Topic: How do u give chase to
franshade's photo
Fri 08/22/08 06:34 AM


sounds more like she's playing games with you rather than being interested in you.
well i know she likes 2 play games i do it all time as well keeps things interestin
we r young so its a way 2 tease each other and grow closer

so long as it works for you both, good luck flowerforyou

jtitol's photo
Fri 08/22/08 06:34 AM

I got the opposite, understood the OP likes the chase but gives up or stops midway, always finding an excuse or reason for the 'why nots'
jmo

girl works full time, goes to school, spends her spare time w/OP yet he wants to know about chase? there's no need for chase, she expressed interest as per OP.
jmo whats that mean
yes like u said fran i stop pursuing bc sometimes things get weird and i think she likes the chase i dont

she is jealous and gets uncomfortable when im around other women

Krimsa's photo
Fri 08/22/08 06:35 AM

krisma thanks for the good fortune

like said earlier she works full time and goes to school

also when she is free im not and the other way around our schedule just dont match but who cares well make it work


Yeah but like I explained, if she was interested in you in a romantic sense, trust me, you would know.

jtitol's photo
Fri 08/22/08 06:49 AM


krisma thanks for the good fortune

like said earlier she works full time and goes to school

also when she is free im not and the other way around our schedule just dont match but who cares well make it work


Yeah but like I explained, if she was interested in you in a romantic sense, trust me, you would know.
she told she interested and i have told her as well
i dont kno if she wants a relationship or not mayb just wants 2 have fun
also she is younger than me

Krimsa's photo
Fri 08/22/08 06:55 AM
Im just telling you what it sounds like to me okay? Im not trying to dash your hopes or anything like that. Im telling you not to rule out other ladies at this point based on the few details you have given here about this particular woman. Peace.

MLG40's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:02 AM

After reading this post. I find it hard to believe someone is interested in a person if they don't make time somehow in their life for the other person.
And secondly, if you have to chase a person that hard; maybe they are really not interested in you, but rather trying to be nice to you without having to say it to you.
And then on to playing the games, if that is what you like to do; why then would you even bother to ask on these forums, for the attention?
You answer your own questions. That is what I see.

jtitol's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:03 AM

Im just telling you what it sounds like to me okay? Im not trying to dash your hopes or anything like that. Im telling you not to rule out other ladies at this point based on the few details you have given here about this particular woman. Peace.
i kno u were just givin ur opinion and i respect it
i wasnt offended or insult by it in any way so everythin is fine

Krimsa's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:07 AM
Well it is a legitimate feeling with supportive evidence. Many other posters that have replied to this thread have also voiced the same or similar concerns. Basically my assessment is that if she was interested in you romantically, you would not have to pose this question at all. It’s very possible she likes you as a friend however.

jtitol's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:21 AM

Well it is a legitimate feeling with supportive evidence. Many other posters that have replied to this thread have also voiced the same or similar concerns. Basically my assessment is that if she was interested in you romantically, you would not have to pose this question at all. It’s very possible she likes you as a friend however.
she ask 4 a date but i cant i had 2 cancelled couples times bc of the time issues and i have never ask out her only she does
mayb i miss word it the post

lilith401's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:27 AM
If a guy rescheduled with me twice due to poor planning I'd move on to someone who better organized their time to make me feel important.

Don't confuse flirtation with interest, either. She may have been interested, but let's face it, you've blown her off twice.

solestria's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:41 AM
Why would you want to get involved with a woman who can't communicate or express her interest?

Troublemaker7's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:42 AM


well if she doesnt communicate with you very often.... what makes you think shes interested in ya?

when im interested in someone, they get my spare time
she told herself
i do get her spare time but she works full time and goes 2 school as well


That works as a wonderful excuse. Take it from me. I work full time and go to school full time. I have used that as a reason for not having time for a relationship before, but when I found someone I was truly interested in they got my attention and part of my free time. You can always make room for someone if you really want to.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:45 AM
:smile: We learn from history that we do not learn anything from history.:smile:


Krimsa's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:50 AM
I’m not saying this to be cruel or mean but this thread is beginning to have the ring of an invented premise to try to portray the OP in a flattering light. I’m not saying that’s happening here for certain but...hmmm. It’s curious.

jtitol's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:53 AM
Edited by jtitol on Fri 08/22/08 07:56 AM

If a guy rescheduled with me twice due to poor planning I'd move on to someone who better organized their time to make me feel important.

Don't confuse flirtation with interest, either. She may have been interested, but let's face it, you've blown her off twice.
the 1st time we were both really sick also it was really cold and her mom woudnt let her go out and i only had a couple hours 2 spare about 2 hours maybe less

the 2nd time she had 2 work and it was out of town
i like her a lot

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:55 AM
glasses Some men are discovered; others are found out.glasses


franshade's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:59 AM

glasses Some men are discovered; others are found out.glasses


:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/22/08 07:59 AM
love If you are what you eat, I could be you by morning.love


Krimsa's photo
Fri 08/22/08 08:00 AM
Mirror! Down boy, sit! laugh

jtitol's photo
Fri 08/22/08 08:05 AM

I’m not saying this to be cruel or mean but this thread is beginning to have the ring of an invented premise to try to portray the OP in a flattering light. I’m not saying that’s happening here for certain but...hmmm. It’s curious.
it sounds frabricated i know 2 good 2 b true but i posted somethin relatin 2 this when i 1st got on this site in fact i join this site bc of it
i dont know if any1 remembers