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Topic: What happened..............
merlin2525's photo
Thu 08/21/08 09:23 PM

when you found out your significant other was bicurious.............and did you stay with them?


Hasn't happened to me.
But a local preachers wife turned on him.
She's living with her girlfriend now.

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Thu 08/21/08 09:33 PM

i personally dont agree with all this bisexual stuff...jmo..thats the nicest way i can say it..whats there to be curious about they already know what the parts look like...:laughing:

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Thu 08/21/08 09:38 PM


i personally dont agree with all this bisexual stuff...jmo..thats the nicest way i can say it..whats there to be curious about they already know what the parts look like...:laughing:


I know that its a hard subject but a lot of people are in relationships with people that are hiding their sexuality and then they have kids and they destroy peoples lives............so why not talk about it so we can honesty and we prevent this from happening.............

solestria's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:38 PM

Curious is one thing... But if you are in a committed, exclusive relationship it shouldn't go any further. If you aren't happy with what you have or you still have questions about your sexuality, it's always better to not be attached to anyone.

This is speaking from the experience of a bisexual woman. If you're still looking around for something more, you haven't found what you want.


I don't think that's necessarily true. I know some bisexuals who truly aren't happy without being able to express their sexuality in full, with both men and women (or a man and a woman). That's certainly not true of all bisexuals, but it definitely is of some.

As to the question: I'd be open to my partner exploring, as long as we set up some good boundaries and had open and honest communication about everything that was going on.

mixie629's photo
Fri 08/22/08 04:11 PM
We broke up and then he "came out".

Unique2468's photo
Fri 08/22/08 04:26 PM

when you found out your significant other was bicurious.............and did you stay with them?


It's called a threesome!

unsure's photo
Fri 08/22/08 04:34 PM
Theres no way I would stay with my mate if I found out he was bi-curious. There are way to many diseases out there and why would I risk catching any? Its hard enough to wonder if he is checking out women let alone worry about him checking out men too! Thats just totally insane!!! huh

Unique2468's photo
Fri 08/22/08 04:38 PM

Theres no way I would stay with my mate if I found out he was bi-curious. There are way to many diseases out there and why would I risk catching any? Its hard enough to wonder if he is checking out women let alone worry about him checking out men too! Thats just totally insane!!! huh


What if he's bi curious, but still loyal to you. Like he found out he likes guys, so he will watch guy porn once in a while or try it out, but has no desire to sleep with any other guys or girls?

It just seems that when someone has any gay tendancy's, everyone thinks there going to sleep around with the first guy or girl they find, or go get involved with a super orgy.

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Fri 08/22/08 06:01 PM
I dated a bi-woman when i was ohhhh, 25 or so.

When I found out- I couldnt stop my face from smiling in excitement, I mean, lets be honest.

I think its attractive for a woman to be into her sexuality and need to fulfill it.

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Fri 08/22/08 06:34 PM
Someone being bi-curious does not mean they would desire another partner per se..granted some would..but then there are toy stores.:wink:

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