My reply was just in general to his statement. I know that everyone finds their own truth. Yours is based on your experience and mine is based on the experiences I have had. I am totally okay with someone having their own opinions, especially when they can recognize it's not the only one.

That's too many, I would settle for 5 or 6.

Hell with my luck 1 is sometimes too many

It just show people are jerks on both side of the lines.

18 yrs want to have rights as a 21 yr old or older. If everyone is willing to play the game have at it, goes both for men and women as of the age that is what we become.

Niether one won they both stated thier opion and that is that.

This is suppose to be an Adult dating so why do't everyone started acting like adults.

I want a hot young man in white cotton underwear so I can show him so hot manluvin

i want a sexy beast

yeah baby

Wow...ya know...normally..I partially agree with you Lilith.

In this case...

Well..I have ( according to the scales ) a pretty high IQ. So the fact that an older guy looks for someone younger because he's a person of " lower intelligence " doesn't actually hold water in a lot more cases than you seem to want to think.

I have quite a few reasons for wanting someone a bit younger than myself...but the biggest among them are that there are a whole lot of women my age who have been so screwed over by men during their lifetimes, that a decent guy doesn't actually have a fighting chance.

That may not apply to mot of the women around here....but IRL...bitterness ( on the woman's part ) can make the effort of getting past it, not worth the abuse you have to take.

I just want to get laid.

If its adult then why dont you look for an adult woman instead of a baby that just got (if that) from her parents house...........please that is just weak.................you arent mature enough to date a woman your own age and maybe you just need to admit that so the mature women wont have to bother with you...............

I want a cold guy 23 years, 2 months, 3 days and 7 hours old. With seven kids he doesnt pay child support on and his pants sag so low that I see half his boxers.

or maybe not.

I would love to see some case studies which bear out your hypothesis Lillith. It sounds very sexist to me.

I know many women under the age of 23 as a result of going to college. There are some very intelligent mature women who are young. It is fair to say they lack life lessons which come only with experience. However the young women I have met have a very strong sense of who they are. I know some very mature younger women. If this wasn't the case then the age someone becomes an adult would be higher.

Perhaps you look back at yourself being that age and ask why you did something. If so, not everyone is you. By all means share your experience but applying that to every person I find faulty thinking. I could never be with someone who was immature or lacked intelligence. I'm sure there are predatory men who wouldn't mind. I'd be against those relationships too.

Regardless of your background you are not mature and experienced enough to make mature decisions........experience = age =time........and that isnt the case when you have a young girl/or boy who havent had that.........when an adult decides that they are going to have a relationship with a immature adult (young adult) im not faulting the young woman/man but the adult because they are being manipulative, coniving, deceitful, and controlling...........you wouldnt have these factors if you chose someone your age because they would tell you who you are through life experiences.............please dont think that women are fooled by age aint nothing but a number.......yeah its that way when you dont know any better and the mature guy/girl is telling you that.........its a bunch of bs and you need help if you are the mature one..............its the same way men look for mail order brides because all these girls are clueless and they are vulnerable.......that is called a mans dream............

get a pickle it will help

Okay everbody, stop being concrete. My statement said "tends" and "in my experience". I never said it was a cold hard fact backed with statistical data.

GEESH.

Back up the train young lady I am not the one chasing young women.

But if one comes my way I am not turning away either

Because I am a tiger

I do have age range but I am not telling

Mrtap, you got to face it, some people want to argue and not discuss.

Objectivity is tougher than it sounds for some folk.