BigGlen you are more than worth any wait I would have to
endure!

Up to 1 year it usually takes that to see if your even compatable. I
wouldnt get married anytime less than that not into alamonie and child
support.

i waited 10 years....look where i am now.

LMAO, I really read that wrong.thought you were talking about something
else. Please forgive me. I would like to take my answer back now.

Shenadra, what were you thinking??

Well Ruby, you waited ten years, and here you are. Maybe if you hadn't
waited you wouldn't be here at all, aren't we lucky to have you.

As far as waiting - if communication does not offer some acceptible
reasoning then either you are not communicating, or you are being handed
a line of BS. However, if there are simply some things to be overcome,
or some goals to be accomplished before a commitment can be made, then
there must be some time line to gage the progress of those things. If
there is no progress toward the perfect circumstance within a time you
both agree on - make your life count as someone elses blessing.

A commitment, requires patience, a week, a month, a year, or 10 years,
why the rush. A pushy woman will never get anywhere with me.

Well, there is no way I'd wait for any man for ten years (not five
years, even, and probably not even three.)

A man who's so indecisive he doesn't know what he wants in ten years'
time will never get anywhere with me.

Till your mind tells you, enough is enough. Each individual will have a
different time table. Gwen & I talked for 2 yrs, was worth the wait.
Now waiting for the nxt life. We will be together.

10 years is nothing, for a lifetime of joy and happiness, neither, is 5,
4, 3, 2, or 1.

well wait by putting him/her on the back burner cooking away, while you
braise the pot roast and have some fun.

a few months or so.

Four hours, Thirty two minutes.

Awww Glenn how about 4 hours 31 minutes and 59.9 seconds?

I guess I could do that, For you.

If 10 years is "nothing for a lifetime of joy and happiness," why not
embark upon that lifetime of joy and happiness long before 10 years goes
by? Why would someone NEED ten years to decide whether or not they
wanted to make a commitment to someone?

That may work for some people but it would never work for me.

I make decisions pretty much "on the spot." Sometimes they're good
decisions and sometimes not so good, but I figure life is full of risks
and sometimes those risks you take can lead to a lifetime of joy and
happiness.

If someone thought for one second he'd get by with making me wait 10
years for him to decide whether or not I was worthy of making a
commitment to, well...he'd be doing a lot of waiting, cuz I will have
long ago found someone else who did think so.

Awww Geee thanks Glenn ((((Hug)))

Right back at ya babe.

would depend on what the relationship is. at a distance or dating or
living together. so many variables.

Ive loved from a distance for more than 5 years, but never expect
anything to happen so I move on with my life. always have. if something
ever does and Im free, then maybe, but if I have moved on and have a
love, tough noogies.

I've posted on this before,but I will do so again.For the right one, and
I'm convinced that she is the right one,I would wait for eternity.Even
though she may not be sure of us or where we stand Love is love.