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Topic: if adultery
lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 07/22/08 10:57 AM
i was really hurt though and just wanted it to be over and done with so i could move on with my life So you took it to trial? Um, okay.

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Tue 07/22/08 10:57 AM
funny if its illegal how its not grounds for divorce here anymore in oregon.. they just call it something like marital differences yep

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 07/22/08 10:58 AM
In the city in which I work, it is illegal to wear patent leather shoes with a skirt. I've not yet been arrested. weird.... why is that? They are reflective.... never quite thought of it like that - going to search my closet for my boots...

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 07/22/08 10:59 AM
is illegal ,which it is in all fifty states why doesnt anyone ever press charges? first time i ever heard of that one yes it is if your married,in most states its like considered along the lines as stealing a pack of gum.

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Tue 07/22/08 11:01 AM
is illegal ,which it is in all fifty states why doesnt anyone ever press charges? first time i ever heard of that one yes it is if your married,in most states its like considered along the lines as stealing a pack of gum.

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Tue 07/22/08 11:01 AM
is illegal ,which it is in all fifty states why doesnt anyone ever press charges? first time i ever heard of that one yes it is if your married,in most states its like considered along the lines as stealing a pack of gum. not here in cali

Jamesdei07 Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 571	Tue 07/22/08 11:02 AM
only way to get over quick and painless like a bandaid

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 07/22/08 11:07 AM
funny if its illegal how its not grounds for divorce here anymore in oregon.. they just call it something like marital differences yep if you or the other person dont press charges then its meaningless,its not in a police report. so you just going to court to get a divorce and you say he or she cheated on me of course the judge is going to be like .ok

Jamesdei07 Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 571	Tue 07/22/08 11:08 AM
i had physical evidence they really don't like that in Georgia i didn't press charges but the judge definitely didn't like the pics

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Tue 07/22/08 11:09 AM
i would have loved to ME TOO !!!!

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Tue 07/22/08 11:13 AM
Wow what are we back to the Scarlett Letter days................get arrested or wear a big fat A..............

Jamesdei07 Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 571	Tue 07/22/08 11:14 AM
yes awesome idea might put a stop to a lot of it

Jamesdei07 Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 571	Tue 07/22/08 11:16 AM
it sux that these days family values have been lost just thrown out the window love to go back to those days

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Tue 07/22/08 11:17 AM
funny if its illegal how its not grounds for divorce here anymore in oregon.. they just call it something like marital differences Irreconcilable differences....I have gone through this 2 times here in Oregon

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Tue 07/22/08 11:18 AM
In the city in which I work, it is illegal to wear patent leather shoes with a skirt. I've not yet been arrested. really? are you serious?

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Tue 07/22/08 11:21 AM
it sux that these days family values have been lost just thrown out the window love to go back to those days You think that is what you want but remember family values also kept women in the home and they didnt have the same rights as men or equal pay..............you ready for the days where you are just the breadwinner and your wife stays home and watches kids and soaps...........i dont want to go back to those days...........i want my daughters to see there is more to women than having babies and being a maid to their husband unless that is what you want to be but it should be a choice...........

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Tue 07/22/08 11:49 AM
Adultery ought to be understood simply as a very serious breach of contract. Adulterers cause real harm to their spouses, and just as the law makes those who breach their commercial contracts pay damages for the harm they cause, there seems nothing wrong with "fault" divorces that impose greater financial obligations on adulterers than on other ex-spouses. Actually Adultery is not considered as a Crime per-say except within the marriage its self. In the past it was used for grounds for a Divorce. Now days they use the No-Fault since now all one has to say is they can not get along in order to get a Divorce. Adultery is very seldom used as grounds for a Divorce anymore but in some cases it is still brought up when it comes to the woman asking for Alimony. If she is the one that committed Adultery the man can use those grounds in order for her not to receive Alimony. Due to the marriage was dissolved due to her actions and therefore the courts at times see she is not fit to receive those benifits.