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I get the same thing...been single 6 yrs and counting Move to Ohio, I won't let you be single....  You could always move a couple of hours North and YOU wouldn't be single either, Lily.   Don't you threaten me with a good time.... |
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Edited by
NURSE2000
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Sun 08/24/08 08:04 PM
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I just wanted to get other's advice as to why men do not want a good thing anymore. I have been single for five years, yet all that know me, tell me I am an awesome woman with a great personality. I have tried dating sites, and don't get too many responses and the ones that I do.. are pretty much just players or someone looking for a one night stand. I have been told I am attractive and funny. Not sure what I am doing wrong. I have morals and standards, cook, clean, faithful, honest.. you name it.. good old gal here. I just don't get it, and get asked all the time why someone like me is single? I don't know how to respond anymore, except to say, I don't know either. LOL. I am very independent and just ready in life to settle down and find the right one eventually. Hopefully before I hit 80, ya think?? LOL I know exactly what you're talking about. I think it has something to do with being independent. I have a feeling men want women who depend on them for things, so they can 'care' for women who need them. I haven't met anyone in here worth a damn, just married guys who think I need a 'friend.' But they don't say they are married ahead of time which I find a bit deceitful and I drop them like hot potatoes. I have signed up for a couple of classes at a nearby college. One of these classes is salsa dancing, which is something I used to do a lot of. Don't wait for the right one, search for your own happiness and somewhere along the line the right one will come along and share it. I think also knowing what you want and sticking to it can be good but it is hard when you feel lonely |
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well its really hard when you hang around yur friends and they are engaged or planning a wedding and youre that single chick..
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I just wanted to get other's advice as to why men do not want a good thing anymore. I have been single for five years, yet all that know me, tell me I am an awesome woman with a great personality. I have tried dating sites, and don't get too many responses and the ones that I do.. are pretty much just players or someone looking for a one night stand. I have been told I am attractive and funny. Not sure what I am doing wrong. I have morals and standards, cook, clean, faithful, honest.. you name it.. good old gal here. I just don't get it, and get asked all the time why someone like me is single? I don't know how to respond anymore, except to say, I don't know either. LOL. I am very independent and just ready in life to settle down and find the right one eventually. Hopefully before I hit 80, ya think?? LOL The question is, and ths goes for Men/Women. How many people are really honest with themselves in what they want or even looking for. The thing i see on that. is alot of people will say that they are but there not. The truth is, most get caught up in the excitment of meeting somone that they lose sit of themselves. or they will see the red flags, but because of being alone for sometime. They end up jumping at the first thing that comes in they'er path. I never get on here and ask why haven't i found anyone. the thing is, i have. I admited to myself knowing what i am going through right now. That it would be wrong for me to bring any women in my life. I think if people delt with there past issues and have grown from them. they would be more free and open minded to may come in there life. Nune of us are perfect and were going to make mistakes in life. That means in the ones we chose. Then again, it really isn't a mistack. Things we go through life are ment to happen. We may not know why at this point. But maybe someday something will sink in. You ask why men don't want a good thing. Are you sure it's not you that don't want a good thing? You chose as much as they do, so either you see it and don't want to pay any attention to it. Or you get caught up in the excitment of it and this is a thing that goes on with most of us. We keep going over and over and over the same things, hoping somthing will change when it's us that has to chang. ^^^^^^^ Kill joy....   I know, reality sucks doesn't it
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I get the same thing...been single 6 yrs and counting Move to Ohio, I won't let you be single.... You could always move a couple of hours North and YOU wouldn't be single either, Lily. Don't you threaten me with a good time.... NO threats here. :-) |
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What I meant by me being single by choice, is that most of the men in my area seem to be players, married, liars, etc. So, it was my choice to stay away from things like that, because I know what I want, and those are not things I would ever settle for. I don't need a man, especially a loser, but I am at the point now, that I want a man, but... a good one, one that isn't into games or any of the crap I stated above. I want something good, not something that's not good for me is all.
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They don't want a good thing........that's why I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaad now. Really bad. Really, really bad.
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i feel yah on this one.
i have the same problem. funny thing is most guys say im such a great girl and ill make a guy lucky one day but yet if im going to make a guy lucky some day why are you passing up on me? guys are silly sometimes. they dont realize what is around them. dont worry one will one day :) |
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Move to Ohio, I won't let you be single.... You could always move a couple of hours North and YOU wouldn't be single either, Lily. Better to be lonely and miserable than live up north! Go BUCKS!
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