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Topic: RED flags.......
Puffins1958's photo
Fri 07/11/08 10:53 AM

Having someone say to me mere moments after we started talking online, that she felt like she knew me before, and had had a dream about meeting me a few nights before we actually met. Like she felt it was some sort of fate that put us together, or that we'd met in a previous life.

Nevermind the fact that she had just broken things off with a boyfriend prior to talking to me, who I might add gave her a ring as a birthday present.

Oh and did I mention she was 32 with a 12 year old son? Needless to say I didn't talk to her very long after this......

I'm sure you made the right move...Good for you!!!

Kleisto's photo
Fri 07/11/08 10:57 AM


Having someone say to me mere moments after we started talking online, that she felt like she knew me before, and had had a dream about meeting me a few nights before we actually met. Like she felt it was some sort of fate that put us together, or that we'd met in a previous life.

Nevermind the fact that she had just broken things off with a boyfriend prior to talking to me, who I might add gave her a ring as a birthday present.

Oh and did I mention she was 32 with a 12 year old son? Needless to say I didn't talk to her very long after this......

I'm sure you made the right move...Good for you!!!


Yeah for some reason it was hard at first though, shouldn't have been but it was. I talked to her for a couple of days or so before deciding I had seen enough.

no photo
Fri 07/11/08 10:58 AM
why do all of the flags have to be red??? why not fuscia or even magenta???? Im so bored with red flags!!! Lets spin the colour wheel shall we???bigsmile

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 07/11/08 10:58 AM

Yeah, that was like the time I ran into the Jehovah's Witness kid from class. It was his birthday and Halloween, and he had just went away to college.

He was dressed as a clown with cherry cordial sauce dripping down his face, a bottle of night train in one hand and a pillowcase full of candy in the other.

I remember how, in school, he teased me about my bra until I reminded him I celebrated my birthday and all pagan holidays, plus my church service was only 45 mins to his all day event....
bwa ha ha ha ha!!! The football captain went up on meth charges at age 37. The high school homecoming queen that never said boo to me in high school gained 355 pounds and tried to hit on me at the reunion. Told me "My you look great- looks like you lost some weight!" I looked at her ass and said "Looks like you gained what I lost."

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 07/11/08 11:00 AM

why do all of the flags have to be red??? why not fuscia or even magenta???? Im so bored with red flags!!! Lets spin the colour wheel shall we???bigsmile

I see a RED flag...because my blood boils
yeah....that's it!!!!

tongue2 ill tongue2

lilith401's photo
Fri 07/11/08 11:09 AM
How about guys that lecture you in e-mails if you don't fall all over them or agree with what they say.....

I seem to encounter that a lot.

Such as, do you like sushi? Lilith:"No, I don't". Ohhhh well you are missing out. I learned how to make it while I was in Japan and it is filled with Omega three and only has blah blah calories.... you really need to give it another chance. I would make it for you, wink wink....

Come on....

beachbum069's photo
Fri 07/11/08 11:12 AM
I personally like a woman that challenges me. It makes it more interesting.

DQ66's photo
Fri 07/11/08 11:22 AM

Is there anything that you could say that while having a conversation with someone that just doesn't sit right with you....

That your intuition just says "this is not right"?

For me...it is men that says that their wife and child died during child birth, I've heard that line more than once. As tragic as that sounds....I just don't think it happens that often.

Anything comes to mind for others, I'm just curious.....

Big red flag "I never thought I could feel such a strong connection with someone I met on the internet"......Run for the hills!!!!!!noway

robert1652's photo
Fri 07/11/08 11:24 AM

But if she hadn't changed her name I would have been greeted by 26 red flags of her past. And surprisingly she's known on this site but is not on here.

One or two are still lurking here

robert1652's photo
Fri 07/11/08 11:26 AM


Yeah, that was like the time I ran into the Jehovah's Witness kid from class. It was his birthday and Halloween, and he had just went away to college.

He was dressed as a clown with cherry cordial sauce dripping down his face, a bottle of night train in one hand and a pillowcase full of candy in the other.

I remember how, in school, he teased me about my bra until I reminded him I celebrated my birthday and all pagan holidays, plus my church service was only 45 mins to his all day event....
bwa ha ha ha ha!!! The football captain went up on meth charges at age 37. The high school homecoming queen that never said boo to me in high school gained 355 pounds and tried to hit on me at the reunion. Told me "My you look great- looks like you lost some weight!" I looked at her ass and said "Looks like you gained what I lost."



laugh laugh stay sharp to the bottom of the glass and you will get them sooner or later nice closure even if a few years later

robert1652's photo
Fri 07/11/08 11:37 AM
It is not very often that I encounter red flag candidates (Not that there is a shortage of them)but I guess of pre-selection process.

What is intriguing is that if any one over and over stumbles over the same mistake and then complains

Sir Winston Churchill has a famous quote for those people.

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:16 PM


Is there anything that you could say that while having a conversation with someone that just doesn't sit right with you....

That your intuition just says "this is not right"?

For me...it is men that says that their wife and child died during child birth, I've heard that line more than once. As tragic as that sounds....I just don't think it happens that often.

Anything comes to mind for others, I'm just curious.....

Big red flag "I never thought I could feel such a strong connection with someone I met on the internet"......Run for the hills!!!!!!noway

I agree, that would make me wonder what in the world they are talking about, especially if it was the very first conversation....

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