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Topic: Married
CircuitRider Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 2065	Wed 08/20/08 01:26 PM
SimplyElla, you're not the first or only one here that's been done that way, likely won't be the last..... I let Ladies know pretty much right away that I am married, my Wife is in a Nursing Facility and I'm not going to cheat on her... (However, if I was 40 years younger and still lived in Lakeland, I'd dang sure be givin' them ole Clearwater boys a run for their money Your sense of humor along with those eyes and that cute little nose Well...... ....... Well aren't you a sweet talker... Need to ask... are you married as well??? Ha ha ha Yes'm, (See first sentence)

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 08/20/08 01:26 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Wed 08/20/08 01:26 PM
Dating someone that is married and still living with their spouse is a whole lot different than dating someone seperated with divorce in the works. I am sorry to hear that anyone would hold on that long to a relationship that obviously wasn't ment to be. Thank you.......seems you're the only one on here that there is a distinction to. I've had many lookers to my poorly written profile and not one mail!!!! I hang out here and pester ya'll with my wierd wit...

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Wed 08/20/08 01:26 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr sorry that happened to you. Glad you found out when you did. do your best to forget about him and move on.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:27 PM
sorry you are hurt! we didnt date... we were friends that long and became ever closer buddies... but last few months we were meeting up everywhere... taking our lunch and dinner breaks alone and running off together any chance we had... like school kids.. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh blah anyhow ... whatever.. we were friends for that long not dating for that long <-- pissy again OK.....I dying of curiousity here!!!! No Dating??????? Friends and buddies, right?????? Felt like school kids right?????? Did ya have FUN???????? We started out co-workers... who turned into good friends... who turned into somewhat dating... cant call it dating now if i was the stupid naive mistress... bwahaha got it now?? ha ha ha ha It's okay... thank you... I will get over it... letting loose tonight... I bet I will AWESOME at darts tonight... ha ha ha blahhhhhhhh

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:27 PM
im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. when did you tell your girlfriend you were or werent married??? did your girl friend find out on her own??? did you supply this information to your girlfriend??? how much courting and money did you spend romancing your girlfriend??? i useually am to honest and tell them right when we met im on ssi and have no car and am divorced and there gone cause i dont lie to them and build up there convidence with bs. thats why im single now cause im genuine and real and i guess to honest and alot of guys feel just like me but wont say anything in fear they will never get the gal

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:28 PM
SimplyElla, you're not the first or only one here that's been done that way, likely won't be the last..... I let Ladies know pretty much right away that I am married, my Wife is in a Nursing Facility and I'm not going to cheat on her... (However, if I was 40 years younger and still lived in Lakeland, I'd dang sure be givin' them ole Clearwater boys a run for their money Your sense of humor along with those eyes and that cute little nose Well...... ....... Well aren't you a sweet talker... Need to ask... are you married as well??? Ha ha ha Yes'm, (See first sentence) I know I was joking around.. I am going to have to ask the ARE YOU MARRIED line to all the guys now... ha ha ha

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:30 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago well thats the way women are here in california wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. Umm NO... I do not just sit back and let them court me... believe me I need not to use any man's money or things.. I have plenty than more that I need already... and how dare you assume that this is what women in general do.. maybe that is what you attract or what you are used to but .. by no means in hell is that men at all... and for what reason do i need to RESEARCH ON HAVING A FRIEND to find out if he is married or not... and WHY THE HELL WOULD I RESEARCH ABOUT A MAN I DATE to see if he is married or not... now i am making no sense bc im ranting and rambling ha ha

CircuitRider Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 2065	Wed 08/20/08 01:30 PM Edited by CircuitRider on Wed 08/20/08 01:32 PM
It's okay... thank you... I will get over it... letting loose tonight... I bet I will AWESOME at darts tonight... ha ha ha blahhhhhhhh I wouldn't want to be in that bar tonight!!

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:32 PM
It's okay... thank you... I will get over it... letting loose tonight... I bet I will AWESOME at darts tonight... ha ha ha blahhhhhhhh I wouldn't want to be in that bar tonight!! Thank you I needed that... ha ha

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Wed 08/20/08 01:32 PM
i useually am to honest and tell them right when we met im on ssi and have no car and am divorced and there gone cause i dont lie to them and build up there convidence with bs. thats why im single now cause im genuine and real and i guess to honest and alot of guys feel just like me but wont say anything in fear they will never get the gal Dude!!!! Maybe you should stick to meeting and having conversations with people in person.......It's REALLY hard to 'cipher your writing!!!!!

Up2Us Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 3926	Wed 08/20/08 01:32 PM Edited by Up2Us on Wed 08/20/08 01:33 PM
best defense is sweet revenge! Tell his wife, she make him pay. yea do that I met her just TODAY... that is how I found out... had to run into work... she saw my badge and asked me to get her into the ER to get to her husband -- we were in the employee back parking-- so I did... ignoring as I let her in... totally snuck up to "JackButt" from behind to have him hug me with the wildest eyes ever.. to turn around and see HER starring him down AND ME like she was going to MURDER ME right there!! Ouch....sounds like a episode straight from Cheaters...

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:32 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago ur the one complaining hes married, so you must have feelings. so thats why you should research and ask wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. Umm NO... I do not just sit back and let them court me... believe me I need not to use any man's money or things.. I have plenty than more that I need already... and how dare you assume that this is what women in general do.. maybe that is what you attract or what you are used to but .. by no means in hell is that men at all... and for what reason do i need to RESEARCH ON HAVING A FRIEND to find out if he is married or not... and WHY THE HELL WOULD I RESEARCH ABOUT A MAN I DATE to see if he is married or not... now i am making no sense bc im ranting and rambling ha ha

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Wed 08/20/08 01:33 PM
It's okay... thank you... I will get over it... letting loose tonight... I bet I will AWESOME at darts tonight... ha ha ha blahhhhhhhh I wouldn't want to be in that bar tonight!! Thank you I needed that... ha ha I would!!!! But I surely want to be on HER team!!!!!! Stinger missles......= Darts!!!!!

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:37 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret. well she didnt research, if if i dont make no sense and even if she shouldnt have to, the fact is hes married and shes shocked but if she asked and researched then she would of known

hoppytoad79 Joined Mon 06/09/08 Posts: 41	Wed 08/20/08 01:41 PM
Just listen to ya'll!!!! Married men need love too!!!!! yeah they do FROM THEIR WIVES!!! Exactly! I saw one profile online by a guy who was getting married in a year and he wanted to find a woman who he could have a discrete sexual relationship until then. I was like and so wished I could find his fiancee to tell her exactly what kind of scum she was marrying. I feel so sorry for her. If married men are bored in their marriages, the answer is not to turn to someone else. Work on it with your wife, you cheating jerks!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 08/20/08 01:42 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret. well she didnt research, if if i dont make no sense and even if she shouldnt have to, the fact is hes married and shes shocked but if she asked and researched then she would of known he should have just told her he was married.

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:42 PM
SimplyElla, you're not the first or only one here that's been done that way, likely won't be the last..... I let Ladies know pretty much right away that I am married, my Wife is in a Nursing Facility and I'm not going to cheat on her... (However, if I was 40 years younger and still lived in Lakeland, I'd dang sure be givin' them ole Clearwater boys a run for their money Your sense of humor along with those eyes and that cute little nose Well...... ....... Well aren't you a sweet talker... Need to ask... are you married as well??? Ha ha ha Yes'm, (See first sentence) I know I was joking around.. I am going to have to ask the ARE YOU MARRIED line to all the guys now... ha ha ha thats always my first or second question when aproaching a women, no matter if they got ring or not

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Wed 08/20/08 01:43 PM
Just listen to ya'll!!!! Married men need love too!!!!! yeah they do FROM THEIR WIVES!!! Exactly! I saw one profile online by a guy who was getting married in a year and he wanted to find a woman who he could have a discrete sexual relationship until then. I was like and so wished I could find his fiancee to tell her exactly what kind of scum she was marrying. I feel so sorry for her. If married men are bored in their marriages, the answer is not to turn to someone else. Work on it with your wife, you cheating jerks! Awwww.......I see you didn't read furthur down before you made THIS comment.......But I agree the guy YOU saw WAS a jerk!!!!!

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:44 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret. well she didnt research, if if i dont make no sense and even if she shouldnt have to, the fact is hes married and shes shocked but if she asked and researched then she would of known You know what mister little RESEARCHER... I hope you research your arse off to find your perfect girl... love is not a science... and neither is friendship... there shouldn't be any frigging research being done in any case... it is called trust and communication.... plus if you re read the whole thread you would know better not to put blame on me... either way thanks for your opinion