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Topic: Married
littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:10 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner.

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Wed 08/20/08 01:12 PM
If anything we were great friends... we talked about EVERYTHING... so I thought.. and he should have felt at peace with telling me this information... I mean shoot other co-workers knew how him and I were and always commented on this and that... they could have let me know to or at least ask me if I knew... ha ha grrr I know im just in shock... but I think you've hit on something there!!! Congratulations!!!! If you have been having an affair with this guy it's one thing....but if not??????? If you're great friends and have talked about everything......ASK HIM WHY!!!!

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Wed 08/20/08 01:13 PM
Just listen to ya'll!!!! Married men need love too!!!!! yeah they do FROM THEIR WIVES!!! She stopped loving me 4 years ago..........I hung in there..... She abused I stopped loving her....2 years ago.......I hung in there.... She abused more Separated now but still married........no papers...... Now no one wants me......guess I'll hang in some more...... Someone will......Someday.... You'll be fine brother. Everyone with a decent heart has this happen. You can have my shot of whiskey ...

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 08/20/08 01:14 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That made no sense at all. Men and women are under an obligation to disclose they're married.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:14 PM
i hate to see any one screwed over,,,male of female,,,,,,,but it happens all th time,,,,,i can't belive u dated a man for over a year an didn't see any kind of flages,,,,,,oh well sorry about that,,,,,,,,but all men arent like that we didnt date... we were friends that long and became ever closer buddies... but last few months we were meeting up everywhere... taking our lunch and dinner breaks alone and running off together any chance we had... like school kids.. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh blah anyhow ... whatever.. we were friends for that long not dating for that long <-- pissy again

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 08/20/08 01:14 PM
im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. when did you tell your girlfriend you were or werent married??? did your girl friend find out on her own??? did you supply this information to your girlfriend??? how much courting and money did you spend romancing your girlfriend???

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Wed 08/20/08 01:16 PM
Just listen to ya'll!!!! Married men need love too!!!!! yeah they do FROM THEIR WIVES!!! She stopped loving me 4 years ago..........I hung in there..... She abused I stopped loving her....2 years ago.......I hung in there.... She abused more Separated now but still married........no papers...... Now no one wants me......guess I'll hang in some more...... Someone will......Someday.... Dating someone that is married and still living with their spouse is a whole lot different than dating someone seperated with divorce in the works. I am sorry to hear that anyone would hold on that long to a relationship that obviously wasn't ment to be.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Wed 08/20/08 01:16 PM
more than friends, i believe......friends do not get upset when the find out personal information about the other.... i hate to see any one screwed over,,,male of female,,,,,,,but it happens all th time,,,,,i can't belive u dated a man for over a year an didn't see any kind of flages,,,,,,oh well sorry about that,,,,,,,,but all men arent like that we didnt date... we were friends that long and became ever closer buddies... but last few months we were meeting up everywhere... taking our lunch and dinner breaks alone and running off together any chance we had... like school kids.. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh blah anyhow ... whatever.. we were friends for that long not dating for that long <-- pissy again

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 08/20/08 01:17 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago that makes no sense.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:18 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. Umm NO... I do not just sit back and let them court me... believe me I need not to use any man's money or things.. I have plenty than more that I need already... and how dare you assume that this is what women in general do.. maybe that is what you attract or what you are used to but .. by no means in hell is that men at all... and for what reason do i need to RESEARCH ON HAVING A FRIEND to find out if he is married or not... and WHY THE HELL WOULD I RESEARCH ABOUT A MAN I DATE to see if he is married or not... now i am making no sense bc im ranting and rambling ha ha

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:19 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago maybe there oblicated but this is 2008, most people have lost morals and are into thereselfs wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That made no sense at all. Men and women are under an obligation to disclose they're married.

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Wed 08/20/08 01:19 PM
we didnt date... we were friends that long and became ever closer buddies... but last few months we were meeting up everywhere... taking our lunch and dinner breaks alone and running off together any chance we had... like school kids.. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh blah anyhow ... whatever.. we were friends for that long not dating for that long <-- pissy again OK.....I dying of curiousity here!!!! No Dating??????? Friends and buddies, right?????? Felt like school kids right?????? Did ya have FUN????????

CircuitRider Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 2065	Wed 08/20/08 01:20 PM
SimplyElla, you're not the first or only one here that's been done that way, likely won't be the last..... I let Ladies know pretty much right away that I am married, my Wife is in a Nursing Facility and I'm not going to cheat on her... (However, if I was 40 years younger and still lived in Lakeland, I'd dang sure be givin' them ole Clearwater boys a run for their money Your sense of humor along with those eyes and that cute little nose Well...... .......

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:20 PM
more than friends, i believe......friends do not get upset when the find out personal information about the other.... i hate to see any one screwed over,,,male of female,,,,,,,but it happens all th time,,,,,i can't belive u dated a man for over a year an didn't see any kind of flages,,,,,,oh well sorry about that,,,,,,,,but all men arent like that we didnt date... we were friends that long and became ever closer buddies... but last few months we were meeting up everywhere... taking our lunch and dinner breaks alone and running off together any chance we had... like school kids.. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh blah anyhow ... whatever.. we were friends for that long not dating for that long <-- pissy again Last couple weeks were seeing each other... as though both were SINGLE... im not spelling out how that is... we are all well most of us are mature here.. ha ha.. but we had been friends for a lot longer and I see that as being weird that when JUST friends his wife was never mentioned or anything.. I asked him if he has a gf or was seeing anyone back then he said.. no... guess that is different then asking if you have a wife... ha ha ha...

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:21 PM
i hate to see any one screwed over,,,male of female,,,,,,,but it happens all th time,,,,,i can't belive u dated a man for over a year an didn't see any kind of flages,,,,,,oh well sorry about that,,,,,,,,but all men arent like that we didnt date... we were friends that long and became ever closer buddies... but last few months we were meeting up everywhere... taking our lunch and dinner breaks alone and running off together any chance we had... like school kids.. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh blah anyhow ... whatever.. we were friends for that long not dating for that long <-- pissy again hearing that side of the story maybe he didnt say anything because he looked at you as only a friend

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 08/20/08 01:22 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:23 PM
we didnt date... we were friends that long and became ever closer buddies... but last few months we were meeting up everywhere... taking our lunch and dinner breaks alone and running off together any chance we had... like school kids.. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh blah anyhow ... whatever.. we were friends for that long not dating for that long <-- pissy again OK.....I dying of curiousity here!!!! No Dating??????? Friends and buddies, right?????? Felt like school kids right?????? Did ya have FUN???????? We started out co-workers... who turned into good friends... who turned into somewhat dating... cant call it dating now if i was the stupid naive mistress... bwahaha got it now?? ha ha ha ha

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Wed 08/20/08 01:23 PM
sorry you are hurt! we didnt date... we were friends that long and became ever closer buddies... but last few months we were meeting up everywhere... taking our lunch and dinner breaks alone and running off together any chance we had... like school kids.. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh blah anyhow ... whatever.. we were friends for that long not dating for that long <-- pissy again OK.....I dying of curiousity here!!!! No Dating??????? Friends and buddies, right?????? Felt like school kids right?????? Did ya have FUN???????? We started out co-workers... who turned into good friends... who turned into somewhat dating... cant call it dating now if i was the stupid naive mistress... bwahaha got it now?? ha ha ha ha

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:24 PM
SimplyElla, you're not the first or only one here that's been done that way, likely won't be the last..... I let Ladies know pretty much right away that I am married, my Wife is in a Nursing Facility and I'm not going to cheat on her... (However, if I was 40 years younger and still lived in Lakeland, I'd dang sure be givin' them ole Clearwater boys a run for their money Your sense of humor along with those eyes and that cute little nose Well...... ....... Well aren't you a sweet talker... Need to ask... are you married as well??? Ha ha ha

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Wed 08/20/08 01:25 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. that just doesn't make any sense