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Edited by
TheShadow
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Tue 07/22/08 07:50 PM
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Afraid to tell somone they like them and lets keep this simple. It's just a topic
 I know i brang this up before and i know what some of you are going to say, afraid of my feelings getting hurt, might lose a friend etc etc. I alway see the who has a crush thread and alot of people say i have one. Well, what the hell! tell them and stop being such a chicken. Life is to short and waiting around is never going to get anyone anyware. I hear all the time the same people saying they can't find anyone but at the same time there afraid to let somone know they like them. Onece again ill hear, i'm afraid to lose a friend. Well guess what people. If you lose that friend over somthing like that. There not your friend..... Ok ok, lets here it 
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Preach it brotha
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Im with you 100%. This site isnt about making friends. Its about finding someone to share a relationship with. I guess It just goes to show how many people are fake and hide behind their profile.
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rejection ,shy, .i do agree with you the friend thing is blah,if you like'em tell them . period
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It is an interesting game, isn't it? It would be easier if it worked that way... it just doesn't.
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i would love to get to meet people and find someone to share a relationship with but it just dont seem to be goin on here
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because if they like me back then i have to do somehting. and something cost money
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how about this... because the results in our heads are so much worse than real life could ever be.. but they are so bad that it scares us away..
lol.. fear of rejection based on the senerio we played out in our head. 
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Probably because they are scared of being hurt.
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because if they like me back then i have to do somehting. and something cost money Hey, that sounds the best so far 
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Shadow.. you are SO right!!
If you like someone.. just say so!   
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I think maybe mine is self-esteem and fear of rejection? Your make a good argument though!
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because as soon as you tell someone that you like them they quit emailing, calling ect. And why would you announce something like on here. Most people are so far away unless you have been together in person and are engaged it could be over in a matter of days. Then you and the other person have to convince others that you are available again. Its even a fine line to walk even talking to someone without offending them or scaring them off. I dont take it personally. But it does get old.
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I tend to be very outgoing but then when I find out the guy I am interested in is interested in me... I get very shy ... ha ha... also I get bored very easily too...
NM i forget my point and now rambling... just forget it HA! 
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fear of them not being interested back..c'mon face it, nobody likes rejection.
 
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Hummm cause it is easier to hide behind the screen in our own little safe world. No rejections, no let downs it is much easier then to have them totally ignore you. JMO
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fear of them not being interested back..c'mon face it, nobody likes rejection. **Note** especially the one that you MAY be interested in perv's your profile, but doesn't email...so you tend to shy away from that |
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because as soon as you tell someone that you like them they quit emailing, calling ect. And why would you announce something like on here. Most people are so far away unless you have been together in person and are engaged it could be over in a matter of days. Then you and the other person have to convince others that you are available again. Its even a fine line to walk even talking to someone without offending them or scaring them off. I dont take it personally. But it does get old. I knew someone would say it. Well, if your afrad they wont email you back. Then there a wast of your time. Real people don't shove friends off.... |
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I see alot of you saying fear of rejection, Sorry, but get over it! it's not like your walking up to them and your face to face.
I always see the same excuse. I have always told somone that i was interested in how i felt about them and if they say there not interested. So what, it's not like it's the end of the world. get brave people and stop hiding from what can't really hurt you. What the hell do you really have to lose? "NOTHING" but your pride
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Hummm cause it is easier to hide behind the screen in our own little safe world. No rejections, no let downs it is much easier then to have them totally ignore you. JMO And run for the rest of your life?  Hi txs
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