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You know a man (or woman) whom you know likes you very much, but "isn't
sure" yet whether or not he (or she) wants to make a long-term commitmment to you. How long would you wait? A week? Month? Year? And then, once you decide you've waited long enough, do you just quietly move on, do you give an ultimatum? How do you handle it? |
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Remember 'life is short'. Myself I would probably wait one week, then
move on. 
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Wow, not very patient, are you?
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It depends on her. If she's "real special" you have some patience, But
you can't put your life on hold. If someone else came along I'd let her know it. Maybe she'd realize it's now or never. |
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I would need to know why that person is hesitant on starting a commited
relationship first off.If the person can't come to terms in a 6 month time slot...then I'd tell them I'm moving on. |
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2 months..then I quietly move on...lifes too short
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my point of view is when it happends it happends. a week a months, then
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well I waited for 3 months one time but like most will say if it is
suppose to happen it will happen it's not something you can change but if your not conten then you have to chose But then again there are the ones worth waiting for and I for one if I see that in them I can wait 
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I just let things take its time.
my hubby it took him 2 years before he got me a ring. |
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 just dump them.....lol im kidding.. when i meet someone i really like, i take my time and hope the other person does too..things take time and takes a while to get to know someone..most the time it seems i end up just friends with alot of these guys, which is fine..he's just not the one right now..but its true, it takes time..and i've made the mistake b4 on rushing things and it was a disaster..i sure learned for that.  
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I don't like this thread.
I'm leaving. |
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I could not put a time frame on it.When it feel like the positively
perfect thing to do.It works faster for some couples than others.Yep I'm vague about it but must take the time to know its right!
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lol@glen..
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It all depends on the individual. On what they want. I am talking to
somebody right now. And i know they do not want a relationship. So I am more then happy to just sit there and be there friend for how ever long it takes. Good things can not be rushed. You need to take your time if you want it to develop into any thing at all. Why rush it? Just to scare them off? Then you will be the one hurt in the long run. So I still say slow and steady wins the race. |
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6 mo to 1 yr before a commitment.. I don't cheat, but want to make sure
it is right.. messed up 2 times before.. this next time taking it slow. |
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me too lazy..taking my time..then again i've seen people hook up
fast.."love at first site" still together..luck i guess..was a perfect match..lucky them  
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yep some are lucky.. what does that say for me...lol
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I agree with you Newguy!!!!
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Misty,
I'll wait for you forever. 
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I gave someone about two months to figure it out. Everytime the subject
was brought up, he was very careful with his wording. I told him to make a decision either way. Haven't talked to him since. |
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