That "DATE MARRIED WOMEN" thing is soooo sick. I'd love to slap you MODS around for that one.

I get the best results when I say I'm 45. that way you get all kinds of girls sayin "nuh uh" and it gets them talkin to ya.

I'm lyin, I really am 45........................

Apparently, someone keeps clicking it, or else Google Ads would stop displaying it... Hey, the JSH guys gotta feed their families too

That "DATE MARRIED WOMEN" thing is soooo sick. I'd love to slap you MODS around for that one.

as many people are on here, are as many answers there can be for this. everyone is looking for something, be it dating, a relationship, marriage, friends...or yes, even intimate encounters. when 2 people cross paths with the same intent and click, then, hopefully, it works for them. i, personally, don't have age as a requirement, maturity and immaturity can be found in all ages. to me it's chemistry, plain and simple.

Faustino, I can't think of a narrowed formula, proper ratio, or fine point to put on ANY demographic's chance at success.

It's southern California granola dreamy fruity nutty flakey, but I think any success stories have and will be more indicative of "your" chosen pseudonym.

No Hun, this isn't about requirements, this is based off of truth. From this site alone without any real bias, but what is gained through experience to share with me as well as other in light of hope. How one would better succeed. For me, I feel I get a long with older women better, but my age hinders me for a shot as success. The young ones around my age get distracted too easily, as they are still discovering what it is they want.


There is one particular young lady here who I have sent emails back and fourth to who has caught my eye. Though from what I have seen, I doubt it will go far, as this person seems uncertain of what their true intent and purpose on this site is.

Times of personal realization can sometimes bring ugly feelings to surface, so I only ask that others shed their light through their knowledge and experiences to help me clear my weary eyes so that I may be alert with knowledge for success.

Should some of us take this site seriously and kill hours upon hours hoping for something worthwhile at our age? Or should we acknowledge this is going to be nothing more than a site to make new friends and use our time more wisely in stepping outdoors and facing that jungle of a world in hopes of hunting down that beautiful beast you seek?


By the way, I know that last sentence was like the longest one in history, but I didn't know where to throw a period in there to cut it down, so.........

so, with all that said (and eloquently i add), i still go back to my original post. we're just two lost souls living in a fish bowl, year after year...

What do you suppose the best age range is for a better shot as success for this site?


I want to hear men's opinions and women's, though I ask that if you submit your thoughts, give a reason as to why you feel this is the best age range for this site (example; I believe 25-32 is the best age range, because there are more singles and "any other benefits to what your eyes or experiences have earned you as a member")

I also ask that you may as many age ranges as you please, but in all fairness of seeking a specific "Top" age range, you go in no more than 1 range = 1 group of 6-8years. For example (18-24,25-32...etc.)

Thanks, inquiring minds want to know.

So would it be safe to say the appropriate age for those (generally speaking) that are actually seeking committed love usually fall from most ages from 30+?

I feel that perhaps some of the younger people, even in my respective age category, hope for love, but may not be ready. As they know that fire inside will come in due time, they are still discovering themselves.

So the reason why there are less success with youth can be based on that theory? I suppose I could just be content with the feeling of being though of, while excited and eager to talk to someone again, like that feeling when I was a young (Okay, I am young, but younger) boy.


I am too deep right now in thought... I am going to do something stupid real fast just to break it up a bit.... Hmmmm... What to do, what to do...??