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Topic: Married
littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:45 PM
i useually am to honest and tell them right when we met im on ssi and have no car and am divorced and there gone cause i dont lie to them and build up there convidence with bs. thats why im single now cause im genuine and real and i guess to honest and alot of guys feel just like me but wont say anything in fear they will never get the gal Dude!!!! Maybe you should stick to meeting and having conversations with people in person.......It's REALLY hard to 'cipher your writing!!!!! i have a little better luck that way, thanks for advice

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:49 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret. well she didnt research, if if i dont make no sense and even if she shouldnt have to, the fact is hes married and shes shocked but if she asked and researched then she would of known he should have just told her he was married. maybe he should of but he didnt and she fell for him and now is complaining hes married. if she would of even if he should of told but didnt she would know for sure

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:53 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret. well she didnt research, if if i dont make no sense and even if she shouldnt have to, the fact is hes married and shes shocked but if she asked and researched then she would of known he should have just told her he was married. maybe he should of but he didnt and she fell for him and now is complaining hes married. if she would of even if he should of told but didnt she would know for sure \ WHAT repeat that?? Please

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 01:54 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret. well she didnt research, if if i dont make no sense and even if she shouldnt have to, the fact is hes married and shes shocked but if she asked and researched then she would of known You know what mister little RESEARCHER... I hope you research your arse off to find your perfect girl... love is not a science... and neither is friendship... there shouldn't be any frigging research being done in any case... it is called trust and communication.... plus if you re read the whole thread you would know better not to put blame on me... either way thanks for your opinion i didnt blame you i said women in general. whats the definition of insanity? doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. dont research or ask questions but if you keep getting hurt your doing it to yourself

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 01:56 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret. well she didnt research, if if i dont make no sense and even if she shouldnt have to, the fact is hes married and shes shocked but if she asked and researched then she would of known You know what mister little RESEARCHER... I hope you research your arse off to find your perfect girl... love is not a science... and neither is friendship... there shouldn't be any frigging research being done in any case... it is called trust and communication.... plus if you re read the whole thread you would know better not to put blame on me... either way thanks for your opinion i didnt blame you i said women in general. whats the definition of insanity? doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. dont research or ask questions but if you keep getting hurt your doing it to yourself Hold on here... this is not like a reoccurring thing to me that I meet only married men now... this is a def first like this... plus I mentioned it already that I did ask him if he was in a relationship when were merely friends... he denied being with anyone...

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 08/20/08 02:00 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret. well she didnt research, if if i dont make no sense and even if she shouldnt have to, the fact is hes married and shes shocked but if she asked and researched then she would of known he should have just told her he was married. maybe he should of but he didnt and she fell for him and now is complaining hes married. if she would of even if he should of told but didnt she would know for sure \ WHAT repeat that?? Please i said even tho he should of told you the fact of the matter is he didnt. and even if you shouldnt have to research the guy or ask those questions does not change the fact if you would of did this stuff you would know the truth. you have fallen for him and was getting close but you could of prevented all the hurt and anger your now expierenceing

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 08/20/08 02:03 PM
Can you flipping believe it... this guy is MARRIED... BLAH! Why do men play such awful silly games... MARRIED... what the heck man...Right when things look so up and well.. BAMMM it all comes crashing down.... MARRIED... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well if you woman didnt act all shy and quit moveing like snails and wait for the guy to do everything you would of most likely of known he was married months ago wth?!?! move like who do like what?!? What are you talking about please explain to me please.... What me screwing him would SO have been the thing to do to find out he was married??? what EXPLAIN insightful one!! im not just talking about you but women in general. they all or at least most want to sit back let the guy do all the work. the woman sit back let the guy court you for a long time when all they do is enjoy there money, there things, and they make no efort to get to know the guy and then they complain after they find something out they dont want to here. if you research and ask questions instead of leting it all come to you, you might of found stuff out alot sooner. That makes no sense. If someone is married and is spending a lot of time with another women, there's no reason he should keep his marriage a secret. well she didnt research, if if i dont make no sense and even if she shouldnt have to, the fact is hes married and shes shocked but if she asked and researched then she would of known he should have just told her he was married. maybe he should of but he didnt and she fell for him and now is complaining hes married. if she would of even if he should of told but didnt she would know for sure \ WHAT repeat that?? Please i said even tho he should of told you the fact of the matter is he didnt. and even if you shouldnt have to research the guy or ask those questions does not change the fact if you would of did this stuff you would know the truth. you have fallen for him and was getting close but you could of prevented all the hurt and anger your now expierenceing I wasn't falling for him... i was greatly appreciating his company and thinking he was an amazingly caring educated giving humorous talented loving guy and believing all his words he said to me and believed him... he fed me bullsh*t and I ate it up because I was hungry what he had Plus it started out as us being friends... so I thought is was all gravy... that what hurts the most.. we were friends above all else..

Therapygrl28 Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 712	Wed 08/20/08 02:26 PM
[quote I wasn't falling for him... i was greatly appreciating his company and thinking he was an amazingly caring educated giving humorous talented loving guy and believing all his words he said to me and believed him... he fed me bullsh*t and I ate it up because I was hungry what he had Plus it started out as us being friends... so I thought is was all gravy... that what hurts the most.. we were friends above all else.. I'm sorry about what happened to you Ella...can relate 100% to the situation!