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so before a men v.s woman fight starts ill say this not all men are bad and not all women are bad but wow it sure seems like both sexes have gotten more shallow and greedy and slimy.  I know I have. |
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I get the same thing...been single 6 yrs and counting Move to Ohio, I won't let you be single....  Thats the way to do it, get the good ones to move to Ohio!!!! I am all for that.  screw ohio.......everyone move to washington........i am next week Oregon, I should have known. 
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I get the same thing...been single 6 yrs and counting Move to Ohio, I won't let you be single.... Thats the way to do it, get the good ones to move to Ohio!!!! I am all for that. screw ohio.......everyone move to washington........i am next week Oregon, I should have known. not here by choice and that's why i'm leaving again.......my ex wife was from here and had to move back before the baby was born...........never have liked it and never should have moved here |
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well i can live practically anywhere there is a super target and old navy store lol
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They do....we do too.....the trouble arises because we all have different ideas about what makes someone a good thing....
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ive seen that to be true when i ever a relationship ends for me the most recent ex will try to talk to me then an older ex im like wow did they finally realize what they had?well sucks for them
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They do....we do too.....the trouble arises because we all have different ideas about what makes someone a good thing.... ^^^^^^^^^^ My hero.... 
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I just wanted to get other's advice as to why men do not want a good thing anymore. I have been single for five years, yet all that know me, tell me I am an awesome woman with a great personality. I have tried dating sites, and don't get too many responses and the ones that I do.. are pretty much just players or someone looking for a one night stand. I have been told I am attractive and funny. Not sure what I am doing wrong. I have morals and standards, cook, clean, faithful, honest.. you name it.. good old gal here. I just don't get it, and get asked all the time why someone like me is single? I don't know how to respond anymore, except to say, I don't know either. LOL. I am very independent and just ready in life to settle down and find the right one eventually. Hopefully before I hit 80, ya think?? LOL The question is, and ths goes for Men/Women. How many people are really honest with themselves in what they want or even looking for. The thing i see on that. is alot of people will say that they are but there not. The truth is, most get caught up in the excitment of meeting somone that they lose sit of themselves. or they will see the red flags, but because of being alone for sometime. They end up jumping at the first thing that comes in they'er path. I never get on here and ask why haven't i found anyone. the thing is, i have. I admited to myself knowing what i am going through right now. That it would be wrong for me to bring any women in my life. I think if people delt with there past issues and have grown from them. they would be more free and open minded to may come in there life. Nune of us are perfect and were going to make mistakes in life. That means in the ones we chose. Then again, it really isn't a mistack. Things we go through life are ment to happen. We may not know why at this point. But maybe someday something will sink in. You ask why men don't want a good thing. Are you sure it's not you that don't want a good thing? You chose as much as they do, so either you see it and don't want to pay any attention to it. Or you get caught up in the excitment of it and this is a thing that goes on with most of us. We keep going over and over and over the same things, hoping somthing will change when it's us that has to chang. |
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I just wanted to get other's advice as to why men do not want a good thing anymore. I have been single for five years, yet all that know me, tell me I am an awesome woman with a great personality. I have tried dating sites, and don't get too many responses and the ones that I do.. are pretty much just players or someone looking for a one night stand. I have been told I am attractive and funny. Not sure what I am doing wrong. I have morals and standards, cook, clean, faithful, honest.. you name it.. good old gal here. I just don't get it, and get asked all the time why someone like me is single? I don't know how to respond anymore, except to say, I don't know either. LOL. I am very independent and just ready in life to settle down and find the right one eventually. Hopefully before I hit 80, ya think?? LOL The question is, and ths goes for Men/Women. How many people are really honest with themselves in what they want or even looking for. The thing i see on that. is alot of people will say that they are but there not. The truth is, most get caught up in the excitment of meeting somone that they lose sit of themselves. or they will see the red flags, but because of being alone for sometime. They end up jumping at the first thing that comes in they'er path. I never get on here and ask why haven't i found anyone. the thing is, i have. I admited to myself knowing what i am going through right now. That it would be wrong for me to bring any women in my life. I think if people delt with there past issues and have grown from them. they would be more free and open minded to may come in there life. Nune of us are perfect and were going to make mistakes in life. That means in the ones we chose. Then again, it really isn't a mistack. Things we go through life are ment to happen. We may not know why at this point. But maybe someday something will sink in. You ask why men don't want a good thing. Are you sure it's not you that don't want a good thing? You chose as much as they do, so either you see it and don't want to pay any attention to it. Or you get caught up in the excitment of it and this is a thing that goes on with most of us. We keep going over and over and over the same things, hoping somthing will change when it's us that has to chang. ^^^^^^^ Kill joy....
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I just wanted to get other's advice as to why men do not want a good thing anymore. I have been single for five years, yet all that know me, tell me I am an awesome woman with a great personality. I have tried dating sites, and don't get too many responses and the ones that I do.. are pretty much just players or someone looking for a one night stand. I have been told I am attractive and funny. Not sure what I am doing wrong. I have morals and standards, cook, clean, faithful, honest.. you name it.. good old gal here. I just don't get it, and get asked all the time why someone like me is single? I don't know how to respond anymore, except to say, I don't know either. LOL. I am very independent and just ready in life to settle down and find the right one eventually. Hopefully before I hit 80, ya think?? LOL I know exactly what you're talking about. I think it has something to do with being independent. I have a feeling men want women who depend on them for things, so they can 'care' for women who need them. I haven't met anyone in here worth a damn, just married guys who think I need a 'friend.' But they don't say they are married ahead of time which I find a bit deceitful and I drop them like hot potatoes. I have signed up for a couple of classes at a nearby college. One of these classes is salsa dancing, which is something I used to do a lot of. Don't wait for the right one, search for your own happiness and somewhere along the line the right one will come along and share it. |
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i have to agree id make "Dating" rules for myself but after being a along for a period of time when any man close to what i wanted id would over look red flags and be mad at myself and it would end in heart break now im picky,im still alone but i guess thats b.c i havent found the one good enough for me but at least im not dating people and being miserable while i date them
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I get the same thing...been single 6 yrs and counting Move to Ohio, I won't let you be single.... Thats the way to do it, get the good ones to move to Ohio!!!! I am all for that.   
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"I have morals and standards, "
that might be your problem |
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whats worked for me is to stop looking...I dont worry about whether Ill "end up alone" or not, with my luck its probably "not" so Im enjoying my freedom, autonomy and independence for as long as I can.
When you stop looking is most likely when you will get found, enjoy your life..no one can make you happy anyways..happiness comes from a life that is lived to its potential..cant do that if youre worried about what men want or dont want.... 
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Edited by
justme659
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Sun 08/24/08 07:48 PM
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I get the same thing...been single 6 yrs and counting Move to Ohio, I won't let you be single.... Thats the way to do it, get the good ones to move to Ohio!!!! I am all for that.  (happy tears) You and bad girl are treasures. 
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This has a vague ring to it.... ni...ni...nice guy thread with role reversal?
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whats worked for me is to stop looking...I dont worry about whether Ill "end up alone" or not, with my luck its probably "not" so Im enjoying my freedom, autonomy and independence for as long as I can. When you stop looking is most likely when you will get found, enjoy your life..no one can make you happy anyways..happiness comes from a life that is lived to its potential..cant do that if youre worried about what men want or dont want.... Exactly.
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I just wanted to get other's advice as to why men do not want a good thing anymore. I have been single for five years, yet all that know me, tell me I am an awesome woman with a great personality. I have tried dating sites, and don't get too many responses and the ones that I do.. are pretty much just players or someone looking for a one night stand. I have been told I am attractive and funny. Not sure what I am doing wrong. I have morals and standards, cook, clean, faithful, honest.. you name it.. good old gal here. I just don't get it, and get asked all the time why someone like me is single? I don't know how to respond anymore, except to say, I don't know either. LOL. I am very independent and just ready in life to settle down and find the right one eventually. Hopefully before I hit 80, ya think?? LOL Well...based on what you said in your profile...and the fact that yer purdy.... I think the reason you are still single is cuz you don't live HERE. Of course, that is based on not having talked to you at all...but hey...I'm a guy....lmao You've been here for what????...less than 24 hours??? You've made one post. If you stay here and be patient for a little while....post on the forums and make yourself visible, I would be willing to bet that you find someone in no time. Welcome to the Asylum.
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I get the same thing...been single 6 yrs and counting Move to Ohio, I won't let you be single.... You could always move a couple of hours North and YOU wouldn't be single either, Lily. 
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I just wanted to get other's advice as to why men do not want a good thing anymore. I have been single for five years, yet all that know me, tell me I am an awesome woman with a great personality. I have tried dating sites, and don't get too many responses and the ones that I do.. are pretty much just players or someone looking for a one night stand. I have been told I am attractive and funny. Not sure what I am doing wrong. I have morals and standards, cook, clean, faithful, honest.. you name it.. good old gal here. I just don't get it, and get asked all the time why someone like me is single? I don't know how to respond anymore, except to say, I don't know either. LOL. I am very independent and just ready in life to settle down and find the right one eventually. Hopefully before I hit 80, ya think?? LOL The question is, and ths goes for Men/Women. How many people are really honest with themselves in what they want or even looking for. The thing i see on that. is alot of people will say that they are but there not. The truth is, most get caught up in the excitment of meeting somone that they lose sit of themselves. or they will see the red flags, but because of being alone for sometime. They end up jumping at the first thing that comes in they'er path. I never get on here and ask why haven't i found anyone. the thing is, i have. I admited to myself knowing what i am going through right now. That it would be wrong for me to bring any women in my life. I think if people delt with there past issues and have grown from them. they would be more free and open minded to may come in there life. Nune of us are perfect and were going to make mistakes in life. That means in the ones we chose. Then again, it really isn't a mistack. Things we go through life are ment to happen. We may not know why at this point. But maybe someday something will sink in. You ask why men don't want a good thing. Are you sure it's not you that don't want a good thing? You chose as much as they do, so either you see it and don't want to pay any attention to it. Or you get caught up in the excitment of it and this is a thing that goes on with most of us. We keep going over and over and over the same things, hoping somthing will change when it's us that has to chang. Here Here I need to lay off the bad boys!! |
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