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Edited by
Wolfeyes58
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Fri 07/11/08 08:30 AM
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Jo sweetie...those fairytales these guys give out, are nothing more than a way to try and win sympathy and admiration from someone. These guys are classified as mama boys. All they want is to be nurtured by someone that will show them a little attention and when someone does fall for it. Bammm. Guys like this irk me to no means. If you can't be honest with yourself, then don't lie to others. It's not what they want guys. A woman wants someone that will be sincere, honest, trusting and loving. Not someone who wants a piece of tail and all the bs that goes with it. If it works between the two of you, then the tail is a bonus. Those guys like me, that are trying their best to win someone's heart, the others are making it harder with all the bs going around.
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My last date turned into a stalker that had a criminal record and tried to burn my house down 15 months ago. A criminal background check revealed nothing because she legally changed her name 7 years ago to hide from her past discretions. Thank god for my neighbors surveillance cameras. Can't argue with video.  and so what were the red flags for the reason you quit dating her? that is freaky!!
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But if she hadn't changed her name I would have been greeted by 26 red flags of her past. And surprisingly she's known on this site but is not on here.
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I feel so sorry for you and that experience you went thru  ... That can be an indication of a control freak. But at least it happened now instead of later after you were deeply invovled. All men and women are not that way. You will find thta special someone and you will be lost in love  Um, these were but a few examples all from different guys.... LHB.... oh yeah, I am experienced in the red flag department. Definitely fast, running away fast... |
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saying they have a thyroid condition in person and not looking like the photos that are up?
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Jo sweetie...those fairytales these guys give out, are nothing more than a way to try and win sympathy and admiration from someone. These guys are classified as mama boys. All they want is to be nurtured by someone that will show them a little attention and when someond does fall for it. Bammm. Guys like this irk me to no means. If you can't be honest with yourself, then don't lie to others. It's not what they want guys. A woman wants someone that will be sincere, honest, trusting and loving. Not someone who wants a piece of tail and all the bs that goes with it. If it works, then the tail is a bonus. Those guys like me, that are trying their best to win someone's heart, the others are making it harder with all the bs going around. ty Robert |
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saying they have a thyroid condition in person and not looking like the photos that are up? |
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I just saw a profile of a guy who was listed as 41 and I would bet my paycheck he was under 20 in the pic, full head of hair, vinyl shiny 80's jacket..... ONE FROM HIGH SCHOOL, I might add.
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"But I'm lonely. Can you blame me?" "Yes- I can- you lied. Cya!"
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I just saw a profile of a guy who was listed as 41 and I would bet my paycheck he was under 20 in the pic, full head of hair, vinyl shiny 80's jacket..... ONE FROM HIGH SCHOOL, I might add. Tell me......why is that necessary? There always seems to be something that is not the complete truth... |
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When a woman says she's rubenesque does that mean she looks like her brother reuben? Red flag!
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Edited by
lilith401
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Fri 07/11/08 08:22 AM
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I have no idea.... I mean I could see the school logo on the side of the jacket.....
LHB, how about, "I thought you wouldn't meet me if you knew the truth and that once I got here you'd get to know me.....". Of course, sure thing. You are only a liar and have NO self esteem. I find that wildly sexy and erotic, not to mention marriage material.... 
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Deceit besieges deceit
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I have no idea.... I mean I could see the school logo on the side of the jacket..... LHB, how about, "I thought you wouldn't meet me if you knew the truth and that once I got here you'd get to know me.....". Of course, sure thing. You are only a liar and have NO self esteem. I find that wildly sexy and erotic, not to mention marriage material.... |
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Edited by
longhairbiker
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Fri 07/11/08 08:30 AM
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I'm a connesouir dater. I only date the finest and most quality red flag material. (puts nose in air- drinks with pinky outreached.)
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Me too. Only the "bestest" and the "brightest".
I want a guy with no communication skills, an STD, no stable job, wears his pants mid thigh, has eight kids with six women, a criminal record, eats only fast food, plays video games eight hours a day, plays poker online about six more, and drinks Pabst the whole time between runs to his meth dealer. Of course, this is excpt for the times when his mom comes over to clean the house and leave a rent check. |
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Me too. Only the "bestest" and the "brightest". I want a guy with no communication skills, an STD, no stable job, wears his pants mid thigh, has eight kids with six women, a criminal record, eats only fast food, plays video games eight hours a day, plays poker online about six more, and drinks Pabst the whole time between runs to his meth dealer. Of course, this is excpt for the times when his mom comes over to clean the house and leave a rent check. OMG...that is toooo funny!!!! Lilith, at least you still have your sense of humor honey. Obviously we NEED to just sit here and ... just shake our heads...  
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Puffins.... what is really truly cracking me up is when I list my dealbreakers (which include all those I listed and also sports fanatics (ya know, dudes who don't even take calls during the game much less pee, who'd miss the funeral of their own grandma if their team was playing)....
And all the guys said oh you'll never ever meet anyone, no one fits those. Sigh.... |
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And I want a dreamy woman with a relationship trial and error by vagina with 6 kids and 5 daddies on government assistance with a slew of neuroses and psychoses, insecurities and a house strewn with garbage, and dirty diapers and extra credit points if she can stack dirty dishes in the sink better than 'jenga'. I can't wait to give my love to that woman that is so bi polar that I have to take all the steak knives out of the drawer and stick them in the ceiling out of her reach just so I can sleep soundly at night listening to the marbles rolling around in her head.
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Puffins.... what is really truly cracking me up is when I list my dealbreakers (which include all those I listed and also sports fanatics (ya know, dudes who don't even take calls during the game much less pee, who'd miss the funeral of their own grandma if their team was playing).... And all the guys said oh you'll never ever meet anyone, no one fits those. Sigh.... Why does it seem like WE have to conform, what ever happened to give and take in a relationship??? I'm tired of feeling used, I'm just not going to let that happen anymore. Ok. I'm done b1tching!!!  
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