Im looking for someone to give me the "boyfriend" experience. You know hold open a door, send me flowers for no reason, pay for a meal once in a while. Im not interested in what you used to have (especially when you tell me you used to make 7 figure incomes and now you have nothing and you would like to find someone to share it with..lol!!) Not that money means much but at least have a job and a decent mode of transportation like I do. Money cant buy happiness but you can be "unhappy" in some pretty nice places with it. Im romantic, caring, faithful (unheard of qualities these days). Im able to travel to a few places, just came back from celebrating my 51 in Maui and had a wonderful time...yes by myself. Go to vegas a lot, not to gamble, but to see the shows. Im not a prude but I dont get into online sex and cyber talk (yawwwwn!) Im not into meeting someone for some freaky sexual exprience although for the right man I can be just as freaky. Im a bbw, actually a Brilliant Big Beautiful Woman, just received my masters in business and I date outside my race. If you are confident, open-minded, SWM between the ages of 40-54 and want a woman of substance I mean a REAL WOMAN! than look me up....Oh and one other thing, if you send a pic please have your face showing in it...because trust and believe if you have seen one you have seen them all and they are all the same.....