Well, boddy!!
I'm not sure if this answer may say anything, but how about using your valuables to catch her?
I mean... your greatest personlities, forget about mony, clothes, assets and all of that, please see what you can get from this illustartion i made.

If you want to keep your lady chasng you, and not be cast upon the broken-hearted heap of lovers she's left behind, you must get her invested in your relationship.

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something invested in you and the relationship, preferably QUITE A LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

And I hate to break it to you, friend, but there's always someone a little more "interesting" just around the corner.

So what exactly do we mean by getting her to invest in your relationship?

Think about a Vegas slot machine...

Imagine your girl slowly approaching it, studying it for a moment, tentatively sitting down, then popping a coin in and pulling the handle. The odds being what they are, she doesn't win anything... this time anyhow. So she tries again... and again... and again. Pretty soon she's not only got a lot of money invested in this machine, but also a good deal of time, effort, and hope invested as well.

In fact, the more she "invests" in this machine, the harder it will be for her to get up and walk away. Because she's convinced that if she keeps at it, keeps pulling that handle, eventually she's going get what she wants. The very next pull might be the one that sets off the JACKPOT.

then if she thinks you're needy and desperate sounding, just tell her you were playing with her. she must be used to your games by now

Jackpot its that like 7 kids in row

I'm not chasing anybody. Too many other things to deal with.

If she's playing hard to get, and not communicating often enough, that tells me she's not interested enough to want to facilitate getting things worked out, and I'm not going to waste my time.