Topic: do nice guys finish last
Ravage21's photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:31 PM
mmm butterfingers

no photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:33 PM
You should have taken her out, someplace expensive, like the gas station. laugh

no photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:33 PM
She got the gold mine and you got the shaft?

BlueskyJ's photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:33 PM
good advice Steve....I might also recommend you read a book by Neil Strauss, 'The Game'....some real good stuff to enlighten men that are always getting stepped on....

yankeesnut's photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:34 PM
there's someone for everybody...just gotta be patient...and yadda yadda yadda..haha...

Lord_Psycho's photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:34 PM
Dude!!! Some girls just use us for money and sex thats it! Some like guys who are tools and are losers n treat them like crap and have nothin! Ive seen it on all these sites and they dont care they just dont have any morals or respect for nice guys like us! Fine we get annoyin and stupid at times but it shows how much we care about them no matter what! My advice to u my friend they are some girls that can appreciate who n wat u are. the rest can go to their bars,their loser friends who have no life or morals or respect for themselves! thats why you just work hard n 1 day some girl will come to you n appreciate u! Keep ur head high dude!

120557's photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:42 PM

Welcome to the internet my friend...

I dont believe a one until the proof is in sight
Theproof is in the pudding (as they say)...

Rainbolt's photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:45 PM
Edited by Rainbolt on Tue 07/22/08 04:47 PM
i stopped wining & dining a long time ago. I learned to spot the ones that needed a change in priorities.

Yes nice guys do finish last & get taken advantage of 99.999% of the time... There must be a balance

mzrightkris's photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:47 PM
Wow you've had it rough.... sorry to hear

Ravage21's photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:53 PM
yeah i am sure everyone's been there once some way some how

mry's photo
Tue 07/22/08 04:54 PM

good advice Steve....I might also recommend you read a book by Neil Strauss, 'The Game'....some real good stuff to enlighten men that are always getting stepped on....


and get her the book HES JUST NOT INTO YOU by Dr. Phill.laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 07/22/08 05:02 PM

i was in a relationship for 9 yrs found out she was just using me to take care of her finacialy so we i ended it, i met a girl on myspace talked to her alot when i wanted to meet she never showed then one night she says i need to tell you the truth im not her shes a girl from my school showed me who she was and i was like wtf. im an easy going person i have manners you know hold the door and all that if we go out i buy for everbody but it just seems i always get the shaft


I bury nice guy's under my stoop.smokin

fdp1177's photo
Tue 07/22/08 09:40 PM
Nice guys don't win.
Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.
You don't have to be an asshole, just don't be "nice" unless it's to your own benefit.

Tanzkity's photo
Tue 07/22/08 09:52 PM

i was in a relationship for 9 yrs found out she was just using me to take care of her finacialy so we i ended it, i met a girl on myspace talked to her alot when i wanted to meet she never showed then one night she says i need to tell you the truth im not her shes a girl from my school showed me who she was and i was like wtf. im an easy going person i have manners you know hold the door and all that if we go out i buy for everbody but it just seems i always get the shaft


You are too giving and someone can smell that out of you from a mile away................you just need to relax and things that are right will come your way..............its a cliche but patients is a virtue and sometimes that is what you have to do................especially if you are looking for the one..............flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 07/22/08 10:18 PM
Do nice guys finish last??

Every single day.

itsmetina's photo
Tue 07/22/08 10:22 PM
well ur worries should be over try mutual match the :heart: of your life is just a click away

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 07/22/08 10:41 PM

yeah i ve been ther ive spent 200 one night on her and her friends all nite she left with another guy i was like ahhhhhhhhhh. i just dont get it

Throwing down that kind of money on a date is kind of like hanging a sign around your neck saying use and abuse me. If you are dateing a young woman and she is not keeping an eye on what you are spending being comfortably with in your means and reciprocated by her time, commitment, and cosideration. That does not necessarily mean sex but if a woman did not at least express affection and attraction to me I would accept she was more into my wallet than me as a person pretty fast. It all boils down to you CAN NOT BUY LOVE but you sure can buy a prostitute in sheeps clothing.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 07/22/08 10:43 PM


good advice Steve....I might also recommend you read a book by Neil Strauss, 'The Game'....some real good stuff to enlighten men that are always getting stepped on....


and get her the book HES JUST NOT INTO YOU by Dr. Phill.laugh

Dr.Phil didn't write that. It is another TV shrink but not Phil McGraw.

izzie's photo
Tue 07/22/08 10:50 PM
the eternal answer to the "nice guy" thread


http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/135261


flowerforyou

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Tue 07/22/08 10:58 PM



good advice Steve....I might also recommend you read a book by Neil Strauss, 'The Game'....some real good stuff to enlighten men that are always getting stepped on....


and get her the book HES JUST NOT INTO YOU by Dr. Phill.laugh

Dr.Phil didn't write that. It is another TV shrink but not Phil McGraw.



The author was Greg Behrens and it's not even a doctor, he was a writer on "Sex & the City" wrote the script that used that phrase in the episode, and then had his own talk show for a while