Topic: Ladies what's more important?
feralcatlady's photo
Mon 08/25/08 08:30 PM
Intelligence first

Humor second

thats it.........I don't care what a persons outward appearance is as long as I like what's on the inside.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 08/25/08 08:33 PM

It's not a theory, it is fact. Experiments and studies were done, data collected. Therefore....FACT. And its not mine...I just quoted some stuff from there. And yes you can delve into your own subcon. to see whats going on. But of course you're so much better than everyone else, you never succumb to any basser instincts. You're SUPER LILLY!!! the future of mankind, the supirior being of tomorrow, today. LOL. Get over yourself Lil and off your high horse.

And you have sex with random strangers? That is what you said isnt it? "if I'm having random sex with a random person...." Nice....there's class for you.....



Over and out.


Ok...this just BEGS the question....

If this has been determined as a FACT....how in the blue hell is that even possible if people are doing it subconsciously???

If it's not a conscious act, and they, indeed, don't even know they are doing it...then how in the hell could anyone PROVE they are doing it?? Hypnosis??? Sorry...too much chance for suggestibility.

Oh wait...lemme guess...these docs came up to the person being studied ( which by the way indicates voyeuristic tendencies on the part of the " doctors " but that's a whole different subject altogether ) and said " Ok....this is what you were REALLY thinking about when you were banging that woman over there...and the gullible dude says..." Oh YEAH!!! How did you KNOW that "....and the docs say " Just trust us....we can read you mind ".

Sorry dude....but that entire study sounds like a crock of sh*t to me.

hoppytoad79's photo
Mon 08/25/08 08:48 PM
Brains, no question. It's all about who he is as a person, not what he looks like.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 08/25/08 08:49 PM
: sighs :

Sorry ladies...I know an awful lot of you have said that....but I am still not really buying it.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 08/25/08 09:01 PM

Whatever Lil, you think what you want. My pics wern't fake. You just wish they were. You just cant handle someone else having a veiw point that doesnt agree with yours in the end. I can read. And yes-you said If and maybe...I never contradicted this. I never told you what you were thinking, just pointed out you might not know yourself. And No I have not had sex with anyone I didn't have deep feelings for. And never a one night stand either. My standards are different from yours. Not saying they're better or higher or anything like that before you dive off the deep end and try to twist my words, just saying they're DIFFERENT. You like to manipulate I can plainly see. So I'll leave you to your twisted devices. I wont post on your threads anymore and expect the same from you.....ok? Truce? Treaty?
But I can already tell you'll have something more to say in a negative light. So go on....get it out of your system. I'm out. Kurva Jedna.


ya, passive agressive... you say truce then you say you already know I'm going to be negative...yep. passive agressive, seek counsel... You need it.

hoppytoad79's photo
Mon 08/25/08 09:14 PM
I've never found Brad Pitt particularly appealing. Blond and blue eyes just don't do it for me, for some reason. Brown hair and brown or green eyes, however...drool

Saying "You'd look hot in that dress" is very different than "If you want to look hot, wear that dress". If a guy said the first to me, I'd consider buying the dress. A guy who said the second would be told not to let the door hit him on the way out. There are those who understand the difference and no explanation is necessary. There are those who don't and no explanation is possible.

Lakersfan4eva's photo
Mon 08/25/08 09:19 PM
Brains, hands down! Very attractive in a manbigsmile

no photo
Mon 08/25/08 09:21 PM
<----when you look this good,you dont have to ha e brainslaugh

No1sLove's photo
Mon 08/25/08 09:24 PM
I have discovered the combo meal. happy smitten

Cmigic's photo
Tue 08/26/08 03:33 AM


Whatever Lil, you think what you want. My pics wern't fake. You just wish they were. You just cant handle someone else having a veiw point that doesnt agree with yours in the end. I can read. And yes-you said If and maybe...I never contradicted this. I never told you what you were thinking, just pointed out you might not know yourself. And No I have not had sex with anyone I didn't have deep feelings for. And never a one night stand either. My standards are different from yours. Not saying they're better or higher or anything like that before you dive off the deep end and try to twist my words, just saying they're DIFFERENT. You like to manipulate I can plainly see. So I'll leave you to your twisted devices. I wont post on your threads anymore and expect the same from you.....ok? Truce? Treaty?
But I can already tell you'll have something more to say in a negative light. So go on....get it out of your system. I'm out. Kurva Jedna.


ya, passive agressive... you say truce then you say you already know I'm going to be negative...yep. passive agressive, seek counsel... You need it.



LOL see you just proved it!!!just couldnt let it go could you.....LOL

JaceKnows's photo
Tue 08/26/08 03:35 AM

brains or brahn?

I like brains, I could talk for hours with someone who is intelligent, I may turn my head for a good looking guy but once he's passed I forget all about him... one with brains and a sense of humor can keep me intrigued for hours...

I was intriged for hours last night.... smitten


I wasn't here last night! How did that happen???

lilith401's photo
Tue 08/26/08 05:39 AM
Lily, brains over brawn.... not doubt about it. Brawn is like the vanilla icing on a carrot cake. Not a must, be oh so nice as a bonus.

Mental stimulation is the key to the rest of me. I heard a funny story the other night. This person is dating someone, but they aren't that bright. The subject of professions comes up, and someone says something about the trash collectors. The not so bright one says, "Well, they only work one day a week..."

no photo
Tue 08/26/08 05:43 AM
i'm screwed


I want both- no discussion. :)

no photo
Tue 08/26/08 05:52 AM

Whatever Lil, you think what you want. My pics wern't fake. You just wish they were. You just cant handle someone else having a veiw point that doesnt agree with yours in the end. I can read. And yes-you said If and maybe...I never contradicted this. I never told you what you were thinking, just pointed out you might not know yourself. And No I have not had sex with anyone I didn't have deep feelings for. And never a one night stand either. My standards are different from yours. Not saying they're better or higher or anything like that before you dive off the deep end and try to twist my words, just saying they're DIFFERENT. You like to manipulate I can plainly see. So I'll leave you to your twisted devices. I wont post on your threads anymore and expect the same from you.....ok? Truce? Treaty?
But I can already tell you'll have something more to say in a negative light. So go on....get it out of your system. I'm out. Kurva Jedna.


You seem to be the one with issues about someone not agreeing with what you've said.

Krimsa's photo
Tue 08/26/08 05:52 AM
Edited by Krimsa on Tue 08/26/08 05:57 AM

brains or brahn?

I like brains, I could talk for hours with someone who is intelligent, I may turn my head for a good looking guy but once he's passed I forget all about him... one with brains and a sense of humor can keep me intrigued for hours...

I was intriged for hours last night.... smitten


I know I am generally not physically/sexually attracted to the typical "Adonis type male". Not every woman is. Of course we all have our varying tastes. So yes, I would agree with you that someone I can communicate with on an intellectual level will help to sustain and build a meaningful relationship in the long term. At the very least it will assist in building a stronger foundation for the relationship to progress.

lilith401's photo
Tue 08/26/08 05:56 AM
rofl rofl rofl rofl Did I read that someone posted that Lily might not know herself?rofl rofl rofl

You couldn't be more wrong.

I do find it interesting that this observation was made. Ever read her posting history? :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Thank you for the hysterical laugh.... I really busted a gut on that.


Krimsa's photo
Tue 08/26/08 05:59 AM
Yeah I was just going to mention that Lily has never struck me as a very ambiguous woman just based on how she formulates her ideas and contemplates before she reacts to comments.

lilith401's photo
Tue 08/26/08 06:03 AM
Krimsa~You hit it right on the head...I've met Lily, we live in neighboring cities. She is not vague or wishy washy, and definitely self-aware.

Whoever wrote that really cracked me up. It brings to mind the quandry of "assume"....right?

Marley's photo
Tue 08/26/08 06:08 AM
What in the hell is Brahns? Now Brahms composed a lullaby. And brawn describes a powerful physique. But, I dunno about brahns.

Krimsa's photo
Tue 08/26/08 06:11 AM
That is really nit picking don’t you think? This is a casually based electronic forum and we all were able to "piece it together" based on the contextual relevance. Sheesh.