I've been told I'm a nice guy but some reason I'm having a hard time
finding a date in my area. Everytime I ask they always respond that they
don't go for the nice guy. Is it just the women in the area or should I
change my personality so I'm more like a bad guy? What are the things I
could do to become more desirable or bad guy like?

You should never change who you are to please others, only to please
yourself. If people cant accept you as you are, they're not the ones you
need in your life. Hang in there...it will happen when you least expect
it

Stay who you are. And the right girl will come, Girls love guys who are
being them self, we hate fakes.

Be who you are, If they have a problem with that then so be it
you will find someone who love you, not who they want you to be
if your a nice guy, stay like that. Not all woman like bad guys
that is the reason why there are so many

(SINGLE EVERY COLOR FEMALES)

Nooooooooooooooooo dont change!..there are some woman that appreciate a
good nice guy..I'm one of them..I just cant find a good guy..lol

I agree with what everyone has said. Never change who you are to fit
what someone else wants. Be true to yourself. Always. You'll only end up
with regret and bitterness in your heart. That's no way to live.

Something you may want to look at... what kind of women attract you?
Perhaps you're chasing the wrong women. Just a thought. Often we think
we know what we want but our minds and our hearts are miscommunicating.
Does that make sense?

Good luck to you!

well maybe it is because you look like the blues brothers in those
sunglasses, and they want to gaze into your beautiful eyes

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Bryan,,, Changing to please someone else changes your Soul and your
whole being,,, Believe in yourself hold your head hi,, for
when the right one comes along she will Love the true you

Always be true to yourself. They will either like you for who you are or
they will never like you. Just be you and be real. You will find someone
that likes you the way you are.

Always be you, no matter what others think. Being what you are not or
wishing you were someone or something else is a waste of the fantastic
person you are.

I agree
Be yourself
I know people say nice guys finish last, but I don't believe that. I
prefer nice guys!!!!

Ok Bryan ...the votes are in..BE YOU!! No one should ever have to change
who they are,or want to, to be with someone...

Alright, Now I know. Thanks to everybody who replied. I appreciate it.

DAM SKIPPY!! Never change who you are!!! :)

All the good girls are taken by the bad guys. You'll have to wait your
turn, or simply just be a bad guy. <ha ha>

your just approching the wrong woman,or chasing looks

Nice guys are very hard to come by. Dont change a thing. Women do not
like bad boys, number one they dont stay around long and number two, who
wants to visit a bad boy in prison? At least when you say bad boy that
is what I think it means. Other than that if you mean should you be a
player? A cheat? A liar? A con artist in the game of love? Then the
answer is NO NO NO. Trust and believe..good guys do reap the best
benefits...lolol...guess that means sex is not really one of the best
benefits. What I think counts is someone who is honest, and real. And
lets face it, yes you should be working a job and have some goals in
life. Okay you may be a hunk, with bulging muscles and really know how
to put it down in the bedroom, but if you dont have anything to do for
your future and nothing to show, what good is all that other stuff? Take
it from me..stay a good guy, you will find the right woman. And dont
start your dates out with "Hey Im a nice guy.." we ladies can tell that
when we meet you. If you got it and its real it will show without any
effort at all.

Bryan, don't change to make someone else happy. Be yourself and the
right girl will come along and love you for who you are! There are alot
of the bad boys out there and unfortunately girls of all types fall for
that at times, until they realize they want someone who will treat them
better.

Starting to think you realy got to play the bad guy!