Topic: I want a young woman.
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Thu 08/21/08 11:30 AM
Edited by Troublemaker7 on Thu 08/21/08 11:39 AM

People of lower intelligence tend to gravitate towards younger partners so that they might be more equal. The younger generation is more laid back and has less life experience, their lack of it tends to make even a borderline intellectual functioning person seem worldly to them.

Really.

Not to be sexist, but this tends to be older men and younger women. Not at all women and younger men. At least, not in my experience.


I will have to whole-heartedly disagree with these statements for a number of reasons. First, they are far too broad and based in ignorance. I am 23 dating a 44 year-old. He is highly intelligent, as am I. I own my own home, am an office manager full-time, and go to college full-time on a full scholarship. He is definitely not scraping the bottom to find someone as stupid as him... Second, I do not have less world experience. In fact, I probably have more than you. I have traveled to over 15 different countries, I have loved, lost, and experienced all sorts of things that many people never have. I am not attracted to him because he is "a borderline intellectual functioning person" who seems "worldly" and he is not attracted to me because I am stupid or naive. Sometimes age is just that... how long a person has lived on this world. You can't judge someone just based on that.

SharpShooter10's photo
Thu 08/21/08 11:30 AM
I just wanted a good woman, and found one, wasn't concerned about the age, worked out to be close anyway, sooooooo, yay for medrinker

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Thu 08/21/08 11:37 AM
I'm not your boyfriend im your homey, flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Thu 08/21/08 11:42 AM


People of lower intelligence tend to gravitate towards younger partners so that they might be more equal. The younger generation is more laid back and has less life experience, their lack of it tends to make even a borderline intellectual functioning person seem worldly to them.

Really.

Not to be sexist, but this tends to be older men and younger women. Not at all women and younger men. At least, not in my experience.


I will have to whole-heartedly disagree with these statements for a number of reasons. First, they are far too broad and based in ignorance. I am 23 dating a 44 year-old. He is highly intelligent, as am I. I own my own home, am an office manager full-time, and go to college full-time on a full scholarship. He is definitely not scraping the bottom to find someone as stupid as him... Second, I do not have less world experience. In fact, I probably have more than you. I have traveled to over 15 different countries, I have loved, lost, and experienced all sorts of things that many people never have. I am not attracted to him because he is "a borderline intellectual functioning person" who seems "worldly" and he is not attracted to me because I am stupid or naive. Sometimes age is just that... how long a person has lived on this world. You can't judge someone just based on that.


HERE! HERE!!!!!! I would LOVE to have a friend like YOU!!!!!


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Thu 08/21/08 11:45 AM


People of lower intelligence tend to gravitate towards younger partners so that they might be more equal. The younger generation is more laid back and has less life experience, their lack of it tends to make even a borderline intellectual functioning person seem worldly to them.

Really.

Not to be sexist, but this tends to be older men and younger women. Not at all women and younger men. At least, not in my experience.


I will have to whole-heartedly disagree with these statements for a number of reasons. First, they are far too broad and based in ignorance. I am 23 dating a 44 year-old. He is highly intelligent, as am I. I own my own home, am an office manager full-time, and go to college full-time on a full scholarship. He is definitely not scraping the bottom to find someone as stupid as him... Second, I do not have less world experience. In fact, I probably have more than you. I have traveled to over 15 different countries, I have loved, lost, and experienced all sorts of things that many people never have. I am not attracted to him because he is "a borderline intellectual functioning person" who seems "worldly" and he is not attracted to me because I am stupid or naive. Sometimes age is just that... how long a person has lived on this world. You can't judge someone just based on that.


Hmmm. Sensitive are you? The statements are very broad, yet not at all based on ignorance. I think you may have read too much into my statements. Truly. Don't take it so personally....

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Thu 08/21/08 11:46 AM



People of lower intelligence tend to gravitate towards younger partners so that they might be more equal. The younger generation is more laid back and has less life experience, their lack of it tends to make even a borderline intellectual functioning person seem worldly to them.

Really.

Not to be sexist, but this tends to be older men and younger women. Not at all women and younger men. At least, not in my experience.


I will have to whole-heartedly disagree with these statements for a number of reasons. First, they are far too broad and based in ignorance. I am 23 dating a 44 year-old. He is highly intelligent, as am I. I own my own home, am an office manager full-time, and go to college full-time on a full scholarship. He is definitely not scraping the bottom to find someone as stupid as him... Second, I do not have less world experience. In fact, I probably have more than you. I have traveled to over 15 different countries, I have loved, lost, and experienced all sorts of things that many people never have. I am not attracted to him because he is "a borderline intellectual functioning person" who seems "worldly" and he is not attracted to me because I am stupid or naive. Sometimes age is just that... how long a person has lived on this world. You can't judge someone just based on that.


HERE! HERE!!!!!! I would LOVE to have a friend like YOU!!!!!


love love love love love love love love love


You got it!! :)

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Thu 08/21/08 11:48 AM



People of lower intelligence tend to gravitate towards younger partners so that they might be more equal. The younger generation is more laid back and has less life experience, their lack of it tends to make even a borderline intellectual functioning person seem worldly to them.

Really.

Not to be sexist, but this tends to be older men and younger women. Not at all women and younger men. At least, not in my experience.


I will have to whole-heartedly disagree with these statements for a number of reasons. First, they are far too broad and based in ignorance. I am 23 dating a 44 year-old. He is highly intelligent, as am I. I own my own home, am an office manager full-time, and go to college full-time on a full scholarship. He is definitely not scraping the bottom to find someone as stupid as him... Second, I do not have less world experience. In fact, I probably have more than you. I have traveled to over 15 different countries, I have loved, lost, and experienced all sorts of things that many people never have. I am not attracted to him because he is "a borderline intellectual functioning person" who seems "worldly" and he is not attracted to me because I am stupid or naive. Sometimes age is just that... how long a person has lived on this world. You can't judge someone just based on that.


Hmmm. Sensitive are you? The statements are very broad, yet not at all based on ignorance. I think you may have read too much into my statements. Truly. Don't take it so personally....


What kind of facts are they based on then? It's not that I'm taking your statements personally so much as I truly dislike stereotyping. It really gets to me because it is almost never based in reality or experience.

Mrtap's photo
Thu 08/21/08 11:49 AM
Here we go again...

Just be happy

Some men are scared of women thier own age.

Send them my way I just love women.

Mrtap's photo
Thu 08/21/08 11:50 AM
Lilith here I thought you were playing nice today.

bigsmile bigsmile flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:08 PM
My statement is based on reality and experience, and my post did indicate that. If it was read objectively.
Perhaps, if you took umbrage with what I wrote, a better way to respond might possibly have been to ask on what I based my post?

Troublemaker7's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:16 PM

My statement is based on reality and experience, and my post did indicate that. If it was read objectively.
Perhaps, if you took umbrage with what I wrote, a better way to respond might possibly have been to ask on what I based my post?


Funny... you talk about not reading and suggest I ask questions when my last post started with "What kind of facts are they based on then?". You come back with only vauge, general statements and assume you know whether or not I was "objective." I think it may be you who is not.

lilith401's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:21 PM


My statement is based on reality and experience, and my post did indicate that. If it was read objectively.
Perhaps, if you took umbrage with what I wrote, a better way to respond might possibly have been to ask on what I based my post?


Funny... you talk about not reading and suggest I ask questions when my last post started with "What kind of facts are they based on then?". You come back with only vauge, general statements and assume you know whether or not I was "objective." I think it may be you who is not.


I'm not sure why you are being so argumentative.... my statement was based on your original response. Not the second post. Why are you so defensive and argumentative? My post was in no way directed at you.

First of all, if you had read my post, you'd see I clearly wrote borderline intellectual functioning, and also at times lower range of normal intellectual function. This means men with IQ's lower than 90. These men do look for young, guileless woman. They can't attract women their own age, they truly can't. Frankly, it's often why they become sexual offenders, as young girls are who they feel equal to.

My statements are based on working with these folks in the mental health and criminal justice system for over ten years.

I never called your SO dumb, nor you unworldy. I was an 18 yo dating a 30 myself once upon a time. He was brilliant.

SharpShooter10's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:22 PM
wow, can't remember the last time I saw the word 'umbrage' used in a sentence. I checked, that's a $10.00 word:smile:

IamMewhoRU's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:23 PM

devil Womendevil


laugh

lilith401's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:23 PM

wow, can't remember the last time I saw the word 'umbrage' used in a sentence. I checked, that's a $10.00 word:smile:


Please tell Lexy Lexicon..... he might be impressed with my skills! :banana:

IamMewhoRU's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:24 PM

wow, can't remember the last time I saw the word 'umbrage' used in a sentence. I checked, that's a $10.00 word:smile:


I'm sure it almost qualifies for Benjamin status

SharpShooter10's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:24 PM
I can attest to the fact that mental health workers are full of chit, yes all of them, without exception, they love to give pills and have groups,noway

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Thu 08/21/08 12:25 PM

18 -----31 Yeah why not?:tongue:





Is this the wish list thread? If so I'd like to request a few things.

IamMewhoRU's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:26 PM
is groups of pills next? I hope so cause ya can skip the boring lectures and everyone else's problems in group therapy. huh laugh

lilith401's photo
Thu 08/21/08 12:27 PM

I can attest to the fact that mental health workers are full of chit, yes all of them, without exception, they love to give pills and have groups,noway

Ha! Not this one. I work for the courts, not a treatment provider. laugh
And I don't work with doctors who can even prescribe pills.... :banana: They are the PhD kind, not MD kind....