Topic: May be touchy for some..
TwilightsTwin's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:15 PM

This pic is from a joke last night in one of the threads.....My nick name on here (from some of the guys) was Naked Kitty because of a picture of a cat like this----a hairless cat. But I have pics up of me, my fiance and I, and jokes that I have with people on here......and yes TwilightsTwin, I think I still have your pony up.


Ah, you still have my pony???

You sweetheart!flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:20 PM

I am new to the site, about a week now..I have noticed a lot of people put everything and the kitchen sink in there pic profiles except THEIR PIC?? Why?? I know this topic has probably been beat to death like a dead horse but I am just curious how anyone thinks someone will go on a date with someone that won't even show who they are... If you are insecure so what someone will always find you attractive in some shape or form so don't hide behind stupid picks... OK I am stepping down off my soap box and running for cover!!scared


:laughing:Run, run for the hills :laughing:


My default pic is for fun, have pic on my profile flowerforyou

eileena9's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:21 PM


This pic is from a joke last night in one of the threads.....My nick name on here (from some of the guys) was Naked Kitty because of a picture of a cat like this----a hairless cat. But I have pics up of me, my fiance and I, and jokes that I have with people on here......and yes TwilightsTwin, I think I still have your pony up.


Ah, you still have my pony???

You sweetheart!flowerforyou


Yep, just checked.......your pony is there!!!laugh laugh laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:21 PM


I am new to the site, about a week now..I have noticed a lot of people put everything and the kitchen sink in there pic profiles except THEIR PIC?? Why?? I know this topic has probably been beat to death like a dead horse but I am just curious how anyone thinks someone will go on a date with someone that won't even show who they are... If you are insecure so what someone will always find you attractive in some shape or form so don't hide behind stupid picks... OK I am stepping down off my soap box and running for cover!!scared
happy This really is what i look likehappy








smokin The man speaks the truthsmokin

no photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:21 PM


<------------thats me too :wink: :wink: :wink: devil
love Beautifullove


bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile love love

duckiegiggles's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:22 PM
damn now i have to go look for a picture of a kitchen sink to???

beauty314's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:22 PM
some people, like me, don't know how to operate a computer very well..so i asked a friend on this site to help me put up some pics. He did and we've been together ever since..laugh

LightVoice's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:26 PM

I am new to the site, about a week now..I have noticed a lot of people put everything and the kitchen sink in there pic profiles except THEIR PIC?? Why?? I know this topic has probably been beat to death like a dead horse but I am just curious how anyone thinks someone will go on a date with someone that won't even show who they are... If you are insecure so what someone will always find you attractive in some shape or form so don't hide behind stupid picks... OK I am stepping down off my soap box and running for cover!!scared


Hello & Welcome flowerforyou

While it is not true for all, I do know that for some people they woudl rathe ryou get to know who they are, to express interest in them as a person.. once that has been established, they always offer to send you a pic.

Others, due to their profession also prefer to keep their face off the net... and once contact has been establish, they send a pic.

Now.. I am not naive.. and there are a vast amount of less than noble reasons why some people do not post a pic.. but I wanted to point out that at times, there is a very logical & valid reason.

Best of luck !

eileena9's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:27 PM



OK I mean people who have NO pics of themselves but pics of everything else... I don't see a problem with having different pics of different things on your profile as long as you have pics of yourself as well... There is that more clear, geez LOLbigsmile

You mean the blue boxes?


A what?? Explanation please??huh


When someone doesn't have any pictures on thier profile and they post on the threads, it shows a blue box with "ask me for a photo" written on it....I think it says that, I never was one...bigsmile

They seem to be the most vocal about people not telling the truth about themselves in their pictures....oh and lack of info in the profiles.

BayouMafia's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:27 PM


I am new to the site, about a week now..I have noticed a lot of people put everything and the kitchen sink in there pic profiles except THEIR PIC?? Why?? I know this topic has probably been beat to death like a dead horse but I am just curious how anyone thinks someone will go on a date with someone that won't even show who they are... If you are insecure so what someone will always find you attractive in some shape or form so don't hide behind stupid picks... OK I am stepping down off my soap box and running for cover!!scared


:laughing:Run, run for the hills :laughing:


My default pic is for fun, have pic on my profile flowerforyou


I should have been more clear in my original post I meant people who have nothing but pics of thing that aren't them... If you have a pic of yourself in your profile then you are not who I am talking about..:wink:

auburngirl's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:28 PM
GOOD! Guess that means I can keep my bee!

no photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:29 PM
<-----------------attention grabber.......

BayouMafia's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:30 PM


I am new to the site, about a week now..I have noticed a lot of people put everything and the kitchen sink in there pic profiles except THEIR PIC?? Why?? I know this topic has probably been beat to death like a dead horse but I am just curious how anyone thinks someone will go on a date with someone that won't even show who they are... If you are insecure so what someone will always find you attractive in some shape or form so don't hide behind stupid picks... OK I am stepping down off my soap box and running for cover!!scared


Hello & Welcome flowerforyou

While it is not true for all, I do know that for some people they woudl rathe ryou get to know who they are, to express interest in them as a person.. once that has been established, they always offer to send you a pic.

Others, due to their profession also prefer to keep their face off the net... and once contact has been establish, they send a pic.

Now.. I am not naive.. and there are a vast amount of less than noble reasons why some people do not post a pic.. but I wanted to point out that at times, there is a very logical & valid reason.

Best of luck !


Thank you, and that makes sense I guess..I don't need luck by the way, it comes natural to me LOLdevil

no photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:30 PM


I am new to the site, about a week now..I have noticed a lot of people put everything and the kitchen sink in there pic profiles except THEIR PIC?? Why?? I know this topic has probably been beat to death like a dead horse but I am just curious how anyone thinks someone will go on a date with someone that won't even show who they are... If you are insecure so what someone will always find you attractive in some shape or form so don't hide behind stupid picks... OK I am stepping down off my soap box and running for cover!!scared


Hello & Welcome flowerforyou

While it is not true for all, I do know that for some people they woudl rathe ryou get to know who they are, to express interest in them as a person.. once that has been established, they always offer to send you a pic.

Others, due to their profession also prefer to keep their face off the net... and once contact has been establish, they send a pic.

Now.. I am not naive.. and there are a vast amount of less than noble reasons why some people do not post a pic.. but I wanted to point out that at times, there is a very logical & valid reason.

Best of luck !


someone that get it
finally

it's all about personal choice
I want the guy to get to know me then a pic will be shared
it's not rocket science

franshade's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:31 PM



I am new to the site, about a week now..I have noticed a lot of people put everything and the kitchen sink in there pic profiles except THEIR PIC?? Why?? I know this topic has probably been beat to death like a dead horse but I am just curious how anyone thinks someone will go on a date with someone that won't even show who they are... If you are insecure so what someone will always find you attractive in some shape or form so don't hide behind stupid picks... OK I am stepping down off my soap box and running for cover!!scared


:laughing:Run, run for the hills :laughing:


My default pic is for fun, have pic on my profile flowerforyou


I should have been more clear in my original post I meant people who have nothing but pics of thing that aren't them... If you have a pic of yourself in your profile then you are not who I am talking about..:wink:



Not posting pics prevents people from window shopping winking makes a person have to contact if curious or interested.


MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:31 PM
Some of the people who don't have pics, will
exchange pics with someone once they have gotton
to know them. They want privacy, and some are afraid their pics will be used for bad reasons
or copied over the net.

Then we have some who lie about their looks, or
are faking who they are.

Then we have some who just feel like not posting a
pic cause they do not want to. Simple as that.
We call them blue boxes. They used to be blue
boxes when the site was just JSH.

I have talked with blue boxes, and have blue box friends. Does'nt bother me in the least. If I were
to ever go out on a date with one- I would ask for
a pic to see what they look like.

franshade's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:32 PM
MsTeddy, applies to beachballs too :thumbsup: waving

BayouMafia's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:32 PM


I am new to the site, about a week now..I have noticed a lot of people put everything and the kitchen sink in there pic profiles except THEIR PIC?? Why?? I know this topic has probably been beat to death like a dead horse but I am just curious how anyone thinks someone will go on a date with someone that won't even show who they are... If you are insecure so what someone will always find you attractive in some shape or form so don't hide behind stupid picks... OK I am stepping down off my soap box and running for cover!!scared


Hello & Welcome flowerforyou

While it is not true for all, I do know that for some people they woudl rathe ryou get to know who they are, to express interest in them as a person.. once that has been established, they always offer to send you a pic.

Others, due to their profession also prefer to keep their face off the net... and once contact has been establish, they send a pic.

Now.. I am not naive.. and there are a vast amount of less than noble reasons why some people do not post a pic.. but I wanted to point out that at times, there is a very logical & valid reason.

Best of luck !


Thanks I've seen the phrase used a few times but wasn't exactly sure what it meant..

BayouMafia's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:34 PM

GOOD! Guess that means I can keep my bee!


Hey Auburngirl, All I can say to you is Geaux Tigers!! And I think you know which Tigers I mean!! LOL:tongue:

eileena9's photo
Fri 08/01/08 03:37 PM
MsTeddy and I explained the Blue Boxes!! Why did you thank LightVoice? Just cuz she's cuter and has a picture of herself up????sad sad sad sad sad sad sad




:tongue: j/k