Topic: Ladies what's more important?
Jim519's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:48 PM
I agree when it comes to women....She may be totally gorgeous, but when she opens her mouth it sounds like a bag full of sh1t.

Intelligence and beauty would be ideal, cant seem to find it...SUre it is out there somewhere..flowerforyou

beachbum069's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:48 PM
I like a women with brains. (.)(.) are nice but they don't hold a conversation very long.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:49 PM

Brains, of course. If he's hot and stupid, that won't last long :tongue:.


about an hour at best I'd say...

Joeydfw's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:50 PM

I agree when it comes to women....She may be totally gorgeous, but when she opens her mouth it sounds like a bag full of sh1t.

Intelligence and beauty would be ideal, cant seem to find it...SUre it is out there somewhere..flowerforyou


Reminds me of a saying I read in a bathroom stall somewhere....

No matter how good looking she is..someone, somewhere is sick of her crap.

Humor is a must, and able to carry on a conversation IMO

Def03's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:51 PM
brians.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:51 PM

Humor is a must, and able to carry on a conversation IMO


Well if that's what he's looking for he's lucky, I can carry on both sides of a conversation on my own... I talk alot... don't say much, but I talk alot...rofl rofl rofl

Lily0923's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:52 PM

I like a women with brains. (.)(.) are nice but they don't hold a conversation very long.


Ya well they (the generalized they meaning men) seem to want them too with how much they stare at them like they are going to do tricks...

Joeydfw's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:54 PM


I like a women with brains. (.)(.) are nice but they don't hold a conversation very long.


Ya well they (the generalized they meaning men) seem to want them too with how much they stare at them like they are going to do tricks...


They do tricks??!

yaneverknow777's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:54 PM
Edited by yaneverknow777 on Mon 08/25/08 02:56 PM
I'm so used to a woman telling me to shut up I think you women are from mars.


Ya well they (the generalized they meaning men) seem to want them too with how much they stare at them like they are going to do tricks...

and it's neat when they do :banana:

Lily0923's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:56 PM

They do tricks??!


Out of this world.... but not in the bar for some reason and not when they are oggled. It's like they have a mind of their own.

Cmigic's photo
Mon 08/25/08 02:58 PM
Edited by Cmigic on Mon 08/25/08 03:05 PM
You say " I may turn my head for a good looking guy but once he's passed I forget all about him..." well you havent. Just the simple fact that you turned your head and acknowledged his "look", according to a study in sexual psychology on "Courtship Disorders & Erotic Target Location Errors" done by several doctors including Dr. Nelson Soucasaux, Dr Victoria Zdrok and Dr Paul L. Vasey, found that this turning of the head is actually "taking a visual/mental snapshot" for later use. That these "snapshots" are brought back during sex. You have sex with your mentally stimulating partner while envisioning the good looking man/woman you saw earlier. This can also happen with people on/in TV/movies.

Now misconstrue what I'm saying, its not every single person that does this, just the clear majority, WITHOUT even realizing it!!


So while you try to validate yur intellectual relationship, your primal/sexual mind is stimulated by the good-looking strong man for simple reasons. Reproduction and Providership/Protection. You might not realize it but its true. On a base level. Men are the same, they look for a woman with certain physical features for the same reasons. Most of us do this without even realizing it.

Funny how the brain really works, or how these doctors of psychology think it does anyways.

This being said....I prefer a combination woman. One that looks good (doesn't have to be beautiful just beautiful to me) and smart (has her own educated opinions, can stand by her arguments with facts etc...) and also a sense of humour and a sense of life.

Joaverage's photo
Mon 08/25/08 03:03 PM


brains or brahn?

I like brains, I could talk for hours with someone who is intelligent, I may turn my head for a good looking guy but once he's passed I forget all about him... one with brains and a sense of humor can keep me intrigued for hours...

I was intriged for hours last night.... smitten


Lucky b**ch. laugh

I'll take brains anyday.


What she said!!!

Juan_motime's photo
Mon 08/25/08 03:04 PM
Brains are pretty messy without all the rest of it

Lily0923's photo
Mon 08/25/08 03:04 PM

You say " I may turn my head for a good looking guy but once he's passed I forget all about him..." well you havent. Just the simple fact that you turned your head and acknowledged his "look", according to a study in sexual psychology on "Courtship Disorders & Erotic Target Location Errors" done by several doctors including Dr. Nelson Soucasaux, Dr Victoria Zdrok and Dr Paul L. Vasey, found that this turning of the head is actually "taking a visual/mental snapshot" for later use. That these "snapshots" are brought back during sex. You have sex with your mentally stimulating partner while envisioning the good looking man/woman you saw earlier. This can also happen with people on/in TV/movies.

Now misconstrue what I'm saying, its not every single person that does this, just the clear majority, WITHOUT even realizing it!!

So while you try to validate yur intellectual relationship, your primal/sexual mind is stimulated by the good-looking strong man for simple reasons. Reproduction and Providership/Protection. You might not realize it but its true. On a base level. Men are the same, they look for a woman with certain physical features for the same reasons. Most of us do this without even realizing it.

Funny how the brain really works, or how these doctors of psychology think it does anyways.


It may be true, but I don't "mate" with stupid men no matter how good looking they are. If he can't make me laugh I'm not turned on in the slightest by him.I don't find the Brad Pitts attractive, I like the Edward Nortons and the Nicholas Cages HOTT.

Cmigic's photo
Mon 08/25/08 03:08 PM


You say " I may turn my head for a good looking guy but once he's passed I forget all about him..." well you havent. Just the simple fact that you turned your head and acknowledged his "look", according to a study in sexual psychology on "Courtship Disorders & Erotic Target Location Errors" done by several doctors including Dr. Nelson Soucasaux, Dr Victoria Zdrok and Dr Paul L. Vasey, found that this turning of the head is actually "taking a visual/mental snapshot" for later use. That these "snapshots" are brought back during sex. You have sex with your mentally stimulating partner while envisioning the good looking man/woman you saw earlier. This can also happen with people on/in TV/movies.

Now misconstrue what I'm saying, its not every single person that does this, just the clear majority, WITHOUT even realizing it!!

So while you try to validate yur intellectual relationship, your primal/sexual mind is stimulated by the good-looking strong man for simple reasons. Reproduction and Providership/Protection. You might not realize it but its true. On a base level. Men are the same, they look for a woman with certain physical features for the same reasons. Most of us do this without even realizing it.

Funny how the brain really works, or how these doctors of psychology think it does anyways.


It may be true, but I don't "mate" with stupid men no matter how good looking they are. If he can't make me laugh I'm not turned on in the slightest by him.I don't find the Brad Pitts attractive, I like the Edward Nortons and the Nicholas Cages HOTT.


Yes I understand, there's more to sex than just sex appeal. So you find that the brainy guy is what you want....but when you're having sex, according to the aforementiond study, you might not even realize it, but people tend to visualize the braun making love to them when in reality it's Mr. Brains.....and vice versa for the men, in fact more often than women...

Jim519's photo
Mon 08/25/08 03:08 PM

You say " I may turn my head for a good looking guy but once he's passed I forget all about him..." well you havent. Just the simple fact that you turned your head and acknowledged his "look", according to a study in sexual psychology on "Courtship Disorders & Erotic Target Location Errors" done by several doctors including Dr. Nelson Soucasaux, Dr Victoria Zdrok and Dr Paul L. Vasey, found that this turning of the head is actually "taking a visual/mental snapshot" for later use. That these "snapshots" are brought back during sex. You have sex with your mentally stimulating partner while envisioning the good looking man/woman you saw earlier. This can also happen with people on/in TV/movies.

Now misconstrue what I'm saying, its not every single person that does this, just the clear majority, WITHOUT even realizing it!!


So while you try to validate yur intellectual relationship, your primal/sexual mind is stimulated by the good-looking strong man for simple reasons. Reproduction and Providership/Protection. You might not realize it but its true. On a base level. Men are the same, they look for a woman with certain physical features for the same reasons. Most of us do this without even realizing it.

Funny how the brain really works, or how these doctors of psychology think it does anyways.

This being said....I prefer a combination woman. One that looks good (doesn't have to be beautiful just beautiful to me) and smart (has her own educated opinions, can stand by her arguments with facts etc...) and also a sense of humour and a sense of life.



Great post! drinker

Lily0923's photo
Mon 08/25/08 03:11 PM



You say " I may turn my head for a good looking guy but once he's passed I forget all about him..." well you havent. Just the simple fact that you turned your head and acknowledged his "look", according to a study in sexual psychology on "Courtship Disorders & Erotic Target Location Errors" done by several doctors including Dr. Nelson Soucasaux, Dr Victoria Zdrok and Dr Paul L. Vasey, found that this turning of the head is actually "taking a visual/mental snapshot" for later use. That these "snapshots" are brought back during sex. You have sex with your mentally stimulating partner while envisioning the good looking man/woman you saw earlier. This can also happen with people on/in TV/movies.

Now misconstrue what I'm saying, its not every single person that does this, just the clear majority, WITHOUT even realizing it!!

So while you try to validate yur intellectual relationship, your primal/sexual mind is stimulated by the good-looking strong man for simple reasons. Reproduction and Providership/Protection. You might not realize it but its true. On a base level. Men are the same, they look for a woman with certain physical features for the same reasons. Most of us do this without even realizing it.

Funny how the brain really works, or how these doctors of psychology think it does anyways.


It may be true, but I don't "mate" with stupid men no matter how good looking they are. If he can't make me laugh I'm not turned on in the slightest by him.I don't find the Brad Pitts attractive, I like the Edward Nortons and the Nicholas Cages HOTT.


Yes I understand, there's more to sex than just sex appeal. So you find that the brainy guy is what you want....but when you're having sex, according to the aforementiond study, you might not even realize it, but people tend to visualize the braun making love to them when in reality it's Mr. Brains.....and vice versa for the men, in fact more often than women...


Maybe for some, but I know what I think about during sex and it's not another person, unless that person is so bad that I do my grocery list, my errand list, and start my correspondence in the rough draft in my head.

eileena9's photo
Mon 08/25/08 03:12 PM
Brains over brawn, any day..........:heart: :heart: :heart:


As another lady said..............Cute but dumb as a rock isn't fun for very long!

no photo
Mon 08/25/08 03:17 PM
Hmmmmmmmmm........

Consulting Frued........


"Chopped Liva?????"

frustrated frustrated frustrated devil

Cmigic's photo
Mon 08/25/08 03:18 PM
Actually in the conclusion they said that in interpersonal relationships where these "photo albums" happen that the best thing the couple could do was to be open and honest about them in a supportive and positive way. This gives the partner a goal. "If she/he like that look...how can I make myself more appealing to him/her." Well now you have somewhat of a blueprint. So start working out, buy that style of cloths etc... But remember not to say things like " I find her so hot, I just wanna give it to her...(drool)" this is negative and can transfer very badly upon your partner. Your partner has to know that they are the ones you chose and the reasons they are better than the rest. It's ok to point out what stimulates you sexually and POLITELY ask for some change towards it, and remember to give AND take. So if your man is hitting the gym and buying new cloths (go with him it makes it so much easier, cause you kinow our fashion sense........) then so should you. This promotes a healthy relationship, a healthy lifestyle and also a clean and open conscience.