Belive me Bill playing the bad guy does not get you anywhere with the
RIGHT women. If you want a fly by night kind of girl go a head. But if
you want something that is right, good and top of the line.... Stay a
good guy....


Also a tip, women do like to chat about things OTHER than SEX!!!

Ya I know about the bad guy thing T.I hardly get into the sex topics
anymore.Sometimes alittle.

hang in there and don't change man. i have the same problem with girls
because most of the ones that i'm attracted to like the bad guy bit

I here ya King.My biggest thing is im so picky.My life and I proceed
with caution.

Just remember the saying "I'd rather be hated for who I am then Loved
for who Im not" dont go changing yourself to find love cause eventually
your true self will venture out again and so the love that you had for
eachother will diminish as well.

ok just for a ex. whin i was with my ex husband trying to make my
marrage work couse he was a lier and a cheater i tryed to change who i
was...i thought if i changed me trying to be the girls he was sleeping
with then he would stop and just be with me and we would live happly
ever after...wrong all i got was my heart brock couse i couldn't change
myself to match what he wanted why? couse his just into cheating and lie
he will never change and i relized that. i was only hurting myself
couse its hard to be someoneless so don't try and change it only hurts u
in the end.

Maybe your looking it the wrong places?
If I can't find something in the stores I frequent,
change of stores usually provides results.

Birds of a feather, Flock together

Start cking some different flocks.

well put sage but like they have said dont change who u aer for the sake
of others if u want to change do it for u

Thanks again to all who replied. I'll be myself meaning I'll be nice.
I'll also try to be more relaxed so I'm cool, calm, and funny but
have any of you got any really good tips to really leave an impression
on a girl? For example, is opening all the doors for the lady, paying
for everything (dinner, movie, whatever else), ect.. too sleazy or is it
a great idea?