it doesn't matter how cute they are it is what's on the inside that
counts

I HEAR THAT!!!!!!!!!!

This also has been true for me

as long as they understand what is going on with you. not the past is
all they need to know

EVERYBODY LOOKS FOR A GOOD LOOKING PERSON BUT IT TAKES CONFIDENTS,AND
SECURE IN THEMSELVES TO BE ABLE TO HANDLE A GOOD LOOKING PERSON.PEOPLE
CAN TEND TO BE INSECURE WITH THEMSELVES AND THAT IS WHY THEY WANT THE
INSIDE MORE THAN OUTSIDE,MOST OF THE TIME WOMEN WILL NOT EVEN TRY TO GET
TO NO SOME ONE WHO IS GOODLOOKING BECAUSE THEY ARE JUDGING THEM WITHOUT
KNOWING THEM.I AM TALKING ABOUT MODEL MATERIAL OR CLOSE TO IT.THERE ARE
ALOT OF GOODLOOKING PEOPLE OUT THERE,BUT SOME ARE JUDGED MORE THAN
OTHERS.

it is mind over matter right

I totally agree Kay. If u have one but not the other, it's not so
wonderful. Eddie Murphy once said "I can't be makin love to no funny,
cock-eyed b*%ch". They can have the personality but if they're butt
ugly, it just won't work out. If they r hot, but have no personality,
they have no chance, lol.

I am looking for that one special person. She has to be able to dream. I
mean dream really big. There is a big beautiful world out there to
discover and I want to find that someone to share it with. Someone who
enjoys living life. Someone who looks at the bad as a learning
experience and stives to do better and someone who wants to make a
difference.

looks are important,but a good personality makes the person

i think that a person should have both looks and personality, but
everyone aint blessed like that. me i dont care about the looks, but
personality means alot. a person can be just as beautiful on the inside
than out, after all, beauty is only skin deep.

the SOUL

humm I agree with most of you, Looks to me are not the important but I
will be lying if I say I don't take that in consideration, a good sense
of humor, caring,honest down to earth,loyal guy will do it for me, even
if he is not that good looking......I been dump and sometimes been told
straight out "no thank you" in my face, only by describing myself and my
weight without that person giving me a chance to know me in person, just
because I am not skinny bone, and since it hurts alot still to be
rejected like that , I try not to be cruel and give guys some chance.

y'all ever heard the song, She Ain't Pretty She Just Looks That Way?..I
dated a woman for a while that on the outside was drop dead, make yer
knees weak, boobs out to here, gorgeous..but what a fkin head case...the
funny part was, because of her looks, she was used to being the one to
end a relationship( you know, cuz some guys are stupid and will put up
with all kinds of crap just to say they got a hot lookin g/f)..she
didn't know how to react when I dropped her but she was pissed...guess I
was the 1st guy that ever told HER it was over lmao

Feet!

I believe you have to have that first attraction...if its your eyes
first meet and you like someones eyes or whatever! I believe that looks
do fade after time, inner beauty can grow:) I believe if you have a
beautiful heart, you have it made!! Be a kind, caring person then you
will find the person that you are suppose to be with....if you don't,
then keep searching because there is someone out there for everyone :)

Realness..Someone who is as unafraid of the neg as they are of the
pos..Awareness that it is all connected ..That we all float in the same
water...OH and I wish she could sing>>WILL

To me the way a guy is usual what turn me on to him,so he has to be a
good kisser and very caring person. Then trusting, faithful, sense of
human come into play:)

i think it all comes down to how much of an importance you place on
looks. of coursed everyone would like an attractive person but would you
turn down your potential man/women of your dreams because they weren't
attractive. i wouldn't turn her down. i love an attractive woman but it
is not the most important thing i am looking for, looks don't matter to
me that much.

oh yeah and feet !!! feet !!! WILL

OK lets say her feet are ugly...would you still date her? I hate my
feet..haha! I think most women do hate their feet, why do men like feet?
What is so sexy about them????