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I agree andrew but at the same time it is there personality if you date
a person for there looks than you just will be getting no where because that their personality stand out before anything. if you have a messed up personality and look good why would I want you? because you look good. no that not me. |
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but sometimes you meet someone who's average looking but has such a
larger than life and attractive personality, that you dont really pay attention to their looks at all. |
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i look for at there eyes and hair...not to mention there tits and if
that flies then we talk and see if we have anything in common |
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Looks and personality should always be balanced. What wud you do if a
guy tells you he luvs you like anything, is sincere, caring and all taht stuff. But whenever you see him you feel like screaming at the top of your voice with horror and disgust.Doesn't make ne sense. does it? So atleast looks should be bearable enough if not drop dead gorgeous |
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There should be a balance between looks and personality. Know where
their heart is and if you have anything in common. |
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I agree with most of you guys on the level of communication and visual
stuff... Looks are only skin deep ,,, and you know the lights are on and no bodys home thing!! ...If worse comes to worse I could carry a good conversation with myself if needd be.... LOL But I feel the most important thing is to find the persons core personality. All this other stuff is superficial.... its the inner spirit that counts. |
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EYES. if she can't look me in the eyes, I'm cautious.
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looks are very important.there must be physical attraction,but she also
must be able to hold up a conversation as well. |
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That has been true so many, many, times.
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