Topic: & just WTH is WRONG w/having a BEER?????
boneyjoe's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:28 PM
lmao,,thats from lots of pratice

Neurofriction's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:28 PM
Ok do I need to stalk you here too? Will that make you happy?

franshade's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:29 PM

Honestly I would question the one that told you that and find out who actually said it.

For we all know that the ones that really have a drinking problem hide it they don't advertise it shshsshh.

Tell them to get a life go have a drink and sit on the bottle :banana: drinks :banana:


cheers Tx well put drinks

Dragoness's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:31 PM
I guess it comes from perspective. I have met people who SAY they only have a beer now and then but once you live with them you discover that they drink themselves into oblivion every night. So to the drinker they only drink on occasion but to the observer it is a whole different picture.

I see nothing wrong with a beer now and then. I drink probably three or four times a year. But I do have a problem with an alchoholic in denial in a serious relationship.

No offense intended here at all. Not saying anyone has a drinking problem just speaking from past personal experience.

It depends on the personal perspective.

Peekinin's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:34 PM
hey,,I'm a bartender,,,

Drink updrinker drinker laugh laugh laugh

Seriously,,is this not an "adult" site?huh And a community full of WONDERFULLY different personality's and backgrounds?!?!?!?

"Judge not least you be judged"

"Don't judge a book by its cover (picture)"

Peaceflowerforyou

Unique2468's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:34 PM
Being judgemental on here is called having standards. It means you don't have to ask questions, despite the majority of the profiles saying 'ask me anything'. for a dating site, alot of people are to afraid of wasting there time getting to know people, and the reasons behind things. It provides me with hours of endless amusement. It's far easier to skip a profile then to ask about the picture(s).

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:35 PM

{{{{fade}}}} I'm going to tell you whats wrong with it..





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because it's only 1 drinks you should never drink alone

:banana:


Well then where are ya? rofl rofl

chevylover1965's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:35 PM

I prefer this version of the last verse


"Hey I didn't mean
To cause a big scene
Just wait till I finish this glass
Sweet little lady I'll head back to the bar
And you can kiss my a$$"


drinker
drinks

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:36 PM

This is just a guess .But perhaps they think because you chose to use a pic of you drinking. That you are very proud of the fact that you drink. And a person that proud of it does it to much or to often.


I should live in Europe. drool

mommyof1's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:38 PM
nothing wrong with it!! Don't worry about what someone else said...you know who YOU are! drinks

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:45 PM

Honestly I would question the one that told you that and find out who actually said it.

For we all know that the ones that really have a drinking problem hide it they don't advertise it shshsshh.

Tell them to get a life go have a drink and sit on the bottle :banana: drinks :banana:



LMAO .. I might try that shades

franshade's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:49 PM
Fade also remember those who talk behind your back are also 2 steps behind you enjoying the view.

People will always think what they want, some are open minded while others are not.

take it with a grain of salt and some lime!!!!!!!!

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:49 PM

Being judgemental on here is called having standards. It means you don't have to ask questions, despite the majority of the profiles saying 'ask me anything'. for a dating site, alot of people are to afraid of wasting there time getting to know people, and the reasons behind things. It provides me with hours of endless amusement. It's far easier to skip a profile then to ask about the picture(s).


Well let me clarify.

The person was not interested in 'dating' me. And didn't ask me personally. It was a comment made to someone else.

I DO have high standards. Having a beer with pizza, or when shooting pool, or on a hot afternoon is no big deal.

Having a glass of wine at night is even encouraged by drs..yep.

BUT .. I've also seen on here where a person will not even consider getting to know a person just because they have a beer bottle in a pic with them .. for goodness sakesnoway noway

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:51 PM

nothing wrong with it!! Don't worry about what someone else said...you know who YOU are! drinks



You know Ruth, I don't worry. I just got pissed off that people are so friggin shallow.

I HATE ASS - U - ME behavior pitchfork frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

no photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:51 PM

or that it would be a deal breaker for a date ..


It is for me. I've lost too many people I cared about, because of their alcohol use. I don't want it in my life, I don't want it around me.

It's a personal preference. Is it judgmental? I don't know; I'm probably not the best one to ask. All I know is I don't want to sit there and watch another loved one die because of it.


Fade2Black's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:57 PM


or that it would be a deal breaker for a date ..


It is for me. I've lost too many people I cared about, because of their alcohol use. I don't want it in my life, I don't want it around me.

It's a personal preference. Is it judgmental? I don't know; I'm probably not the best one to ask. All I know is I don't want to sit there and watch another loved one die because of it.





I respect your opinion lex. That's cool.

But not wanting to date someone who drinks when you don't is one thing. I can see wanting to date within your interests.

I wouldn't date a smoker.

But to talk behind my back and ask someone else IF I had a drinking problem is what I'm saying ..

Geesh ...........

I'm gonna build a wine cellar next pitchfork frustrated

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:57 PM

Fade also remember those who talk behind your back are also 2 steps behind you enjoying the view.

People will always think what they want, some are open minded while others are not.

take it with a grain of salt and some lime!!!!!!!!



Thanks Fran .. lol

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:58 PM
Everyone! Come to anarchy land, we have no rules! http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/138048

DirkGently's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:59 PM
a beer, not a problem.
smoking? next!

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 06/26/08 06:02 PM

Everyone! Come to anarchy land, we have no rules! http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/138048



glad I could platform your cause rofl rofl rofl rofl